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posted February 12, 2006 04:44 PM            

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I need help! what is the deal with those cusps? His birthday on March 23 and I am on March 3 . I am so head over heals with him. He knows that I care a lot about him, but he keeps our relationship confused and casual. We talk on the phone almost everyday or every other day. He says let's try to be friends first snd then see what happends. HE talks a lot about us going there, doing this but it;s just talk, and I so upset with his behavior sometimes. He knows what I want from him , it's serious relationship. I need to know what should I do or how should I act with those type of people(cusps)I don't want to loose him. I want to show him that he can loose me if he will not start giving me more attention! He feels very comfortable that I always available and like him, and his ego is so high.

We mostly talk on the phone and see each other once twice a month. Our friendship kind of strange, He was at my house only one time, I came over his twice and stayed over night. It was after three months we met. I guess back then he needed to get laid?! Then we didn't speak like for 4 months. He called me after 4 months and we started talking since then(it's been 5 months now)in total we know each other 1year and 2 months. HE knows a lot about me, I know less than 50% about him.Lately he started picking on my words, critisizing me. Annoyed with me.I have been a b-tch to him at times. I met one Kabbala Rabi and he told me that this guy is in the book of destiny.Meaning that he is the one for me. I told this to this guy, he didn't freaked out. He told me that he is lost and confused about things. I have a suspicion that he might be bisexual. I am afraid to speak about this with him. Although he makes such weird remarks sometimes. He asks if we have cute girls, cute guys at my work? I say yes.and then I say OH My GOD! HE says you don't understand jokes? I didn't give you a reason to think about me that I might be gay. I am so confused with him. But I care for him a lot. I gave him a Christmas presents. his ego is now way on the top.(he knows how I fell about him and that was my mistake from the begining.) I said I do not excpect presents from him. Stupid. I am sorry for such a long letter. Thanks for all of your suggestions.
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posted February 12, 2006 06:35 PM              

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I personally dont believe in cups your either 1 sign or another the sun cant be in to places at the same time. On the other matter i dont know what to tell you, I hope everything turns out good. Maybe the guys here can help you if you posts both your birthdays

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posted February 12, 2006 10:27 PM            

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I did posted our birthdays: I was born on march 3rd 1974 time 6:00-6:30am, he march 23 1973 time- 11:00am

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posted February 13, 2006 12:36 PM              

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Liz,
I understand how you might be feeling getting such mixed signals. I think the situation is bit better as he has at least told you to be friends. I understand that it may be very hard on you to see the relation from eyes of a friend.
Again he might be having his own reasons for shying away from a committed relation. If you can handle this for a while and validate if anything changes, then better wait. Else if it’s so difficult for you, it’s better to go away (though it might be hard). If he comes back with a commitment it is better than a half baked relationship. Let love be free flowing, if it comes back to you, you heart would surely be blessed.

I am not sure how astrologically, cusps would fair. I think he might be an Aries, which you could validate based on his behaviors.

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posted February 13, 2006 04:08 PM            

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so how do I let him know now that I still care for him after I've e-mailed him saying that I am sick and tired of his B-ll sh-t. I am willing to wait, however I am 32 this march and I'm not 20 years old and I do want kids.

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posted February 14, 2006 06:46 PM            

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He says that he fells that he has some Pisces traits in him. He says that he is true Cusp
I actually sow it too.Like Undecisive, Softness, caring, sentitive.

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