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Topic: Looking for Love
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illusions_fool
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posted June 12, 2006 05:05 PM
 
I really think I'm ready to take a leap of faith and try to find a good partner. Problem is, I don't know what kind to look for. While I know Mars and Venus represents relationships, I don't find they're very accurate at telling me what type I would get along with. I have Venus in Aries [Ariens usually are too much for me, but I also don't act like an Aries when I like someone] and I have Mars in Sagittarius [while I like Sagittarians, not really in a relationship sort of way]. So I'm wondering what signs to look for in the way of dealing with my oversensitivity, overemotionalness, complexity, ect. I have my ideas, but I'd like some second opinions.
I know there's more to Astrology than this, but I'm trying to keep it a little simple and then look deeper into chart compatibility once I find someone I like, if that makes sense. Can anyone suggest anything? Here's a link to my chart if it helps, do keep in mind though that although I have a lot of Air in my chart, I'm extremely emotional and sensitive because the Air signs are in the 12th House [so even if you don't believe in cusps]. http://www.geocities.com/aijin_no_bakura/rebekka_natal.gif Any feedback is appreciated! Thank you. If you're similar to me and you want to share certain experiences with certain signs, that'd be great too. I want to be filled in as much as possible before I make myself available. Thanks again! ~Rebekka IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted June 17, 2006 12:16 PM
How's it going?IP: Logged |
illusions_fool
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posted June 17, 2006 06:48 PM
I already gave up again. I think it's hopeless.IP: Logged |
ScorpioRising
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posted June 17, 2006 07:11 PM
Heyy-I too have Venus in the 5th house! Intense emotions-hmm-it could go either way. You mite need a scorpio-someone just as intense. Or a Virgo-very practical-who can demistify your personality. perhaps the best way-is to take a few dates out-then do ure charts and see if it meshes? hope that helps some!IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan
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posted June 17, 2006 07:27 PM
just look for a S.O. and don't even pay attention to charts, thats your problem. what is compatiblity these days? some people get bored with a comfy easy chart and love conflict, to add heat and spice. each person has their own opinion on what an ideal composite chart looks like. It seems like a tall task to find "so and so" with this, that and the other thing in their charts. Just be natural! IP: Logged |
cosmic1970
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posted June 18, 2006 11:14 PM
I too want to find a love partner... I guess it takes time and making yourself available. All about trial/error! It sucks for me especially - Ive been married/divorced and am now 36. Im getting up there and I dont necessarily feel it or look it buttttttttttttttttt... I also ask myself from time to time- will I have a child or children? Will I ever remarry? Oh wellTime has gone on and on- I take everything like a grain of salt- Or try to not think about it most of the time. Try not and worry yourself to death about it. It'll come. Be good to yourself and give yourself ample love and time to love more. I think if your a good person, things will go your way someday. Maybe not right now or next week. Patience! This is all easier to say> I know but try to remember and repeat it and I think things will eventually turn around and happen for a good reason. Do not get desperate. take care IP: Logged |
shirty
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posted June 19, 2006 11:09 AM
Hey rebekka~I think you need to just be patient with this sort of thing. You are still very young.. I am 19 and I have yet to find someone who is actually on my level. The other thing is that you'll never find your ideal partner. Ideals don't exist -- the key is looking for someone with the ideal in mind.. know what you want and what works for you, but never expect perfection. Any relationship will have problems and you can run away from them just because you don't like one thing they do or say.. or you can work it out and become that much closer. Love yourself and send out the positive vibes.. people will come to you, the universe has a way of making the connections available for your use. And when you are upset, remember how much is out there.. today is just one day out of who knows how many.. live in the moment don't look back and don't think about the future too much. I'm sure you'll find someone who can be there for you when you need them most.. keep your heart open and a clear mind on your shoulders! take care
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