posted April 29, 2006 08:50 PM
breakfast on pluto -I'm paying attention to the general Aspects when it comes to which Planets are involved, I want to pay more attention to the Signs involved (Scorpio, Aries, Libra, Pisces) ...
... There may be "pshy problems", but you have to also understand how the energies of these Signs work together. You have 2 Cardinal Signs, 1 Fixed Sign, and 1 Mutable.
The Mutable Sign is always gonna want to get along with the others. The Fixed Sign is not very willing to give in, and the Cardinal Signs are gonna be the most forceful.
You are a Fixed Scorpio, and he is an Cardinal Aries. They do like the battle, but the Mutable Sign of Pisces doesn't want to battle!
You point out you should get along because since he is a Fire Sun, your having Fire & Air in your Chart should make it easier. And you also point out that since you are a Scorpio, his having "so many Pisces" in his Chart should also make it easier.
But no matter what you do, his Pisces influences are NOT going to conform to your Scorpio ideas. He's an Aries, albeit, a softer Aries...
But don't forget the other Cardinal Sign, Libra, and it's your Moon. Emotions are very important in relationships, and a Libra Moon demands more harmony than a Libra Sun even does!
His Moon doesn't give a *** what your Libra Moon requires. Believe me, there are other women out there who won't mind it a bit who can handle it like another week of laundry. But no matter what, it will always bother your Libra Moon. His Sun is also in Aries.
I guess, working out what his goals are compared to your goals is a start to put you on the same page. But, this is a conversation, you know, asking the question straight up.
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