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freebird
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posted April 04, 2006 07:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A Person is what choices he/ she makes.

So my question is when you have options and have to make ANY decision.Which need you would keep first or what would motivate to do something.

I know some would answer intuition but I am asking that decision would fulfill which needs.

I am not sure whether you understand the question or not but for me at different time it has been my family(Cancer Moon) OR Need of Security and I have made wrong choices because of them too.


Do you go with your Moon (feelings), Sun (Ego), Jupiter (Need for Education,Money, Material comforts), Venus (Love) , Pluto
(Sex), Uranus ( Need to do something new), Mars ( Action, Adventure) so on.
What takes center stage in all the decisions till now you made?

I also wish to know what affects us more Sun or Moon. Since Sun is far and bigger whereas Moon is closer but smaller than Sun.

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Nihilive
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posted April 04, 2006 10:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honesty and integrity of my character. I'd like to be recognized for my accomplishments especially if they were made being honest and upfront.

I am a very stand up guy and wouldn't be very astute to being looked upon otherwise. I also will call people out that are not honest to make sure their facade is recognized and known to those who might be taken advantage of because of it.

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freebird
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posted April 04, 2006 11:11 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nihilive : It's good to hear from you. Honesty...see different things really drives different people.

Do you have any planets in Sag though ? Honesty a Sag trait. I just know you are Taurus. I had seen your pic. What are your other placements.

More replies....if it's not too much to ask but ages too. Did anytime your prioriities change in life?

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maroon_flower
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posted April 04, 2006 11:26 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow.. very nice Nihilive ! There ought to be more real men like u in my city!

Hmm.. for me, its definitely a 'Go with the gut feeling' ... no matter what or who or where, if it doesnt feel right, then I wont go along with it. I find prayers also help a lot, esp when I find myself at cross-roads and the inner peace seems slightly shaken...

All in all, at the end of the day, I want to have a clear concience and a good nights sleep- hence, I try very hard to be true to my innerself.

Scorp sun/Piscean moon

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Nihilive
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posted April 04, 2006 11:43 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No matter how much someone may wrong me in my dealings in life I will always keep my integrity. Two wrongs don't make a right and whereas I see many people in this world are set upon revenge on those who hurt them that leads me to believe that is the root of perpetuating evil in this world.

If more people were honest to themselves and weren't out for vengeance so often we'd probably have a lot more peace in this world.

As for asking about Sag in my charts, here is a copy of my chart so you can have a look. Feel free to analyze my outlook!

Sun Taurus 15°36'35 12 direct
Moon Aries 18°13'57 12 direct
Mercury Aries 28°03'16 12 direct
Venus Gemini 11°43'43 01 direct
Mars Capricorn 16°59'31 09 direct
Jupiter Pisces 16°20'03 11 direct
Saturn Sagittarius 07°57'18 07 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 21°43'53 08 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 05°35'26 08/9 retrograde
Neptune is technically near the end of house 8 and is interpreted in house 9.
Pluto Scorpio 05°41'40 06 retrograde
True Node Taurus 00°00'33 12 direct

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Taurus 19°04'56
2nd House Gemini 16°04'33
3rd House Cancer 06°57'44
Imum Coeli Cancer 27°46'31
5th House Leo 23°11'44
6th House Virgo 29°47'28
Descendant Scorpio 19°04'56
8th House Sagittarius 16°04'33
9th House Capricorn 06°57'44
Medium Coeli Capricorn 27°46'31
11th House Aquarius 23°11'44
12th House Pisces 29°47'28

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Nihilive
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posted April 04, 2006 11:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As for priorities changing in life, I am still fairly young, nearly 20, but I can see that in my young adulthood and adolescence I was usually always brutally honest. My priorities used to just be a very prominent person in society, but they had recently, within the past 3-4 years, shifted to just aspiring to be a good person.

Sure I am pretty biased and judgmental, but when it comes down to it I am a compassionate and loving person. The people in the world are so misguided and corrupt and I'd like to think that I can change the world, my world, by merely changing who I am in this world rather than forcing others to change.

Once we are able to focus on making ourselves better people, only then, will we change the world.

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maroon_flower
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posted April 04, 2006 11:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very nicely put, I reckon. And a very good goal to strive for indeed.

I always thought Aries was the courageous young one- the idealist that seemed to believe in the simplicity of life.

Scorp Sun,Piscean Moon,Taurus rising,Scorp Merc,Venus Sag,Mars Aries.

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AcousticGod
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posted April 04, 2006 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1. Freedom

    Freedom is a constant motivator for me. Often my choices reflect this desire not to be tied down.
    This is very much tied to my Gemini Ascendant, but could also be said to be partly due to my three Sag placements.

2. Integrity


    Regardless of my desire for freedom I do concentrate on being a consistent person in my actions. It's a source of great pride and security knowing that people can count on me to be reliably me.
    I'd attribute this to my Capricorn Sun. It's influence is not only a rock for me, but for others as well, and I love that.

3. Perfectionism


    I like to do things right the first time, and I'm typically able to pull that off.
    This could be attributed to my Virgo Moon, but I think it's also a Capricornian trait. At times I think my Sag and Libra influences give me a broader scope with which to look at a problem with. My Sag influences may fowl up my more political decisions, and cause me to act against my best intentions with regard to relationships with people from time to time (i.e. revealing someone else's secret, or just talking in general when it would be smarter to remain quiet), but when it comes to non-relational problems I can generally see the best way to handle something quickly (Cap + Gem = Practical, fast thinking).

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I also wish to know what affects us more Sun or Moon.

Sun definitely. I have strong emotions, but I tribute very little to my Moon.

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victoriasgirl1
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posted April 04, 2006 12:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Usually honesty, but if I strongly intuit something, then I'll go w/my intuition.

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neval3000
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posted April 04, 2006 01:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
freebird;

when i decide (or can not be decide-i habe many libras..) in my characater most dominate thing is my mercury...i analyse everything...i dont behave my feelings..but when i start my moon runs tý help me(mercury scorpio in 11 th house and moon aries in 4 th house..)so i analyse in cold mental level and my aries moon exited to me to be ideal..and my mars sagitt make me funny...bu i have venus,saturn,pluto,jupiter and MC is in libra..i think...i think... tihnk....i think...than from the first point..analysing...

i have that..

take care...

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Dulce Luna
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posted April 04, 2006 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Usually I go with my gut...its never wrong

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Azalaksh
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posted April 04, 2006 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nihilive ~

I liked what you wrote:

quote:
I'd like to think that I can change the world, my world, by merely changing who I am in this world rather than forcing others to change.
I feel the same. You cannot change other people, nor save them from themselves. My goal is to be the best me I can be, and set an example others may wish to follow. Reminds me of a Sister Hazel song:
If you want to be somebody else,
If you're tired of fighting (losing) battles with yourself
If you want to be somebody else
Change your mind...

Freebird ~

Although the Sun is my chart ruler and part of my Libra stellium, I usually fly/float by the seat of the pants of my Piscean Moon, which is opp both Venus and Mars. Mars in the 1st did not often help me to make rational well-thought-out decisions but as I’ve gotten older I’ve learned to look a bit longer before leaping. My MO in my younger years was generally “Good judgment comes from experience, and experience comes from bad judgment.” I’m sure Uranus has a part in my decision-making too, since it's trine my Moon and Mercury and I’m comfy with spur-of-the-moment activity….. and I usually end up doing things emotionally, with love and vigor

‘Zala

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freebird
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posted April 04, 2006 10:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nihilive : Taureans are so mature and have their own way at doing everything so patiently. It's just great knowing them.

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I am a very stand up guy and wouldn't be very astute to being looked upon otherwise. I also will call people out that are not honest to make sure their facade is recognized and known to those who might be taken advantage of because of it.

Sounds coming from Sag influence and Aries Moon.

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The people in the world are so misguided and corrupt and I'd like to think that I can change the world, my world, by merely changing who I am in this world rather than forcing others to change.

Sounds practical coming from Taurus Sun or Cap mars.

As I find two statments little contradicating them or maybe I didn't get your point of view.

What would you do if in a situatuion where you have changed enough to fit to other people's world but still find that you got cheated by corrupt or dishonest people. Would you fight for honesty or let it go thinking I can't change the world?

I guess I know the answer but would like to know what you have to say.

Acoustic God: Very clear answer. So that means personal planets are helping like Asc,Sun,Moon,etc. Since you have your Moon in the same element maybe it's not so visible but I know people who have Sun and Moon in different elements find it very difficult to deal with their moons.

Neval: So you take decisions or not ? You take it from Moon. I guess.

Dulce Luna: What happens when gut isn't so clear? Not all are so attuned with their own self. I am not. I get misleaded with temptation or fears of my own or others.

Zala :

quote:

“Good judgment comes from experience, and experience comes from bad judgment.”

Is it because we have Libra influence. I can completely relate to that one.

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cancerrg
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posted April 05, 2006 08:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i think , initailly its the sun and the asc. influence me the most then comes the moon effect.
most of the decisions that i make,besides the business one, are emotional ,family oriented . even some business decisions were made keeping in mind the feelings.(sun,merc and jup in cancer )

in romantic relations , i feel so possessive , thats the leo in venus .thats the only time that i feel jealous otherwise i feel i am a very self content type .

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shirty
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posted April 05, 2006 08:53 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sort of new to this so I'll just post my answer along with my information and someone can find a correlation between the two!

I find that a lot of my decision-making comes from my need to try something new. I am always longing for a new experience.. I find it hard to stay focused at times. However, when I find something (or someone) that really intrigues me I have a VERY hard time letting it/them go. I am trying to work on this, but it's not easy. For example, if I am in a relationship where I feel a certain connectedness with the person right off the bat (or have run into them so many times in the past that I feel there must be a connection between us), and then the person starts backing away into a mood, I freak out. This is happening to me right now with a Cancer-Leo and I am very lost trying to decide what to do because I just can't let go.

Sorry for the rant, haha, I'll clarify as needed. Here's my info:

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Sagittarius 23°46'32 05 direct
Moon Gemini 21°08'20 11 direct
Mercury Sagittarius 08°46'43 05 direct
Venus Scorpio 11°47'55 04 direct
Mars Pisces 13°39'28 08 direct
Jupiter Pisces 15°17'44 08 direct
Saturn Sagittarius 13°33'03 05 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 22°38'19 05 direct
Neptune Capricorn 05°05'07 05 direct
Pluto Scorpio 09°00'56 04 direct
True Node Aries 18°43'37 09 retrograde


House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Leo 09°18'08
2nd House Leo 29°15'24
3rd House Virgo 24°01'32
Imum Coeli Libra 25°38'00
5th House Sagittarius 02°52'13
6th House Capricorn 09°00'11
Descendant Aquarius 09°18'08
8th House Aquarius 29°15'24
9th House Pisces 24°01'32
Medium Coeli Aries 25°38'00
11th House Gemini 02°52'13
12th House Cancer 09°00'11

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freebird
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posted April 06, 2006 04:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess
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I am always longing for a new experience.I find it hard to stay focused at times.

(Sag Sun)(Gemini Moon) even Pisces influence

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However, when I find something (or someone) that really intrigues me I have a VERY hard time letting it/them go.

(Venus in Scorp)

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