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Girl of the Water
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posted April 23, 2006 09:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, I'm trying to compare the charts between me and my boyfriend, and all I see is Square after Square between us. We've had some difficult times and decisions to make, but we've stuck through it and things are perfect as of now. So I was thinking, maybe the Squares caused the obstacles we had. There was a good number of trines and sextiles, though, too.

But I probably sound like I don't know what I'm talking about, because the truth is, I don't know if I'm doing this right! I have a program that basically calculates your chart in front of you, but I'm not sure how to use the angles to interpret the aspects and have only been working with theory.

Here's our charts(if the image doesn't show up, I'll simply write out all the angles and planets and everything):

His Chart

My Chart

I got these from the CD-ROM that came along with the book "The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need". What a contradictory title.

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shop22much
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posted April 23, 2006 09:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for shop22much     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Girl of the Water
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posted April 23, 2006 10:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok yea, the images are WAY too small to see unless you happen to be an Eagle, so here it is, in the classic handwritten style:

My Chart:
FIRST HOUSE-
ASCENDANT 29º TAURUS 48'
VENUS 14º GEMINI 20'

SECOND HOUSE-
MERCURY 26º GEMINI 18'

THIRD HOUSE-
SUN 17º CANCER 16'

SIXTH HOUSE-
PLUTO 09º SCORPIO 47'

EIGHT HOUSE-
SATURN 27º SAGITTARIUS 54'
URANUS 28º SAGITTARIUS 18'
NEPTUNE 08º CAPRICORN 34'

MIDHEAVEN 07º AQUARIUS 21'

ELEVENTH HOUSE-
MARS 27º PISCES 50'

TWELTH HOUSE-
MOON 22º TAURUS 26'
JUPITER 27º TAURUS 41'


His Chart:
FIRST HOUSE-
ASCENDANT 04º SAGITTARIUS 48'
SATURN 18º SAGITTARIUS 51'
URANUS 24º SAGITTARIUS 21'

SECOND HOUSE-
NEPTUNE 05º CAPRICORN 51'

FIFTH HOUSE-
MOON 20º ARIES 20'
JUPITER 22º ARIES 32'

MIDHEAVEN 06º VIRGO 31'

ELEVENTH HOUSE-
MARS 16º LIBRA 55'
MERCURY 27º LIBRA 54'

TWELTH HOUSE-
PLUTO 09º SCORPIO 57'
SUN 11º SCORPIO 04'
VENUS 00º SAGITTARIUS 06'(since this is so close to the border, some intrepretations tell me this might as well be in the first house)


That's all the charts can tell me. Any tips or information anyone can give me in the aspects of relationships will be extremely appreciated; I've been working very hard to understand this!

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Girl of the Water
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posted April 23, 2006 10:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you shop22much(haha like the name) I was also thinking this. There were also a couple oppisitions as well, mostly having to do with Pluto. But I'm trying to understand how to figure out the aspects of a chart, so I don't know whether or not I'm doing this right anyway. xP

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shop22much
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posted April 23, 2006 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for shop22much     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it'd be easier with birthdates/cities/times.

for example:
01/01/1980 1:20 pm washington, dc


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Later he would have wondered why she called him absentminded because he could never remember to bring her a gift on her birthday or their anniversary. She's the one who forgot.....that he once told her he loved her.

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Girl of the Water
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posted April 23, 2006 10:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All right, here's my birthdate:

July 9th, 1988, Philadelphia, PA 2:30AM

And his:

November 4th, 1987, Bangkok, Thailand 8:00PM

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wilsontc
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posted April 24, 2006 01:43 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
girl,

Your chart matches your birth data, but his does not seem to. Using the birth information you gave, he has an Ascendant of 15 degrees Gemini. However, if I change his time to AM, it does match your data.

If you need a good chart generator, Astrodienst is one of the best, and it is free on the Net: http://www.astro.com/

I will use the PM time you posted for his birthday.

In doing relationship comparisons, the first step is to understand how each person approaches relationships. This can be seen by looking for Libra, Venus, and the 7th house (all are about relationships) in each chart. In your chart, you have no energy in Libra. You have Venus focused in the 1rst house (being, also action), which could indicate a "conquering" attitude toward relationships. There is no focus on the 7th house, so you don't have relationships for the sake of having relationships.

Your friend has two planets in Libra. He has a least aspected (strong energy) Venus focused in the 6th house (daily work). This indicates his relationship energy does not "connect in" easily to him, possibly making him overdo his relating in some way.. It also indicates he creates routines in his relationships. He has a focus on the 7th house, including Neptune (spirituality, also idealism) focused in the 7th house, indicating he may be looking for a "perfect" relationship and become disappointed when he finds out relationships take hard work to make them work.

The next thing to look at is the relationship chart (your chart is in the middle and his is on the outside). The first thing to look for in relationship charts is any connections between the Sun and Moon by themselves. There is a connection between the Sun and Moon so you are "connected" in some way. The next thing to look for are the aspects made between Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars (also called "personal" planets). You have mostly easy connections between you, which would tend to make the relationship for the most part comfortable between you. Your Mars (being, also action) conjuncts (energy is combined with) his North node (future goals), indicating your actions help him with his future goals.

If the times you posted were correct, you have mostly easy connections between you. Challenges could occur if you tend to "conquer" in relationships (i.e., if you tend to see relationship issues as something to be overcome instead of worked out between you), and if he does not find some way to get in touch with his relationship energy through you. It sounds like you have been working these issues out between the two of you, so most likely you are doing fine!

Giving Another way to do astrology,

Tim

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For information on basic astrological chart interpretation see: http://www.geocities.com/wilsontctc

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astro junkie
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posted April 25, 2006 12:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
About a month ago, I started questioning the Sun/Moon Synastry thing, and how so many of us go there first and get discouraged, and we end up jinxing ourselves at the get-to.

I'm willing to challenge that in general. I mean, there are so many influences in a Chart which can attract and dispel in equal parts...

Perhaps some of it can be attributed to those who have more "fear" of committment/marriage. But like they say, if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.

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Iqhunk
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posted April 25, 2006 09:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
<<if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with>>

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