posted July 20, 2006 02:20 PM            

Me: 06/25/1979 at 9:25am in Buenos Aires, Argentina

Him: 9/26/1979 in the afternoon (unknown exact birth time) in Buenos Aires, ARgentina

Thank you!

posted July 20, 2006 03:57 PM              

You asked:

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Is it possible to have a long term relationship with a person we are not astrologically compatible?

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In my opinion, there is no such thing as "not astrologically compatible". Every relationship has its challenges and some have more challenges than others. Your relationship is an example of this: there is some easy energy between you and some challenges. It is up to you both to decide whether you both want to work through the challenges in the relationship.

Relating,

Tim

posted July 20, 2006 07:46 PM            

Here's my favorite quote:

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From Steven Forrest: http://www.stevenforrest.com/lovehandles.html
To me, in the realities of the astrological counselling room, there are
two immutable premises:

There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently sweet that enough selfishness, confusion about sex, or
immaturity cannot turn it sour.

There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently bitter that enough patience, devotion, and humility can
not only make it last, but make it something precious to both people.

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posted July 21, 2006 04:38 PM            

Tim: would you say there are more challenging aspects than easy? Which are the most important aspects you´ve seen?
By the way, I read in a previous post that you´re a triple Virgo (sun, moon and asc???)! So you´re unique like me! lol. No, seriously, it´s not too often that you see a chart with sun, moon and asc. in same sign. How do you manage? For me it´s like being shipwrecked in the middle of the ocean (I also have sun and moon in the 12th), way too much water.
Do you know other people with this triplicity?

posted July 22, 2006 12:56 AM              

Since your birthdays are very close, I look at two parts in your relationship charts. First, whether the Sun and Moon are in aspect. Your Suns are in challenging aspect to each other. This indicates a "connection", but a stressful one.

Second I look at the aspect connections of the personal planets (Sun, your Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars - with no time for him, the position of his Moon can't be determined). Looking at these aspect connections the number of easy and challenging aspects is similar. However, there are some stressful aspects to your Moon (emotions), which could cause you emotional issues with him.

Normally I also look at the other planets, but since you are very similar in age, his other planets do not make any aspects to your planets which you don't already have. In other words, his other planets don't add any "new" energy to your chart.

The most important aspects differ from person to person. I usually also look at Libra/Venus/7th house in both birth charts to first see how each person responds to relationships. How a person responds to relationships has a great deal to do with which aspects "fit" best with the person.

I am a triple Virgo. I use my daily work (Virgo) energy these days to do a LOT of astrological analysis! And I DO know at least one other person who has this triplicity...you!

Another triple,

Tim