posted June 12, 2006 01:01 AM              

My Birthday: 3.19.86
Birth Time: 5:05 PM
Eastern time.

His Birthday: 1.11.83
Birth Time: 12:30 PM
Eastern Time.

Thanks,

posted June 12, 2006 01:41 AM              

You have two of the three things I need. All that I need in addition is a place of birth in the format:
City, State, County/Province, Country

Needing a little more info,

Tim

posted June 12, 2006 12:17 PM              

Thanks for providing your birth info. In doing relationship comparisons it helps first to get an idea of how each person approaches relationships. This can be seen by looking at Libra/Venus/7th house in each person's chart (all are about relationships).

In your chart you have Libra modifying Pluto (transforamation, also control), indicating you may have control issues in relationships: the challenge is to share control with the other person. You have Venus square (energy needs to be combined with) Neptune (spirituality, also idealization), indicating you may idealize your relationships in some way: the challenge is to CREATE the ideal relationship together with your partner...instead of expecting it to simply appear on its own. You also have Venus square Moon (home, also emotions) which might indicate you have emotional issues with relationships...either in getting very deeply involved or in feeling each slight change in the relationship as indicating some major relationship change. You also have Aries (being, also action) modifying Venus, indicating you may like to "conquer" in relationships. Venus is trine Saturn (duty, also structure) conjunct (energy is combined with) Nadir (inner world) conjunct Uranus (friends, also restructuring), indicating you like to have both structure and freedom (being "friendly") in relationships. Looking at your 7th house you have energy focused in the 7th house so you tend to focus on relationships.

Looking at his chart, he has a similar Libra modifying Pluto challenge. He has Aquarius (friends) modifying Venus, indicating he also likes to be "friends" in relationships, close but not TOO close. And, with Venus focused in the 10th house (duty, also structure) and square Saturn, he has a similar need for structure in his relationships. He has energy focused in the 7th house so he also focuses on relationships.

In looking at the relationship between you we look first for any connection between the Sun and Moon, and there are a few, although they are challenging: this indicates you are interconnected in a challenging way to each other. Looking at the personal planets (i.e., Sun, Moon, Mercury, venus, and Mars) we see there is about the same number of easy energy interactions to challenging energy interactions. In particular Venus sextile (energy goes easily with) Venus allows you an easy relationship connection, and Mars (being, also action) sextile Mars allows you an easy active connection. The greatest personal challenges are to his Moon (home, also emotions) which could indicate he reacts emotionally to you.

You each have a need to have your own "space" in relationships, and your energy interactions allow you to relate to each other with out becoming overly personal. However, his emotional sensitivity could become an issue if you are not both willing to work on this.

Relating,

Tim

posted June 12, 2006 04:02 PM              

I do idealize things and relationships more so than I previously thought, I am not sure on how to idealize it together, so maybe it will or won't happen because we can't seem to come together in that way! We do have serious power/control issues. I give up my control so he feels more in control and secure and still ::sigh::.... I try and take over control at times because i don't know where things stand but I just end up giving into how he wants things etc...

I notice he reacts very emotinal to me, we are very sympathetic and do share a strong bond/friendship that is just always there and we know when we come back after a long period of time we can rely on that trust and friendship. He reacts so different to me than he does others, emoitonally!

posted June 12, 2006 09:05 PM            

You suggested that these three things be studied: Libra/Venus/7th house. Is there a hierarchy of importance among these things or should they all be added together with the same weight?

Thank you,

posted June 13, 2006 12:57 AM              

I don't weight astrological indicators as being more or less important than each other. Instead, I look at these three things (Libra/Venus/7th house) and see what is the relationship pattern that comes out from looking at all of these things. For example, if a person has no Libra planets, Saturn (duty, also restriction, structure) square (energy needs to be combined with) Venus, and no planets in the 7th house, relationships are most likely to be a responsibility for the person and the person would expect some type of formal structure and commitment in the relationship with the other person. If the person hasn't worked out their Saturn issues, there is also the possibility that the person restricts themselves from relationships somehow.

Relating,