posted July 22, 2006 02:35 AM
Ana,In looking at the girl's chart, the South node (the past) in Libra (relationships), indicating focusing on relationships might hold her back in life. There is Uranus (friends) opposite (energy is over-excited by) Venus (relationships), indicating she may want to be friends in her relationships: close but not TOO close. Also, Neptune (spirituality, also idealization) is opposite Venus, indicating she may tend to idealize relationship and not see what is actually there. She has energy focused in the 7th house, so does focus on relationships for the sake of relationships.
He his Libra modifying Pluto (transformation, also control) which could indicate control issues in relationships, unless he learns how to share control. He has Aries (being, also action) modifying Venus, indicating he may like to take "conquer" in relationships. This possibility is increased since Venus is conjunct (energy is combined with) Aries modifying Mars (being, also action). He also has Neptune square Venus, indicating he can also idealize relationships. And Uranus (friends) trine (energy goes very easily with) Venus, indicating he may also like to be "friends" in relationships. The house cusps can't be known since we have no time for the boy.
Looking at their charts together, leaving out his Moon position (which can not be determined we have no time for him), we see their Suns are trine (energy flows very easily with), indicating there is a very easy "connection" between them. Looking at the rest of the personal planets (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars), we see that there are challenges to his Venus and Mars. While this can be exciting for the short term, they could cause longer term challenges. Most challenging could be his Mars (anger) opposite her Moon (emotions), which could indicate his anger could emotionally upset her. Also, there is only one planetary connection to his Mercury (talking), so she may feel he does not "connect in" to what she is saying.
Looking at other Venus interactions, there is his Pluto (transformation, also control) trine her Venus, which could indicate he controls her in some way.
The challenge is for both is to see the relationship as it is and enjoy being "friends". The girl can also be aware of the possibility of his "conquering" possibilties and make sure of his intentions for the long term...if she is interested in the long term. She can also understand that there may be communication issues with him and try to get him to use non-verbal ways to communicate his interest in the relationship. They can also be aware of control issues and make an effort to share control of the relationship.
Relating,
Tim
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