posted March 11, 2006 03:52 PM              

I have a history of being abused by my aunt when I was 9yo. She tells me it's because I was playing a mentally-retarded trick on her that caused me to get hit (or get slapped by belts or sticks) Is there an Astrological Connection that caused my aunt to be abusive? I heard Saturn was to blame...but I could be half wrong or half right.

Second, Pidaua (from other thread) told me that she has a friend who had heavy confrontations with his family and ex-wife.

I would like to respond on a similar setting. When I was in my mid-teens, I was repetitiously neglected by a few foster parents (I was in foster care after I left the Residental Treatment Center at that time) because they don't respect my freedom and making fun of me for a multitude of reasons. The first family I went were devout christians, the second family was a working-class setting and neglected me for unknown reasons. The only foster mother I respected is a devoted person who reminds me of my grandmother (I have 2 of them actually-One was Ms. Baker, who passed away, and the other is Ms. McCleod, who is still living).
The very first time I stayed, it was difficult. The second time, it was tolerable because she respected my privacy.

I think this is it. Feel free to ask me anything if I left anything out...

posted March 11, 2006 04:03 PM              

Pluto conjunct MC (or AC) - if your (foster) parents were obsessively-controlling

Pluto-Sun (esp. hard aspects) - denotes abandonment by the father and life struggle with authority figures, identity-related disorders (this one has been proven beyond reasonable doubt)

Pluto-Moon - will usually damage relations with the mother, esp. in a hard aspect, violent emotions that could lead to depression/bipolar/suicidal premeditation later on

Pluto-Mercury - secrecy involving siblings you never met, being lied to at an early age, general sense of secrecy/mistrust inside what you consider your family, could produce obsessive-compulsive thinking

Pluto-Venus - (don't have this myself, going off of people I know) - manipulation/violating behavior in relationships or overly obsessive attitude from parents regards relationships

Pluto-Mars - having had to endure physical violence/abuse or threats to one's life, being around explosions/nuclear fallout