posted April 15, 2006 06:42 PM            

The possibility of any relationship has either dissolved, or is near dissolving. The wild emotions of her Aries Moon really turned me off, and she got upset that I'm not more passionate about putting myself into the situations where she often caused drama.

Anyway, as it turns out, she has

- 5 planets in my 5th House: Mars, Pluto, Uranus, Mercury, and her Sun.

- 3 Planets in my 6th: Jupiter, Venus, and Neptune

- Moon in my 11th (My Moon is also in her 11th)

- Saturn in my 12th

- I have 3 planets in her 1st House: Mars, Neptune and Venus

- Sun and Mercury in her 2nd house

- Jupiter in her 3rd

- Moon & Pluto in her 11th house

- Uranus in her 12th

- Saturn in her 8th

posted April 15, 2006 11:54 PM            

I hope this experience doesn't sour you on Librans permanently Most of us aren't drama queens.....

posted April 16, 2006 12:24 AM            

I do still think about and worry about getting together with Cardical signs, though. I mean, I understand that with two Cardinal signs that there are two distinct agendas, but I don't think the Cardinal signs I'm with ever understand that.

It would be great to get together with someone who was into astrology. That would be ideal.

posted April 16, 2006 01:07 AM              

My thoughts are always to simplify. So, in y your case, we have four situations:
- Her planets focused in your 5th house (self-expression, also dating)

- Her planets focused in your 6th house (daily work)

- Her Moon focused in your 11th (friends)

- Her Saturn focused in your 12th (spirituality, also confusion)

Since she has the most planets focused in your 5th house, you may see her first as datable and fun (as you described), but it may also cause "drama" (as you also described).

Seeing her as a "daily work" implies there is some sort of routine about being around her, in your eyes. The type of routine would be expansive (Jupiter), relating (Venus), and spiritual/confusing/idealized (Neptune). This could cause a routine of expansive confusion about the relationship.

Since where the Moon is focused is where there is change, with the Moon focused in your 11th house, this could feel like an "on again, off again" friendlship (this might be what you called "The wild emotions of her Aries Moon").

Since the 12th house is sometimes called the "hidden house", planets which are there can be hard to "see". With her Saturn (duty, also restriction) there, you might feel she restricts you somehow, with no warning.

Looking at it from her point of view we have six situations:

- Your planets are focused in her 1rst house (being, also action)

- Your planets are focused in her 2nd house (physical, also values)

- Your Jupiter focuesd in her 3rd house (thinking, also talking)

- Your Saturn is focused in her 8th house (transformation, also sex)

- Your planets are focused in her 11th house (friends)

- Your Uranus is focused in her 12th house (spirituality, also confusion)

So she is very aware of YOU, and sees YOU as active (Mars), spiritual/confusing/idealized (Neptune) and relating (Venus). This could indicate her thinking of your as an actively idealized relationship.

A focus in the 2nd house could indicate she sees you as sharing her values in some way.

Jupiter (expansion) focused in the 3rd house (thinking, also talking) could be her seeing you as over-talking in some way: giving too many details or doing too much talking.

Saturn (duty, also restriction) focused in the 8th house (transformation, also sex) could indicate she sees you as sexually restricting her somehow.

Moon in the 11th we have mentioned, but Pluto (transformation, also power) focused in the 11th house (friends) might indicate she feels you overpower her in the friendship somehow.

Uranus (friends, also rebellion) focused in the 12th house ("hidden house") could indicate she sees you as having sudden "outbursts" out of nowhere.

Of course, I am ONLY looking at house focuses. Looking at the aspect interconnections will give will give you a clearer picture. But I think some issues are already visible that would need to be worked on by BOTH people in the relationship for this relationship to succeed.

Relating in houses,

posted April 16, 2006 04:55 AM              

i am an aries moon;sun scorpio;rising asc..and many people says i am wild
i had bfriend with libra moon for 5 years..we learned many things from each other..it is interesting ;he said me that thing:wild...libra moon;make people kind and so sensitivie..i always thought he is not deep as me ..but it can be reason for my scorpio sun...and there are so dramas between us:tears,gifts,friendships(he has sagg sun with taurus rising.),and of course love....our placements are so stressfull..we had many conflicts...and as ihave so many libras i could be calm sometimes..

we broked up ; he hurt my feelings;i thought that he did not consider me;becuse i am live type;you know aries moon impulsive;immediate decisions;acting..and he thought so much;he could not decide quick now;it is lovely;but it became a pain for me..

anyway;that was past..

good luck to you!

take care.

posted April 16, 2006 01:36 PM            

She is the same. Libra with Scorpio Rising. Venus, Jupiter and Neptune also in Scorpio.

posted April 16, 2006 05:44 PM              

Feel free to ask what you want and I will answer what I can! You can start a new thread with "Tim" somewhere in it and I will give you my thoughts.

Trying to help,

posted April 16, 2006 07:31 PM              

No useful insights I'm afraid, but just wanted to wish you the best of luck with this really and hope you had a relatively drama-free Easter! You're a truly lovely man and I wish you all the happiness you deserve

With my Cappy Moon conjuncting your Sun I can appreciate where you're coming from in terms of drama-free relationships! You're dead right about Cardinal to Cardinal pairings being tough to handle and I think you are definitely right that your Libra girl could be stressed by her own Sun/Moon opposition. I square myself both ways from my Libran Sun to my Asc in Cancer and Cappy Moon and it makes for a confusing time I can tell you!

But she'll find her balance somehow with that Libran Sun. Her Venus in Scorp (same as me) will certainly make for some exciting moments! Lol

Anyway, take care and hope it all turns out the way you want it to.