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Topic: Frustrated...need help with Aqua...
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Crabplanet
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posted August 02, 2006 10:02 AM
  
Hello all,I'm really confused by this Aqua...Could someone share with me some input on his personality? I don't understand him, for a moment he seems totally uninterested, and then he can be very close...im dying here...not knowing what to do...is he playing a game with me? I need to know if I should even bother giving him a sign that im still alive (he can stay for days without calling!!!!!!!)...Could this person ever become emotionally attached? Thank you for helping me......
His chart:
Sun in Aqua
Moon in Aqua
Ascendant in Scorpio
NN in Aqua
Mercury in Pisces
Mars in Aries
Venus in Aries
Jupiter in Taurus
Uranus in Cancer
Pluto in Leo
Neptune in Libra
Saturn in Libra His aspects: Mars-Venus Conjunction
Moon-Jupiter Square
Jupiter-Pluto Square
Moon-Pluto Opposition
Sun-Pluto Opposition
Sun-Mercury Conjunction
Moon-NN Conjunction
Uranus-Vertex Conjunction
Venus-Uranus Square
Venus-Vertex Square
Venus-Moon Sextile
Venus- NN Sextile
Uranus-Neptune Square
Neptune-Saturn Conjunction
Sun-Saturn Trine
Sun-Neptune Trine
Mercury-Saturn Trine
Mercury-Neptune Trine
Chiron-Venus Square
Chiron-Uranus Opposition Important aspects between us: His Chiron conjuncts my Moon in Capri
His Uranus+Vertex conjuncts my Sun in Cancer
His NN conjuncts my NN in Aqua
His Sun conjuncts my Mars in Aqua
His Moon conjuncts my NN in Aqua
His Venus conjuncts my Chiron in Aries
His Neptune+Saturn conjuncts my MC in Libra
His Ascendant conjuncts my Jupiter in Scorpio
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posted August 02, 2006 10:18 AM
Heres how to get an aqua man:Move on, find someone else you're immensely devoted to, and BOOM! you got them all over you! Good luck with the b-**** ... ------------------
"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran IP: Logged |
Divine Goddess
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posted August 02, 2006 10:54 AM
That's not how to get back with an aqua. That's how you get a libra.You get an aqua by ignoring the **** outta them, and indulging in cooky habbits, as well as, rebelling against every thing "ordinary" and "organized" ------------------
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HandsomeLibra
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posted August 02, 2006 11:00 AM
hey crabplanet,
i am in the exact same boat ..mine is a female aqua ..when she is close ..its like fire hot and then i can't get her attention for days ..driving me crazy too 
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Mama Mia
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posted August 02, 2006 11:19 AM
And, DGoddess: I agree it works from both ends..LOL!!!Handsomelibra: You wanted an Aqua girl you gotta an Aqua girl, best be careful whatcha ask for.. IP: Logged |
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posted August 02, 2006 11:25 AM
OMG .. mama you are so right .. but i wanted to GET an aqua girl ..i dont think i have "gotten" her if i dont see her  ..
its like that libra basta** thread .."having affair with someone who lives in a different country" ..i miss her terribly
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Crabplanet
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posted August 02, 2006 12:30 PM
Thanks so much for your insights...Yes, I'm decided to move on, i can't take this...I'm going to be away for 3 weeks starting next week. This will help me to turn the page. But all this is very hard, i felt that we had an important soul connection. Was this all in my imagination? Could it be that he doesn't like the fact that i'm "officialy" with another man (with whom i will be during those 3 weeks...)? Could it be that he is afraid of our age difference? He is 52 and i'm 35? IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted August 02, 2006 12:42 PM
LOL!!! Handsome Libra, It does'nt matter you asked for her. What I realize now is that if I ask for an Aqua guy I must be specific and I must be able to handle him.I too am dating a Aqua and I will tell you this and I have learned this I too was on this board about two years ago crying because I had no idea how to deal with his flightyness and crazyness. Two years later I understand all that one can understand about the Aqua man. BUT the thing that works for me now is putting me first and not trying to do what I can to attract him or for him to want me. He has to step up to me or later for him.. They always make us compromise bc they are so fixed. Well to bad, I just got real selfish and said only and only and only what makes me happy I will deal with. Its been a real boat rocking thing here, but he continues to come back. I don't know about the women but the men need a real stong woman who will stand firm on what she means. And I mean what I say, I have learned about Aqua's. Plus I have my moon, venus,Merc and Asc in Aqua so I am somewhat fixed, but my Pisces sun can be a little soft at times...And I am prepared to walk away and not look back if I have to compromise my happiness...
Crabplanet: he is not giving you what you want and you know that you deserve better then he is treating you YES move on..The more you wonder and cling and whine about it the more he will do it..Been there done that..
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Crabplanet
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posted August 02, 2006 01:06 PM
Mama Mia,I will move on. But first I need to send him my last email. It will help me if he would just tell me the truth...I would like to see him one last time just to make sure that we are ending, and that's also what he wants...I know, i'm pathetic... IP: Logged |
aqua bassino
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posted August 02, 2006 01:32 PM
[quote]I don't know about the women but the men need a real stong woman who will stand firm on what she means.[quote/]I'm a female Aqua and I think you really hit the nail on the head.Some people may think we like games, but no, it's the other way around.Those interested in Aquarians, don’t wait for them to make the first move, you WON’T be disappointed but you will be waiting a long time if you choose to force them to make the first move; but
most of all be sincere. IP: Logged |
HandsomeLibra
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posted August 02, 2006 02:39 PM
hey aqua bassino,
what do you mean dont wait for them to make the first move ? i sense she is reluctant but christ we have gone out 4 times ..last time was amazing as the rest of the times ..long hugs and kisses .. ( i know am i sharing too much ? )
and i talked to her today after i didnt hear from her for 4 days and she seemed happy to talk to me but said shes busy ( real estate thing , and i believe her ) what should i do to get her to spend more time with me .. like crab said i too feel like a soul connection or maybe its just in my head ? and shes just bieng "friendly" ..are aqua women know to be "players " ? IP: Logged |
lmj515
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posted August 02, 2006 02:50 PM
best thing for you to do is wait for him (if you want, Thats up to you. No one would blame you if you didn't) for him to finish doing what ever has grabbed his attention for this long. Either that or you may have unwilling or unknowingly ****** him off and then he may have just forgotton all about you (ask him?)Failing both these options he may just be in a hibernation period which may last days, weeks, or even months and in that case jsut get on with your own stuff and wait for him to re-appear! I am an Aquarius myself. And i know how annoying i can be sometimes! Hope this helps even just a little!XIP: Logged |
Crabplanet
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posted August 02, 2006 04:26 PM
Imj515:Well I have been absent for 4 weeks, traveling with my official boyfriend...Do you think that he was actually jealous of that? I thought that Aquas couldn't be jealous...i forgot, i did tell him, when i came back, that I had spent a really good time...and i didn't say anything concerning my "still" relationship with the "other"...Could this be something that bothers him? IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan
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posted August 02, 2006 04:46 PM
if you have a bf why do you care about this guy? kind of a lousy thing to do to your bf too. at least come clean with your bfIts no suprise, regardless of sign, that someone does not want to get involved with another someone who is not single..no wonder he was distant and maybe even jealous, he has every right to be distant, no suprise!!!! any smart man would be in that situation, no offense. have fun with the karma, probably come back to bite you in the current relationship. IP: Logged |
Crabplanet
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posted August 02, 2006 06:36 PM
Carlfloydfan:My bf (or I may have to say my ex bf) and I have been together for 14 years...we have been separated now for a little less than a year. We even live in separate countries. But we still have this beautiful friendship between us, and we see each other every 2 months...our relationship didn't end bad. We are like best friends...but I guess we still need some time to definetly start a new life...and meanwhile I have met this man... IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan
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posted August 02, 2006 09:45 PM
i see. well good luck with the men in your world!IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124
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posted August 02, 2006 11:33 PM
HandsomeLibra, yes women Aquas can be players, I've known a few of them. Have you asked her if she is interested in a relationship and is she dating others? I would ask her this and find out for sure what she's interested in. Tell her what you are looking for so you both will understand each other.I've got an Aqua (the same one at work) buzzing around me like a bee, not sure if I want to bite this time...he sure is tall and handsome though...
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HandsomeLibra
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posted August 03, 2006 12:11 AM
hey blue,
its a wierd case .. we both came out of 4+ year relationship almost the same time , i have dated 2 girls in the last 7 months ( short term things , one still lingering ) .. but she has not .. she said she is really attracted , we had a great time when we met , it was almost love-at-first-sight ( well not love yet )
so I ( like an idiot ) asked her that is she sure she wants to date me ? and is not rebounding ( still kicking myself in the head for that one ) i was just trying to be fair to her ..and we said its ok if we both saw other people and we dont have to tell each other ..(i told her about the 2 girls and told her i am not all that serious with them and it wont hurt them or me to end it )
anyways ..now i dont know what she is thinking ..
i would LOVE to find out though ..and i am still interested in her ..it was the best date ( the first one ) i have ever had .. we felt like friends,couple almost everything .. another thing she said was " its allways nice in the beginning " with a very smile-turned-to-sad-smile .. and i am guessing that comes from prev relationship but i dont hold any grudge against my ex at all .. i hope she moves on too .. i know timing for meeting her sucks probably but she seems PERFECT for me and me for her
thanx
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BlueTopaz124
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posted August 03, 2006 01:05 AM
From what you say, it seems she is getting over her last relationship and not ready to dive in deep in another one. She will be, though. Be a good friend to her and build on that, Aquas value a friend above anything else. You never know.IP: Logged |
Crabplanet
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posted August 03, 2006 09:03 AM
Last night i sent my Aqua an important message, expressing everything that i feel for him. It could be that this scares him...but i was sincere, not playing games...If there is no response after that, then it wasn't meant to be. Could it be that he "reflected" an important aspect in my chart: i have my venus making a square with Pluto and Uranus, and that's how i feel this relationship is with him...+ his Uranus conjuncts my Sun at the exact same degree...Anyone has an idea of why we have to meet certain people, those who make a profound impact on us? IP: Logged |
HandsomeLibra
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posted August 03, 2006 11:40 AM
thanx blue .. keeping to myself now till she calls ..i dont mind bieng a friend IP: Logged |
aqua bassino
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posted August 03, 2006 07:27 PM
HandsomeLibraI'm sorry if I made you even more confused with my comments, probably I am not the right person to give advice. Right now my love life is more messed up than yours.Well, I wish you good luck. IP: Logged |
HandsomeLibra
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posted August 03, 2006 07:49 PM
no worries .. thanx aqua ..good luck with your love situation IP: Logged |
BerrySweet
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posted August 03, 2006 10:09 PM
quote:
I don't understand him, for a moment he seems totally uninterested, and then he can be very close.
Are you sure it isn't the opposite? He gets close, and then suddenly pulls away? I am an Aqua, and guilty of the same thing. Whenever I feel I've got too close, I make a hasty withdraw. quote:
Last night i sent my Aqua an important message, expressing everything that i feel for him.
Egads! Tell me you didn't! Okay, just play it super, icy, cool now. Don't call him, or try to see him, or ask for a "talk." You said what you had to say. If he's into you, he'll make the next move. Think of him as a frightened stray dog. Don't make any sudden moves. He must come to you. Don't reach toward him or he'll get startled. IP: Logged |
HandsomeLibra
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posted August 03, 2006 10:22 PM
berry berry berry help me too ;-) get my aqua girl IP: Logged |
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