posted April 16, 2006 09:45 PM            

In my houses...

- They have 2 planets in my 1st House: Moon and Mercury.

- 3 Planets in my 2nd House: Mars, Sun, and Pluto.

- Venus in my 3rd House.

- 3 Planets in my 4th House: Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune.

- Jupiter in my 10th House.

And in their houses...

- I have my Moon in their 1st House.

- Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune in their 2nd House.

- Venus and Mars in their 3rd House.

- Sun in their 5th House.

- Mercury in their 6th House.

- Jupiter in their 7th House.

- Pluto in their 12th House.

posted April 17, 2006 01:42 AM              

House focuses in synergy simply shows where a person's energy is focused...it doesn't show the energy itself. To see that, look at the aspects between the planets of the two people.

In looking at challenges in house focuses, it helps to look at places where one person's planets are focused in DIFFERENT houses. This indicates places where one person feels "focused on" where the other person doesn't.

In this example:
You both have focuses in 1rst, 2nd, and 3rd house, so you both felt similarly focuses there. The differences in focus are:

In your chart:
- Their planets focused in your 4th house (home, also emotions)

- Their planets focused in your 10th house (duty, also authority)

This indicates you felt an emotional attachment and maybe an authority from them that they didn't feel from you.

In their chart:
- Your planet focused in their 5th house (self-expression)

- Your planet focused in their 6th house (daily work)

- Your planet focused in their 7th house (relationships)

- Your planet focused in their 12th house (the "hidden house")

This indicates this person felt self-expressive, perhaps created some type of routine with you, and may have had a strong connection to you. Pluto (transformation, also control), however, might indicate that they felt you were trying to secretly "control them" somehow. This sense of being "controlled" would have seemed to come out of nowhere to them since they can't "see" the Pluto energy. All these things you didn't feel from them.

If you still miss this person and see them every now and then, maybe make an attempt to talk to the preson see how THEY saw the "breakup" between you happen. This could help to explain/confirm the astrology and just might get you back together again!

Hoping for the best between you,