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Topic: cancer-love at sight?
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cute crab unregistered
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posted June 14, 2006 12:30 PM
do cancerians have this attraction for people they dont know..i mean are cancerians more prone to love at mere sight? but later its more on a deeper level though.... is it true cancerians..? which other signs are like dat??
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bullhead unregistered
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posted June 14, 2006 12:36 PM
hi cutecrab im a cappy, i tend to decide in the first minute or so if i can fall in love with the person. Its hard if i dont fall rite away even they try to do everything or anything for me, i still wont be interested.mmmmmmmm, i dont know about other cap. but i do have lots of aries in me though.
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paras unregistered
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posted June 14, 2006 10:48 PM
No, they just like long walks on the beach, sunsets, holding hands, and requesting vague generalizations in supposedly spiritual discussion forums. IP: Logged |
cute crab unregistered
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posted June 15, 2006 08:52 AM
long walks and holding hands ....all is later... i m talking about first sight?IP: Logged |
Swerve unregistered
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posted June 15, 2006 09:00 AM
Pay no attention to Paras CuteCrab, he's just having a bad day....I would say its a Water thing, and that looking for a connection beyond words kinda vibe. If it's on that level I guess you would hope to intuitively feel it from the get-go. Cancers are also quite wary by nature, and falling in love is the most vulnerable position you could put yourself in, so being aware of it upfront would be common sense for a Crab. Swerve IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2006 09:02 AM
Hey Paras,Can it! Crab, in answer to your question they say that most of us fall in love slowly and cautiously. I'm inclined to agree. But I we're all different so there may be the occasional crab that DOES fall in love at first sight.
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posted June 15, 2006 09:05 AM
Yes, Dulce, you guys do take a while to fall don't you....I think you are aware of the possibility of it from the first second of meeting though?I am guessing a bit here.... Swerve IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2006 09:11 AM
Yes we are aware that there might be something very special, we are watersigns too you know. Unfortunately we ignore and become realists like our opposites Capricorn saying "Oh, Thats impossible!".IP: Logged |
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posted June 15, 2006 09:14 AM
And is that a good thing or a bad thing in your opinion?Do you gain or lose by that metamorphosis in attitude? Swerve IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2006 09:17 AM
I'm not even gonna lie, I almost lost that way. Actually, I have lost out with the attitude before, not just in love, but in other areas where I missed some big opportunities because of my cynicism. I'm not saying that we shouldn't be somewhat grounded in reality, but too much can make you miss out on life.IP: Logged |
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posted June 15, 2006 09:21 AM
Sorry Dulce, that sounded almost preachy of me. I asked because sometimes I have difficulty letting things go when they are passed their sell-by date.I have noticed that Crabs are a lot more practical in these situations that this Piscean, and I really envy that. In fact, I'm thinking of a Crab who's done that with me. Swerve
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Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2006 09:30 AM
No Swerve, you didn't come off preachy at all. I used to have that same problem. But now my gemini venus picks me up fast because I tell myself that it just wasn't meant to be. after I think that's one thing Cancers and Pisces have in common, we're unable to let go . But I also have a loaded 12th house, so while I may not get along with many pisces, I can relate to them a lil bit. Everything is not always about being practical or having money, like most astrology says about us. In fact, my pisces sister is more materialistic than I am. Even my mom says so. So even Pisces can be practical.
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Swerve unregistered
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posted June 15, 2006 09:38 AM
Do Cancers ever think about their exes? Even the ones that ended badly? I have never understood the term "get over it" and I never will.Even those girls I wouldn't go out with again I still have a little skip-jump in the heart when I see them. This I believe is all linked to that "love at first sight" thunderbolt as the effect just never leave in my experience (I do have Scorpio Moon in the 1st which makes me very Cancerian, with a stinger). I am hijacking this thread, I should digress. Swerve IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2006 09:44 AM
"Even those girls I wouldn't go out with again I still have a little skip-jump in the heart when I see them"I get that feeling too, My logical 7th house sun says its from shock, but who knows. About Love, yes me and her do have alot in common I guess. She was seeing a scorpio and I am right now. Only hers is younger than she is. But I think she was born in '78, I'm an 80s child.(I know I'm young, don't laugh....my cappy rising wants to be taken seriously ) IP: Logged |
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posted June 15, 2006 09:50 AM
When you make as much sense as you do I donlt think you should be worried about being taken seriously.I think I'm on the upswing of a bitter feud with Cancers. All my own fault really but I seem to be surrounded by you guys at the moment - and I have to be honest - I'm loving it. Sometimes you have to face the shadow of something before you appreciate its real beauty? I dunno. Swerve IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2006 09:52 AM
To me, getting over it means when you finally feel like you don't have to be with the person anymore. You can be totally platonic with them. Maybe I should've re-worded that because we never truly "get over" people in the most literal sense. SIP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2006 09:54 AM
Oh really, how did your cancer ex and you break up? Amicably (sp?) or pretty bad.IP: Logged |
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posted June 15, 2006 10:03 AM
very very very badlya lot of the angst and other outpourings were on here for everyone to suffer until I pulled it together after forever I miss her still Swerve IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2006 11:40 AM
Oh, Sorry Swerve , I don't know what to say....I hope you get better. I didn't respond sooner because I had to go get my aunt from the train station-she doesn't have a car.
*edit* So your a pisces/scorpio, thats awesome cuz my bf is a scorpio/pisces. You guys are like the inverse of eachother (if that makes any sense to you). IP: Logged |
Inner depths unregistered
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posted June 15, 2006 11:48 AM
Intuitively speaking, I think you'll know within the first moment about somebody you meet. Whether he/she is a good match etc.....and this can be in reagrds to anybody you meet .....like the babysitter, the new doctor, your new boss etc....Just follow your intuition and go for it....ID IP: Logged |
Swerve unregistered
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posted June 15, 2006 11:59 AM
Yeah I get that. I see a lot of Scorpio/Pisces but I have yet to come across another Pisces/Scorpio.I'm ok with her Dulce. Its like a little flame I keep alive inside just in case. You never know with a Cancer..... Swerve
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4416 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2006 12:20 PM
Cancers do think about their exes. They're just too tough to admit it. They even go so far as avoiding places where they might encounter their exes sometimes.IP: Logged |
Love Knowflake Posts: 54 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2006 03:46 PM
I think about my ex's...even after we have been broken up for 10 years. And some of them I'm still friends with...and i loved them all. Even the jerks who maybe don't deserve it.Love IP: Logged |
Swerve unregistered
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posted June 15, 2006 05:59 PM
Yes, but you're Love-ly so I'd expect that.Swerve IP: Logged |
Love Knowflake Posts: 54 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2006 06:36 PM
Well, aren't you just a charmer. IP: Logged |