posted April 29, 2006 04:52 AM            

GAH... I'm completely under his spell.

Interestingly, it dawned on me recently the only 3 other men I have been obsessed with to some degree or another in life we're all born in 1975 (pluto was at about 8 degrees or thereabouts).

My first true love was born in August of that year (Virgo), my first kiss in April ( we had this strange obsession/flirtation with each other that lasted into my 20's) and a guy I had a fling with in my early 20's that I had vivid dreams about months later also in August (Leo).

I realized I would have had this aspect with every one of them.

I also think that in synastry, when together you hit all eachothers ASC/DC & MC/IC, it's a connection that truly affects you to your core in a way that's hard to really grasp until it happens to you.

Arnicka... what you say is true about obsessiveness and Venus/Pluto natal aspects... I have Venus at 19 of Sag and Pluto and 19 of Libra (sextile), and Venus is my chart ruler (Libra asc).