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shop22much
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posted May 12, 2006 09:19 AM
  
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Mama Mia
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posted May 12, 2006 09:51 AM
Oh my Shop we need to talk off the forum...IP: Logged |
shop22much
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posted May 12, 2006 09:53 AM
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mars446
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posted May 12, 2006 09:53 AM
You should've let him know that you heard him, at least the second or third time around. He was probably so nervous about saying the three words that when you said "what?" that he thought you thought he was insane or something (just think of a high school scenario where the guy is confessing to this really popular grl that he loves her, and she looks at him condescendingly and says "what"). Or while the iron is still hot, phone him and tell him to come over...I'm sure he's still thinking about the time you guys were lying next to each other, and confront him about it.IP: Logged |
shop22much
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posted May 12, 2006 09:56 AM
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Mama Mia
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posted May 12, 2006 10:00 AM
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mars446
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posted May 12, 2006 10:04 AM
Oh ok...sorryI thought he probably was very nervous that he thought that way... IP: Logged |
Q
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posted May 12, 2006 01:07 PM
ive got a very aquarian chart...acting distant is a self protective thing...yeah...especially if ive just admitted i need the person. ive done similar stuff before, man. "i love you...i mean, you know, in the universal sense! cause i love all people!" quick cover up, so i can say it and still not get hurt or be vulnerable. so hes probably just being..you know..really aquarius. IP: Logged |
Lynx
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posted May 12, 2006 02:16 PM
I was with an Aquarian guy for a year and he couldn't say I love you. All he could say was, "You know I do." As Aquarian as I am, it bugged the **** out of me. After a year, he wrote an email to multiple addresses, including mine. He signed it, "Love, Nick." To me it was like, if he can use it so casually in a letter, he should be able to tell me he loves me, if he loves me. I just dont have the patience for this ******** anymore. Would rather have a fire sign. Yes. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted May 12, 2006 02:41 PM
Nope Lynx rather you see it or not there is a difference there. Saying it to a group of ppl is ok saying it one on one to a romntic partner is the issue. They are goup ppl always. I posted here something I read about them and it is so true... Aquarian men find it difficult to relax in physical expressions of love. That first goodnight kiss may be a long time materializing. Admittedly, it's often well worth waiting for, and the suspense makes it even more special. But he'll cling to the illusion that he's involved in a nice, safe platonic friendship long after such a palsy-walsy relationship has become impossible for you.
An Aquarian man doesn't want to reveal his true feelings, in spite of his favorite pastime of penetrating the feelings of others. His own reactions and motives are complex, and he intends to keep them that way for the pure pleasure of fooling you. Many strange experiences will come to this man, through both love and friendship, and he'll scrutinize each one avidly. Until you get him to the altar, you're just another experience, another experiment, hard as that may be to take. Don't sniffle. He can be tricked, for all his caution. But before you start tricking him, you'd better try to understand how to cope with his unique outlook about people.
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LuLu
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posted May 12, 2006 08:56 PM
Ohhhh! Shop...so sorry hun. If it makes you want to scream a little more, Mr. Scorp told me he is thinking of nothing but me these days. That he wants to be with me, to lay next to me in my bed, to hold me while he sleeps. Soooooo my answer was.......BREAKUP WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND YOU CAN HAVE WHATEVER YOU WANT. BUT YOU WILL GET NOTHING FOR FREE UNTIL THEN. I patted myself on the back for that one.Hun...it sounds like he is having a really hard time letting you in. But I can understand your frustration at not wanting to get jerked around. Been there, doing that now, don't want to keep doing it. All the hugs and kisses in the world to you right now.  IP: Logged |
Node
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posted May 12, 2006 09:51 PM
Shop sweetie, I feel for you. My [unrequited] is an Aquarius Sun. If you are not getting, or hearing what you need emotionally you HAVE GOT TO TELL HIM. If you do not admit your dissappointment, and let him know straight out-- he is lost as well. Cut to the chase, save your heart. I personally think he said alot. Then his own fears caused him to backpeddle, by saying 'uh you know-- your uh, your skin. He sensed your disappointment and retreated. Tell Him what you need.IP: Logged |
starflower
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posted May 12, 2006 09:57 PM
Oh my -shop..I am Aqua sun with Venus in cappy (it is direct tho)I agree totally with what node said...
and this is so hard for us Aquas...be gentle and patient. We find it so hard to admit/accept emotions like love.Dont forget we want everything to be logical.Love is so not logical. The Venus in Cappy thing fo rme manifests as this - if the other person shows their feelings, I wll start to feel and show mine. If the other person does not show any feelings, well nor will I.It is not some mad stubborn thing, its about needing to feel it from the other person first. My opininon? Your relationship sounds strong...you both need to improve your communications.
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Lynx
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posted May 13, 2006 12:24 AM
You see, at that point in my life, I couldn't say I love you or kiss anyone on the lips unless I really meant it. Anyone. I wouldn't tell friends I loved them at all. They were important but I reserved certain words for certain occasions and certain people.IP: Logged |
Nebel
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posted May 13, 2006 06:30 AM
Oh how I empathize with you!!  I was with an Aqua guy for 4 years. This one could say the three words – but he couldn’t commit. One minute he wants to live together – I move in – two weeks later he says he needs space – he asks me to move out!! This went on for 4 years (I’m such an IDIOT!!). Finally I told him to bugger off & I found an Aries guy who loves me to death & we haven’t spent a night apart since we got together... Good luck with this – but my advice without knowing you or the guy is for you to find someone with whom you can be more comfortable. Take care & good luck Nebel
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double trouble gemini
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posted May 13, 2006 08:19 AM
same here abt the aqua experience,
i had a 5 yr long relationship with an aqua, it was full of ups and downs.... some days i would find him very commited and deep and then he would just run away!! i was so confused abt our relationship, if i confronted him abt his strange moods he would say stuff like 'just leave me alone, let me live my life, what do u want frm me ?why do u keep comming after me, let me breath, i need to get away from u ,u r annoying me or even destroying me!!'
i was like ok and i would break up with him.... after 2 days he would come back and i would give in.
i felt like such a loser for draging a meaningless relationship for 5 years. i finally broke up but v r still friends.
as a friend he finds me so intresting and says he is in love and wants to start all over again..
but the truth is if you are looking for a serious relationship aqua isnt a good choice, i have read more post on aqua guys and find all girls sharing similar problems as i did. aquas really need their own space far away from you, the closer you get the more hard it is for them to breath!
the aqua ship cannot stand for long in stormy emotional weather.
if u r not too heavy on the emotional level urself,u will surely enjoy relationship with an aqua.
i find aquas very very fun to be with, never had a dull moment with any aqua i know.IP: Logged |
shop22much
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posted May 13, 2006 07:10 PM
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