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Topic: How do you seduce the object of your affection?
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alanabelle86
Knowflake Posts: 46
From: Somewhere over the Rainbow...
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 27, 2006 10:27 PM
  
How do/did you get that special person to notice you? Was it through grand gestures and declarations of lust/love? Was it just bluntly said one day? Was it a long drawn out game of cat and mouse?...Post your Moon, Venus, and Mars placements/aspects with your answers...
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Battle of Evermore
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posted July 27, 2006 10:45 PM
Ok, this is going to sound weird. I'll do some moderate flirting... usually nothing verbal. If they don't respond at all, I don't bother that much with them anymore. I've got a Leo stellium. I don't want them to CHASE me, but if they aren't interested in the first place, that's their problem. I usually don't waste my time after that.Leo Moon & Venus, Mars in Libra. I don't remember all the aspects. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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From: The Asylum, NC
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 27, 2006 11:57 PM
It was kind of a hot and cold thing. But it was more because of my reactions to him and plus I was really nervous around him. Virgo moon/gemini venus/mars in aries IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted July 27, 2006 11:59 PM
Well I'm a Taurus, so just like Linda says I'd rather be chased than the one doing the chasing... I really don't care if I don't have a boyfriend or if someone doesn't notice me, but that said, when I do have a boyfriend they are very special to me. Quality rather than quantity.  If I am interested though, and I can tell that person is mutually interested, then my Venus in Gemini comes to the fore and I am a serious flirt!  I'm told it's a combination of sexy and cute, so I take that as a big compliment. Oh also, I'm a Scorpio moon with Mars in Pisces. I do need to already feel an emotional 'connection' with someone before I'll flirt, I've never come on to a random stranger or anything like that, so I guess that's due to those placements. With my current boyfriend, what he noticed was the flirting. It was sooo mutual... I started out with some 'cute'/'sociable'-type flirting and he responded and I responded back til it all just snowballed... two Venus in Gemini's together, talk about sparks! But yet, I was 'unavailable', didn't give away too much, and so he wanted what he couldn't have. With the boyfriend before that, we didn't really flirt. We started as friends but the emotional connection got really deep until it was a weird unspoken thing that we were both very shy about. He broke the ice one day and just said something. From that day we became a couple. IP: Logged |
ScorpioRising
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posted July 28, 2006 12:17 AM
I am a chaser. lol. My man calls my affection puppy like at times. (In a good way!) Venus-5th-Aries. Very childlike. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Newflake Posts: 7
From: The Asylum, NC
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 28, 2006 12:20 AM
Oh yeah, I don't chase. It's not that I like to be chased but I have an overwhelming fear of rejection.IP: Logged |
The Virgin
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posted July 28, 2006 12:26 AM
When I'm intersted in someone I come right out and tell them and ask them out. I can't recollect one boyfriend I didn't get this way. But I should note, I don't go for the sexual chemistry thing-that's usually a passing fancy. I wait until I know someone a bit and feel there's something more there.
Moon Pisces in the sixth Venus Libra in the first Mars Leo in the eleventh.(equal house) I don't have the aspects off hand but my
birthday is 9-7-1968 9:00am Boston MA
If someone could tell me what makes me so forward that would be great, because I've often wondered and haven't had any mention of it from reading my placements.IP: Logged |
and
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posted July 28, 2006 12:29 AM
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The Virgin
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posted July 28, 2006 01:11 AM
Hey thanks, and! IP: Logged |
Love
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From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 28, 2006 05:04 AM
It's funny, but I never end up chasing men until we're locked into a relationship. And they don't really chase me either. One day, they just show up in my life and then we're together and that's it until it's done.Even now that I'm through with all the chasing when I'm in the relationship, a dude will more or less arrive on my doorstep after I've been single for a while and I'll know he's the next guy I am meant to date. So I guess I don't really flirt until I'm in the relationship. And then I flirt like mad. Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon, Cancer Ascendant. Love IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted July 28, 2006 08:47 AM
I don't seduce. With all my Scorpio placements you would think I would have some sort of great advantage edge at it. I am seductively challenged.  I have been told that I seduce / tease / etc.  The only thing that I figure others may see as seductive is my genuine (and sometimes overly focused) interest in others. Then there are others that take my aloofness (usually air and fire signs) as being coy and a challenge. No really... I'm just aloof sometimes. I don't flirt either. Edit - Wow. I must be really boring.
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Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury, and uranus
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1scorp
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posted July 28, 2006 09:00 AM
I forgot to add my moon/venus/mars aspects.1st house moon moon conjunct asc.
moon conjunct pluto
moon square midheaven
moon sextile neptune
2nd house venus retrograde
mercury conjunct venus
venus conjunct uranus
venus conjunct mars
venus trine midheaven
2nd house mars
mercury conjunct mars
mars trine jupiter ________________________________________
Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury, and uranus
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and
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posted July 28, 2006 09:04 AM
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BlueEyes24
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posted July 28, 2006 09:23 AM
I guess I flirt and laugh a lot. When I first met my boyfriend now, we were just sitting next to each other, and I rested my hand on his thigh lol. He kinda looked down, like he was wondering why I did that.. but I guess it worked, because he kissed me later that night. I would never go up to a guy and ask him out though... that's just how I am. I'd rather be approached.
I have Scorpio moon & venus (both in the 11th house), Capricorn mars (2nd house), Sag Rising... and I have Neptune & Uranus in the 1st house.
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LuLu
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posted July 28, 2006 10:29 AM
I second what AND said. I don't usually realize I am flirting, but I make them laugh a lot. I won't start flirting either until I am sure they are flirting with me first. And even then, if they come on too strong or sleezy, I avoid them. I like the ones with personality, who can make me laugh.Taurus Sun (3rd house), Sag Moon (11th house), Taurus Venus (4th house), Leo Mars (7th house) IP: Logged |
MoonPixie
Knowflake Posts: 131
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 28, 2006 11:00 AM
food, my dear. GOOD FOOD.Oh, and some sexy eye contact. That's pretty much all I need to do. IP: Logged |
MoonPixie
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posted July 28, 2006 04:10 PM
OOPS, forgot:Cancer Sun
Scorpio Moon
Gemini Venus
Pisces Mars I also like to give back massages, lol. IP: Logged |
pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 67
From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 28, 2006 06:01 PM
How did I get him to notice me?I walked into the room Now we're married (we got married 6 months after we met) LOL....... Oh yes- before we actually talked (we were both attending a function and had been introduced) we spent a fair amount of time both eyeing each other. Finally I said "Hi.. so what are you guys doing after this?" The end..... it just rolled along on it's own... There were no cat and mouse games other than a bit of shyness in the beginning.. then he pounced.. I like to say he knew I'd come to my senses and being that he's a Leo he was seemed to just exude this "Yep.. I know it's forever.. let's hope she catches along pretty quick) Me- Sun - Sag (4th house)
Moon - Aries (7th House)
Venus - Sag (3rd House)
Mars - Pisces (6th House)
Rising - Virgo Him- Sun - Leo (12th house)
Moon - Pisces (7th house)
Venus - Virgo (1st House)
Mars - Taurus (9th house)
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sthenri
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posted July 29, 2006 07:18 AM
Pretty much every man who said he loved me did so because he saw me in my underwear and was hoping to get lucky. If I let a man hang around my house long enough he always and forever believes I adore him. My Sag/1st house Mars and ascendant apparently attracts men who believe they are love Gods. Natasha
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