posted May 08, 2006 07:48 AM              

Please note, while it's a common observation that Sagittarius can be blunt and even tactless, no one has ever said that we have thick skin ourselves. We don't like to show it because to show that we have been hurt is to show the weakness. And it's a little embarassing. Also, in a way it's a form of self-defense. As quick learners we can't help approaching others from this angle and we don't want to give anyone a lesson in WHAT exactly they have to do in order to hurt us again. As for crying in the pillow...well, sometimes loneliness is the price of freedom. And consciously or subconsciously we choose freedom over and over again.

posted May 08, 2006 12:30 PM              

I too won’t be disclosing the hurt feelings to anyone unless I have an intimate relation with someone. Don’t know if that’s due to Sagi Ascendant (with Neptune) or Pisces Sun.

And your post makes me again wonder if my Sagi friend ever has feelings for me or everything gets buried in the pillow

I suggest to have someone close and blurt it out. (quiet Simple to say for me, howerver it may be hard for you)
And Lindaland is always there

posted May 08, 2006 08:28 PM              

Does anybody here find the eg i will tell hurting/making u feel sad :
If a person always ends an email writing"with love" suddenly writes in the next mail as "best wishes".
In the whole mail to me this gets mangnified and contemplate a lot.

i have lots of scorpio in my mercury, venus, uranus i think.

again sags are sd to be messengers and communicators of zodiac but when it coems to communictaing their feelings/hurts esp they are tongue tied and talk as if nothing happened . Oh wat a pity

posted May 08, 2006 11:18 PM            

I have to agree heartily though with Kamilla: "As quick learners we can't help approaching others from this angle and we don't want to give anyone a lesson in WHAT exactly they have to do in order to hurt us again."

It's part not wanting to show weakness and not wanting to be hurt is why we appear strong and resilient. Very few see my tears and they are those whom have earned my complete trust.

posted May 09, 2006 12:50 PM              

I have quit more jobs (just so they wouldnt fire me..lol) written more letters to bosses basically telling them off (in the most professional manner)about what they do wrong.

My mother and I argue about Religion continuously..lol. Its just me. I a fight for the underdog all the time. My temper is like Zeus himself at times...lol. Heck read some of my post, I am not backing down, even when I should.

I think Sagi woman think more (all women think more than men) than Sagi men. Sagi women seem to let things linger longer: "what if, WHEN, HOW" Sagi men just move by the seat of their pants, knowing usually all comes to grips.

My sons mother is a sagi I. I am a Sagi II, such a difference in people, but I would agree with you all that she fits the categories you mentioned above.

It seems that both genders in this case are different, where as a Leo girl seems more to a Sagi Males liking than a Sagi Woman. I just get along better with Leo woman romantically and openly than Sagi woman. ???

SO yes thats why I asked if you were all Female Sagis cause there is such a difference from what I have seen.

posted May 09, 2006 03:37 PM              

Aquarius girls cause they are SO funky,

Pisces girls cause they are all warm and fuzzy,

Aries girls cause they can be ferocious,

Taurus girls cause they buy them beer,

Gemini girls cause they are SO flirty,

Cancer girls cause they take them home and don't get upset if their hero falls asleep
before even getting there.

Virgo girls... No, not really. Well, may be if there is no one else around.

Libra girls cause they are great to show off to friends,

Scorpio girls, oh, yes, dark and sexy....

Capricorn girls cause they always have spare 20 bucks to borrow

posted May 09, 2006 04:48 PM            

"Well, I have to agree with you on all three counts. Although I think in my case it's a combination of Sagittarius Sun and Leo Ascendant. I can be hurt easily but I would never let anyone know, especially the person who inflicted it,how much I was hurt. Out of all my tears, may be 1% was on someone's shoulder and the rest went to the pillow.
Please note, while it's a common observation that Sagittarius can be blunt and even tactless, no one has ever said that we have thick skin ourselves. We don't like to show it because to show that we have been hurt is to show the weakness. And it's a little embarassing. Also, in a way it's a form of self-defense. As quick learners we can't help approaching others from this angle and we don't want to give anyone a lesson in WHAT exactly they have to do in order to hurt us again. As for crying in the pillow...well, sometimes loneliness is the price of freedom. And consciously or subconsciously we choose freedom over and over again.

On the bright side I beleive that for Sagittarius the hurt can be sharp but it's rarely deep and it takes a true tragedy to make us wet the pillow more that one night in the row "

Perfect quote...

As a Sag Sun / Aries Moon / Virgo rising - I couldn't agree more.

posted May 09, 2006 07:21 PM              

Tell me something...how do u act when ur mad? Do you throw tantrums, barely say more than one word for each question, or not speak at all? Do you give the cold shoulder and say things and find that others don't understand you very well? Oh, most importantly....do u go around the bush when ur angry, not wanting to say what's bothering you until the person prys it out of you?

posted May 09, 2006 08:32 PM              

Anyways, when I am upset I want to be left alone. The Fire burns brightly, and I want to be able to step back and take a breather. I become silent until I am calm. If I am really mad, then I will lift weights or take a walk. Physical activity does much to soothe me. My displeasure is great but short-lived.

posted May 10, 2006 01:56 PM              

sag people need to ask for help more