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allycat11
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posted March 03, 2006 04:20 PM

Hi All!
I've recently been able to put a name to a lot of my fears, i have a fear of commitment.
it's with pretty much everyone in my life though.
I was wondering if anyone can help me to see some aspects in my chart regarding this, as i don't really know where to begin.

november 9, 1981
11:58 PM
Montreal, Canada

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion

Sun Scorpio 17°42'44 03 direct
Moon Aries 23°16'21 09 direct
Mercury Scorpio 00°56'28 03 direct
Venus Capricorn 04°47'35 05 direct
Mars Virgo 11°29'06 01 direct
Jupiter Libra 26°33'21 03 direct
Saturn Libra 17°00'16 02 direct
Uranus Scorpio 29°36'50 04 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 23°15'58 04 direct
Pluto Libra 25°11'36 03 direct
True Node Cancer 25°00'03 11 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 00°01'41
2nd House Virgo 21°45'11
3rd House Libra 19°06'52
Imum Coeli Scorpio 22°36'24
5th House Sagittarius 29°01'13
6th House Aquarius 02°10'21
Descendant Pisces 00°01'41
8th House Pisces 21°45'11
9th House Aries 19°06'52
Medium Coeli Taurus 22°36'24
11th House Gemini 29°01'13
12th House Leo 02°10'21

Major aspects
Sun Sextile Mars 6°14
Moon Opposition Mercury 7°40
Moon Opposition Jupiter 3°17
Moon Opposition Saturn 6°16
Moon Trine Neptune 0°00
Moon Opposition Pluto 1°55
Moon Trine Ascendant 6°45
Mercury Sextile Venus 3°51
Mercury Conjunction Jupiter 4°23
Mercury Conjunction Pluto 5°45
Mercury Sextile Ascendant 0°55
Venus Trine Ascendant 4°46
Jupiter Sextile Neptune 3°17
Jupiter Conjunction Pluto 1°22
Jupiter Sextile Ascendant 3°28
Uranus Square Ascendant 0°25
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°56
Pluto Sextile Ascendant 4°50

Any help/insights would be fantastic, thanks

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sensitivity isn't about being wimpy. it's about being so painfully aware that a flea landing on a dog is like a sonic boom.
-JB

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jkxx
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posted March 03, 2006 04:33 PM

Hi allycat,

"fear of commitment" generally indicates we're afraid of losing some or all of our freedom. Typically there are some hard aspects to Uranus that precipitate that.

In your chart Uranus forms an opposition to your Moon, indicating that you crave emotional excitement and stimulation from others, but also that you actually feel threatened by any situation requiring commitment. Uranus itself is positioned in an anaretic degree, which could make its influence even more forceful and sudden in expression.

Another possibility is that your upbringing and home environment was unstable or emotionally surprising to you in some unpleasant way (Uranus in the 4 opposing the MC and Moon), which has colored your views on commitment. Generally with an aspect like that you can still enter into a relationship, but your partner will have to become aware of your need for freedom and independence very early on.

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