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Topic: Her Saturn Conjunct his Venus..Doe this mean she teaching him a lesson???
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Mama Mia
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posted August 03, 2006 10:36 AM
  
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Inner depths
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posted August 03, 2006 12:17 PM
I have come across this a few times in my life but it was the guy who had his Saturn conj my Venus. The first bit things went good and we got along but after a while I found the guys to be very cold, unsupportive and somewhat abusive. Now it's not to say that all Venus - Saturn connections are like this. I'm just stating from my own experiences.To one guy, he thought I could never do any better and seemed to look down his nose at me. His expecation of me was to own my own house, have a very high paying job and my own vehicles. If I didn't have any of that, then I was no good and was seen as a beggar on the streets mentality. so that is my 2 cents worth....I'm hoping that somebody else has something uplifting about this...... ID IP: Logged |
Alisa
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posted August 03, 2006 06:59 PM
Sorry. Does anyone ever have experience with Venus trine Saturn? Can you also share your feeling here?
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Belage
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 03, 2006 08:33 PM
I don't want to deal with anyone having their Saturn smack on my Venus. In my experience, they'll have control over your fortune and will depress you. Maybe Saturn trine Venus or sextile Venus, but not conjunct. Venus does not like being in such close proximity with the controlling taskmaster. IP: Logged |
and
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posted August 03, 2006 08:36 PM
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Inner depths
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posted August 03, 2006 09:23 PM
I have a friend who I have known for almost 10 years. This friend is in my Inner circle His Saturn trines my venus and I think we'll be friends forever. It is a very lovely natal placement too in a chart with Venus trine saturn. I've read it means that love lasts a while for them, they are steadfast and loyal. ID IP: Logged |
Venus De Milo
Knowflake Posts: 177
From: nyc
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 04, 2006 05:01 AM
Hey Mama Mia,I think Saturn conjunct Venus is a very strong long term bond. Of course, with Saturn thrown in the mix anywhere, it's not going to be all sunshine and roses, but it's a very solid "glue", something that I think would be very hard for the Venus person to resist, althought I think they might try! The energy and fatedness might be a little scary for them. If we are talking about your Aqua here, I think this might explain some of his apprehensiveness (as well as the mere fact that he is a damn Aqua! LOL!). On the one hand, he's drawn to you and the fatedness you share, and on the other hand, it probably scares him because on some deeper level, he can sense the tough karmic lessons that will be learned with you. I would rather have "negative" Saturn aspects than none at all!  This one is not negative though. Saturn conjunct anything is going to have a bit of a stodgy old wet blanket effect on the other person, IMO. My ex-husband had Saturn exactly on my ASC. On one hand I resented him always acting like he's my ******* daddy and being a stick in the mud, etc. In fact, my big complaint was always "My God! You are like a boring old man!!! Lighten up!!!"... LOL... But I also got an immense sense of security and safety from him and I think Saturn conjunctions provide that sense of saftey and security to the personal planet person, which is important in a long term relationship...  IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted August 04, 2006 10:28 AM
Thanks to all, you are a bunch of SWEETHEARTS!!!But especially thanks to you VeunusD: You answered my question right on point. The exact thing that you explianed that is happening with me and my Aqua. There is lessons for us both, he is running from it, im not..But he is drawn to me and has no control over his emotions. for an Aqua that is alot... IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 19, 2012 01:27 PM
hey mama mia, how did it work out for you and your aqua?IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 20, 2012 03:12 PM
Wow, that was six years ago! How did it turn out?------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
~Mia~
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 23, 2012 02:53 PM
Hi Randall and Knowflakes, yes its been a minute since I posted this one. WOW, the person that has me spark this post well he and I are not together anymore, but happy to say that alls well that ends well. We are still friends and checks in on each other from time to time. There was so many lessons that he and I Shared between each other. Its been almost three years since we were romantically involved but I will always carry a special spot in my heart for him. Saturn is messy but the reward for getting through leaves a rainbow..Hope all is well with everyone.. IP: Logged |
Despina
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posted May 14, 2012 08:30 PM
I too have been somewhat worried about saturn/venus aspects in synastry, and am very glad to hear you had a positive experience Mia! I have the conjunction with my son (I'm saturn, he's venus). Some of what I've been reading suggests that he might find me 'too restrictive in a parental sense', but hopefully given the context of our relationship that's to be expected? I don't think it's the most attractive of synastry aspects, but I appreciate Venus De Milo's comments regarding the value of security. Slight thread drift, but my saturn sits on my sister's moon, and while she has accused me of being too heavy/cold at times, I will always be there for her. I once dated a man whose saturn sat on MY moon, and I have to say that I found him very appealing in a 'safe/steady' kind of a way. More recently I dated someone whose saturn sat on my mars uranus conjunction. THAT I found quite stifling. But then, my moon is in Capricorn, whereas my mars is in Sagg. I wonder if saturn aspects in synastry are a little easier in earth signs? IP: Logged |
Thefish
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 15, 2012 06:58 PM
I would imagine this would only work long term if the two people had saturn and venus either as the chart rulers or descendant rulers.Otherwise I think the saturn would eventually choke the life out of the love from the venus person. IP: Logged |
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