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Topic: when u meet a twin soul a little too late
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sugar_buns
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posted July 17, 2006 02:53 PM
 
many a times in life certain situations occur which r out of our control, n sometimes they tend to be life changing....
like say if a person has already met someone with whome he/she feels comfortable n there is a very deep understanding between them...they r soulmates-ppl who have a past life connection n r very into each other...they get married(or live together whatever suits them), n r living happily with/without children...
then someone comes into the life of that person with whome he/she feels an instant connection, not like a sexual spark or something, but something deeper...that person gets to know him/her even more quickly than their spouse...they KNOW each other as if they have known one another even before they met...
the person has met his/her twinsoul....
but the question is...how r they going to love each other when the person is already involved with someone else who also(maybe from another lifetime)is his/her soulmate....
what im trying to say here is - what happens when such situations occur??? do they have to make a choice n leave one of them or jus stay friends n endure that deep feeling of mutual love that they supress, knowing fully that in this lifetime they may never be able to be together like eternal lovers they were before???any comments??????
btw im feeling a lil out there today,
they're just some thoughts which came to my mind.... IP: Logged |
Stargazer
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posted July 17, 2006 03:11 PM
I know exactly how you feel  This helped me a lot....
http://www.karmicastrology.tv/relationships.htm IP: Logged |
shirty
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posted July 17, 2006 03:13 PM
sugar~Funny you should bring this topic up in discussion today. I just finished watching a movie called "Serendipity" last night, so my mind is definitely on the subject of fate, true love, soulmates, etc. I am also troubled by this question. Is there a wrong or right? Do you follow your gut feeling or do you be rational about the situation and remain in your stable relationship? Knowing me, I'd be one to throw everything away for the person I know I connect with on the deepest of levels. I can say that I would probably be upset if someone did that to me, but I think the idea of a soulmate is that you both feel equally about your intense connection. In fact, one of my biggest fears is that I will never find that person for me, and I will end up either settling for someone with whom I can make a relationship work, but it doesn't feel 100% right for me, or I will simply be alone. I am of the opinion that we shouldn't settle for less than our soulmate. I'm sure many people here disagree with my statement and would encourage the notion that relationships have to be worked at, they don't combust out of thin air. Personally, I can tell from the first few hours with someone, whether or not we connect the way I feel comfortable. So right there I think there is evidence to show that you should look for the right feeling in ADDITION to working at the obstacles between a satisfying relationship. Interesting topic though.. ~shirty IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted July 17, 2006 03:22 PM
I think with the dawning of the Age of Aquarius, people will be less prone to the slaves of conditioning and will find more creative ways of handling relationships....maybe two or three partners....not necessarily sexual with all of them....but it doesnt have to be so black and white does it....Like...oh I am married to someone else so I cannot connect with this person... I feel as long as there is love, patience and honesty,then there arent really any rules, as long as people dont get hurt of course....  IP: Logged |
sugar_buns
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posted July 17, 2006 03:45 PM
hhmm interesting suggession sue,
but how can one love someone in bits n pieces, give some to one, give some to another??
i feel i cant do that- im a bit extremist, dont bother...
hhmmm well btw its not my situation right now.(thank god or i would've been dead by now)
it was just a thought that occured to me when i was sitting on my bed really doing nothing-"thinking how many ppl we meet in a lifetime n how many of them know us from some previous lifetime, what if it gets messed up like that?"
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sue g
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posted July 17, 2006 04:25 PM
Yes sugar I know what you mean girl.But we can love lots of people in different ways....I think people presume just cos you connect with one of the opposite sex that there has to be sex involved....but there doesnt! I met up with a soul connection a while back and was friends with him for five years and in the end we decided to go our different ways. But I loved him and him me (although he didnt show it]. It was tought but a very valuable experience...and I learned well from it! IP: Logged |
Alisa
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posted July 18, 2006 04:47 PM
sugar_bunsWhat you wrote actually occurred to me. I have been with someone for 10 years. Then I met a guy like that I believe he is my twin soulmate. At that time, I could not ran away from my partner. I felt very giuty. I waited till my partner said the word "break up", thus making me feel less guilty. However, after we broke up already, my twin soul would like to keep the relationship as friendship. Now, it has been two years. I am still waiting for him. My heart has been broken 365 days a year. It is like I cannot turn back and I do not know my future. Anyway, I believe in Destiny.... CHEERS IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted July 18, 2006 05:56 PM
I believe in a compleatly ordered universe and I believe people come into our lives right on cue.That does not necessarily mean that we should leave one for another, but they come into our lives for a REASON. What that reason is, is for us to learn. If we are talking twin souls, which I am not quite sure of this theory, but it is said that the twin souls agree when and where to meet. So.............. Sue I like what you had to say about different types of realtionships. VERY TRUE!!! IP: Logged |
Node
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posted July 18, 2006 06:35 PM
All of what others have said is valid. Time or timing is not for us to know at first. The possibility of having that serendipitous moment and recognize it as such, indicates the rare individual who is in tune with the cosmos. To have both people recognize it and act on it is in the mirosphere of experience. I too have had this experience, but now believe in Karma, an idea or concept we all flirt with, but on an inspirational level we also may be taught the lesson of time. Maybe not in this life will a true 6 senses joining be realised. The joining of mind, heart, spirit, soul, 3rd eye are consumated in true pagan fashion with the joining of bodies as well. It is most difficult to recognise it yourself for what it is to YOU...but the other is not complete enough unto themselves to surrender to another their insecurities, fears, and pain. It makes some more vulnerable than they can handle. Patience is not my strong suit. Too late? I say in most cases it is too early.IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted July 18, 2006 06:44 PM
"possibility of having that serendipitous moment and recognize it as such, indicates the rare individual who is in tune with the cosmos."True words IP: Logged | |
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