posted June 28, 2006 10:17 AM            

How long will it take for a marriage to crumble under a disastrous wedding chart?

This couple has a rather nice synastry chart; they even have a Venus-Neptune linkage amongst others. Their relationship has been long and stable…

They just got married in a fatal date according to Magi.

There was a very exact (under 1º orb) T-square connecting a Mars-Saturn conjunction that opposes Chiron. Jupiter squares them all. To make things worse Pluto opposes the Sun (1º orb) and Venus squares Neptune (under 3º orb). There are no other connections to Chiron or any other favourable connections at all under 3º.

I have looked to other wedding charts for couples I know, but they only got married a maximum of 3 years ago… and they don’t have such an awful wedding chart either… Some even have Saturn clashes or heartbreak clashes (not that close or non-compensated though) but they haven’t got divorced yet… So I don’t really know how fulminating a bad wedding chart is…

posted July 01, 2006 12:35 AM              

Kamilla, only thing that sticks out to me in that chart is they'd probably go the distance together, ALL THAT CAPRICORN & 7th house placements...I would assume they'd still be together if they had children, if they didnt, they probably broke up, the reason I assume that is because it would probably get boring after awhile....nothing to spice it up...

Anyways- Steel Rose-
I feel for you, I think you're in love with this man, correct? I cant even imagine, I'd crumble, I feel your pain, and youre hoping it doesnt work out, understandable, but you cant waste your youth & heart on a man who is taken, IF he isnt with you, theres a reason for that....I dont care what excuse a man has-Blah blah, he met her before you, thats BS, didnt he say "if i had met you first" WHAT THE HELL!?! dont let those words become poison in your head, manipulated drama if you ask me...Dont let him be a drug, the withdrawls are hell...
dont think i dont know what youre feeling, coz I do, Im going thru the heartache as well, I believe the one I love still loves his first love, and she'll always be his ghost I wont ever compare to....It feels like no matter how amazing I am to him, how strongly he feels for me, etc etc she'll always have this part of him I wont ever get to have, or feel...youre virgo sun/leo venus? me too....that sums it up for you, you know what to do..

(hug)

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"

"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"

posted July 03, 2006 04:42 AM            

Hmmm, Lily, I suppose I was testing the ground… I’m not yet a Magi devotee, not until I see their predictions are accurate in my life… It’s great to have all those celebrities’ examples, I admit it fascinated me… But now I’m in the process of checking its validity in my own ground…

That’s why I was asking, to see if some of you had more experience than me in this. I don’t have enough examples around me yet regarding marriages or they are not old enough. In astrology, statistics are the key… And a very small sample is not a sign of truth or falsehood.

I suppose many factors play a role to give a successful marriage or a failure… Did this couple you know have a great synastry? When you say “according to Magi should have ended immediately”, I assume you mean the wedding chart has a Saturn clash… Did it have another compensatory aspects, much more powerful that that one?

Writesomething, thanks for you kind words Yes, I agree, marrying under great astrological conditions does not guarantee a successful marriage. Of course, if two people clash too much or are not made for each other, no matter how good the wedding chart is, there is a high chance of the bad synastry overpowering the good omen of a good wedding date… What I was after is the opposite situation… I was curious of how fatal wedding date can be… Some people are great together, they have been living happily together for years, and then they get married and end of the story… These things happen… Is that caused by a wedding date, at least influenced???

I actually don’t know how much I feel for this man. Somehow I feel betrayed by destiny. I suppose I never let myself fall completely because she was there, and while she was there, he had nothing to offer me romantically speaking. I chose to stay close to him as the only thing I could be, his friend.

But I must love him more than I'm ready to accept as I have cried non-stop for 10 days after that wedding... Even now I crumble when I think in seeing him. I don't even have the strength to see the wedding pictures.

When I met him, I was shattered. Beyond heartbreak. He kept me alive. And I suppose I couldn’t help loving him. He may have not been the right person for me, I don’t know, I kept telling myself that she was better suited for him than I was. I had to pay that price to have a caring man around. Even to date, he has been the only man to care for me or treat me nicely, to be there always.

We are not as close as we used to be. Circumstances change. And I did nothing to keep him too close as I knew at the end our lives would divert because of her presence. I went abroad. Even now that I’m back, I don’t make any effort to see him often. Deep inside I don’t want to see him because I miss him so much. It feels as if he is lost forever.

I don’t want him to abandon me, so I will abandon him before he does. He will survive.

There have been other men in my life since we know each other. None gave a hoot for me. All were selfish cowards. That’s why it’s so hard to lose him. Life without him is so cold.

I’m amazed you know I’m a Virgo Sun/ Leo Venus… What do you mean by “that sums it up for you, you know what to do”?