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Topic: Was I right to break up with him?
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pseudofemme unregistered
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posted July 08, 2006 01:18 AM
I recently went through the weirdest, most intense relationship I've ever experienced. From day one it was like we'd known each other forever. There was lots of sexual chemistry and a very satisfying emotional and intellectual bond. At least, most of the time. My feelings towards him constantly fluxuated, and one day I'd be head over heels for him while the next day I wouldn't care if I ever saw him again.Then for some reason, I became much less physically attracted to him--in fact I felt repulsed at times. I just could NOT decipher my own feelings towards him, so I called things off. But now I'm wondering if that was the right decision. We had such an amazing emotional rapport and communication was so easy for us. I felt totally accepted for who I am. I worry I won't ever find anyone else like him. Our birthdays: Me- May 4 1987 6:11 PM Sacramento, CA Him- Oct 3 1982 3:00 PM Glendale, AZ Any thoughts? Should I try to get back with him, or move on? IP: Logged |
LighTgrEEn unregistered
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posted July 08, 2006 02:27 AM
Don't think about it too much, my fellow taurean. I know it is hard but you the saying, "if it was meant to be it will be" Just wait it out for now and stick with your decision. He is libra and you are taurus, I have been with libra male before. Just don;t blame things on you. I remember I used to blame everything on myself when in fact it was him who was making me do that in an indirect way. It's hard to explain.Take time for yourself and have fun! IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 435 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 09, 2006 01:10 AM
You have Uranus at 26 degrees of Sagg squaring his Venus at 1 degree of Libra. It is a 5 degree orb, technically not a very tight orb, nonetheless, you feel the seesaw effect of this aspect, which explains why you said "My feelings towards him constantly fluxuated, and one day I'd be head over heels for him while the next day I wouldn't care if I ever saw him again.Then for some reason, I became much less physically attracted to him--in fact I felt repulsed at times." For the past year, transiting Pluto has been going back and forth over your Uranus and intensifying its qualities. Could you 2 have a stable relationship? The short answer is no. I am not saying it's impossible, because nothing is impossible. I just don't think it would be a good flow. IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted July 15, 2006 11:59 AM
Welcome pseudofemme I have a different take on this cuz I'm a dinosaur and never married ... pursue when you feel the need to pursue !!!!! Some things only come around once in a lifetime, and you don't want to miss a frame.
------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
Rev. Alice unregistered
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posted July 16, 2006 09:00 AM
The biggest thing is that you are both undergoing transformation. By the time this completes, you may have nothing in common. For the present it is like you are sometimes "out of phase".Long term--are you aware that this guy has no conscience? He may not need one, but then, again, he may. Risky business!! ------------------ You are a blessing and you are blessed. Rev. Alice www.lifeprintastrology.com IP: Logged | |