posted July 06, 2006 02:00 AM              

what you think of us?
I've never posted a composite chart here before. Any opinions, good/bad would be appreciated. Thank you so much.

Composite Chart
Sun Pisces in 8th
Moon in Sagittarius in 5th
Mercury in Aries in 9th
Venus in Aries in 10th
Mars in Capricorn in 6th
Jupiter in Taurus in 10th
Saturn in Sagittarius in 5th
Uranus in Sagittarius in 5th
Neptune in Capricorn in 6th
Pluto in Scorpio in 4th
Leo Ascendant

Him (Rick): Cappy Sun/4th, Moon in Sag/3rd, Libra rising.
Venus is in Pisces/5th, Mars in Sag/3rd

Jan. 15th, 1988 11:15pm Jellico, TN

Me (Esther): Taurus Sun/12th, Moon in Scorpio/6th, Cancer rising.
Venus in in Gemini/12th, Mars in Aquarius/10th.

posted July 06, 2006 03:02 PM              

Thank you for providing the birth data: I am a "visual" person, so I need to see a chart in order to interpret it. In looking at relationships in a chart, it helps first to look at each person's Libra/Venus/7th house (all are about relationships).

In his case there are no Libra energies. Venus is at 0 degrees (strong energy) in Pisces (Venus in sign of its exaltation, strong energy) focused in the 5th house (self-expression, also dating). So he may be strongly attracted to "dating relationships" of some type. He has Jupiter (expansion) focused in the 7th house, so his relationships may tend to be "expansive" in some way.

You were born very far north, which creates an astrological challenge in calculating the size of his houses. So I will not look at your chart houses, but only at Libra/Venus in your chart. You also have no Libra energy. Your Venus opposes (energy is over-excited by) your Uranus (friends), indicating he may want to have "friendly relationships": close but not TOO close.

In looking at the aspects between you the first thing to look for is aspects between each of your Sun and Moon. There is an easy aspect (sextile) between your Sun and his Moon so there is an easy "connection" between you. The next thing to look at is connections between your personal planets (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars). You have 3 easy connections and 3 challenging connections, which can indicate a "back and forth" movement between things being easy and being challenging in the reltionship. Most challenging for him may be the complete lack of connection to his Mars (being, also action) indicating you may not "connect in" with his actions in some way.

Since you are fairly close in age most of the outer planets (Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto) are in the same degrees in both of your chart, so they do not add any new sensations to either of you in your chart comparison. However, your Jupiters (expansion) are in different positions so each of you gives the other new "expansive" opportunities in the relationship.

I don't look at composite charts except to understand the relationship itself. Since the issue here seems to be how each person interacts with the other, I am leaving out any composite chart analysis.

Relating,

Tim

posted July 07, 2006 12:56 AM              

So much for perfection in THIS life! I have edited what I had before, reversing the people indications in the text. So there is a complete lack of connection of your planetary energies to HIS Mars by aspect (not by sign).

With your Mercury (thinking, also talking) opposite (energy is over-excited by) Moon (home, also emotions), talking can cause you to become emotional, which could be stressful. He has a lot of energies in the 3rd house (thinking, also talking) so he focuses on talking.

Self-correcting,

posted July 07, 2006 11:55 AM              

Having no Libra energies indicates that you both don't have energy that is only used for relating to others. As mentioned, there are other ways you do use some of your energies for relating. And, since you BOTH have no Libra energies, neither person will feel the other is not putting enough "relating" energy in...since neither of you expects the other to relate so intensely.

However, the lack of connection to his Mars COULD be an issue, particularly if he takes actions and wants you to respond to them somehow. Or you may not think he "does" anything at all...since you don't connect to his actions. The challenge for you both is to have faith that he IS doing something and when he says he has done something, then (if he is honest) he has...even if you aren't aware of him having done anything. It all depends on how important his actions are in the relationship and how well you can accept this "disconnect" between you.

Relating,