posted August 03, 2006 12:41 PM              

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"

"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"

posted August 03, 2006 12:51 PM              

GIRL's Venus sextile BOY's Venus:

Your values and tastes in life are in harmony and this makes it easy to enjoy each other's company.
From music, to food, to love's sweet embrace, you find many ways to enjoy your life together.

GIRL's Saturn conjunct BOY's Saturn:

There are no dominance and submission issues between the two of you, because you have
absolutely equal power to stand up to each other. You will have to negotiate all issues between the
two of you, as neither of you will allow the other to get away with any power trips. You can be
very supportive and helpful toward each other in times of challenge, because your strategies of
dealing with difficult situations are right on track with each other.

BOY's Sun conjunct GIRL's Mars:

This tie is extremely intense and often confrontational. It is passionate, without a doubt, and very
favorable in some arenas, but arguments and battles of wills can be passionate as well. If you can't
take the heat, get out of the kitchen, with this one. You can inflame each other, and without
restraint or healthy outlets, things could turn bad.

BOY's Sun sextile GIRL's Venus:

This is one of the sweet ties in relationship astrology, leading to natural affection and simply
enjoying being in each other's company. If it's not a romantic relationship, the arts and cultural
opportunities are a few of a multitude of ways to share and enjoy life with each other. The natural
magnetic flow of attraction that exists between the two of you makes it easier to overlook each
other's shortcomings.

BOY's Sun sextile GIRL's Jupiter:

You encourage a positive outlook on life together and there is no end to the number of
growth-oriented activities that you could enjoy together. You both feel confident that it is safe to
trust each other. Shared experiences with travel, education, and philosophical pursuits are favored.

GIRL's Sun square BOY's Mercury:

Communication difficulties arise because of the angular nature of your perspective on issues. You
see things differently and must allow for this if the relationship is to flourish. Otherwise, petty
arguments could arise over how things are said to each other.

GIRL's Sun square BOY's Neptune:

It is not likely that you see each other clearly. Neptune is the blind spot, and when challenging the
Sun, you can lead each other into illusions. BOY sees qualities that may, or may not, be in GIRL.
GIRL can look at BOY as being totally ungrounded in reality.

BOY's Sun square GIRL's North Node:

The relationship goes through periods where growth seems to be stalled and you pull each other
into past patterns. Are you going to support each other's growth, or hold each other to the past?

BOY's Moon conjunct GIRL's Venus:

This aspect could be characterized as "sweet." It is easy to trust one another and romance is likely.
Simply spending time together is emotionally rewarding and even delightful. The personal side of
life is favored.

BOY's Moon conjunct GIRL's Pluto:

BOY can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand GIRL's will. A healthy relationship
can develop only if GIRL can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of
intimidation. Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the
two of you is strong.

GIRL's Moon conjunct BOY's Chiron:

A natural empathy and sensitivity exists between the two of you over wounds that you experienced
in the past. You support each other's emotional healing from these wounds and nurture each other's
compassion for others.

GIRL's Moon trine BOY's Jupiter:

BOY has a knack for uplifting GIRL's mood. GIRL, of course, enjoys this, so a positive, trusting
relationship develops. GIRL emotionally supports the growth needs and the philosophical and
religious interests of BOY.

GIRL's Moon opposition BOY's Saturn:

This tie is usually considered unfavorable for emotional relationships, unless BOY is mindful of the
excessive sensitivity GIRL has to any disapproval. GIRL's needs are judged as weak by BOY and
tend to go unmet.

GIRL's Moon opposition BOY's Uranus:

GIRL tends to feel threatened by BOY's independence and need for freedom, while BOY feels
encumbered by GIRL's emotional needs.

BOY's Mercury conjunct GIRL's Neptune:

This leads to a mystical, nearly psychic connection between the two of you. Mutual interests in
mysticism, spirituality, and artistic pursuits are favored. Worldly issues and practical concerns are
not so favored. In these issues, it is best to compensate for this imaginative combination by making
sure that you are not seeing potential that doesn't really exist.

GIRL's Mercury trine BOY's Jupiter:

This aspect is very favorable for communication and mutual interests in continued learning. BOY's
philosophical outlook on life is expansive and uplifting to GIRL. GIRL engages BOY's
philosophical beliefs and helps plan movement toward goals.

GIRL's Mercury trine BOY's Chiron:

You support each other's interests in alternative healing, and provide each other with insights into
the significance of your past wounds.

GIRL's Mercury square BOY's Venus:

GIRL communicates in a way that offends BOY's sensibilities. GIRL feels BOY is pretentious.
BOY gets hurt feelings over the way GIRL communicates. You would be advised to educate each
other as to these sensitivities to avoid them in the future.

GIRL's Venus conjunct BOY's Mars:

Strong sexual attraction is always present with this "cosmic glue" combination. Even when you're
upset with each other emotionally or mentally, your bodies would just as soon be hugging. The only
danger of this tie is taking this magnetism for granted and failing to cultivate the ongoing courtship
required to sustain the initial spark.

GIRL's Venus conjunct BOY's Pluto:

A compelling, nearly hypnotic attraction can exist between the two of you. With highly developed
souls, this can lead to deep, transformative passion. With lower types, the compelling energy can
lead to obsessions or manipulative love.

GIRL's Venus opposition BOY's North Node:

The past-life karma you bring into this life is that of GIRL having been a female lover for BOY in a
previous life. It is easy to love one another, but soul memories stir feelings that don't make sense in
this life. Will you promote soul growth for each other in this life, or will you cling to memories and
yearnings for how things were?

GIRL's Venus square BOY's Jupiter:

It is not always easy to find ways to socialize together. What one of you considers a
growth-oriented activity, the other might not value at all. When you do get together, there is the risk
of encouraging each other's excessive behavior.

BOY's Mars conjunct GIRL's Pluto:

This is an extremely powerful aspect, for good or ill. The high road leads to an invincible will when
this power is focused in honorable directions together. Passion can top the charts in a healthy
sexual relationship. The saying "Power corrupts" describes the low road manifestations of this
combination. In worst-case scenarios, violence could erupt. Encouraging each other's attitude of
"Might makes right" could lead to all types of misuses of this energy. If you can't direct the energy
in healthy directions, all types of strange obsessions with each other could manifest.

BOY's Mars trine GIRL's Jupiter:

You bring out a confident and positive attitude in each other, allowing you to work and play well
together. You also travel well together and encourage each other to take part in the opportunities
life has to offer.

GIRL's Mars square BOY's Ascendant:

Conflicts erupt when BOY feels picked on or badgered by GIRL Conversely, GIRL becomes
irritated by BOY's approach to situations.

BOY's Jupiter trine GIRL's Chiron:

You learn from your relationship how important a person's philosophy and beliefs are in terms of
the creating and healing of wounds. Through this firsthand experience, you may be drawn to
teaching others how to liberate their relationships by changing their beliefs.

BOY's Jupiter sextile GIRL's Uranus:

This motivates the two of you to look for growth beyond your relationship together. You support
each other's independent views and opinions, encouraging each other to constantly expand on your
experiences and learn from life. Travel, education, and spiritual growth are all favored.

BOY's Jupiter sextile GIRL's North Node:

You provide strong support for each other's spiritual growth and can actively pursue spiritual
studies together. Travel together can be related to your spiritual quest, and it will not be difficult to
find a path that is growth-oriented for both of you.

GIRL's Jupiter square BOY's Uranus:

Although this combination promotes a great deal of excitement, you too easily encourage each
other into rash and even reckless behavior. There is an unfounded feeling of luck that encourages
risk taking that can be disastrous. Arguments can flair up over political and religious issues that you
are not likely to see eye to eye on.

BOY's Jupiter square GIRL's Ascendant:

Many disagreements can erupt because your basic beliefs about so many life issues are at odds
with each other. These arguments aren't so hot as to be threatening, with Jupiter involved, but
GIRL can experience BOY 's beliefs about education, religion, and politics to be way off base.

GIRL's Jupiter square BOY's Chiron:

Your beliefs and philosophical views clash with each other concerning health and healing issues.
Although not with malicious indent, GIRL can encourage directions that hinder, rather than help,
BOY's healing process.

GIRL's Saturn opposition BOY's Chiron:

You tend to undermine each other's attempts to move beyond old wounds. You may make
judgments about each other's insecurities and fears, exacerbating the problem, rather than helping.
Be aware that advice you give is not likely to be well received; it is best to talk less and listen more
to each other's fears and insecurities.

GIRL's Uranus trine BOY's Ascendant:

You encourage and support each other's uniqueness and individuality by giving each other
permission to be just who you are without pretension. You support each other's path of awakening
and evolution by encouraging each other to stay in an attitude of discovery.

BOY's Uranus trine GIRL's North Node:

This aspect is favorable for keeping each other excited about a path of evolving and discovering
life. You come away from discussions feeling excited about the fresh insights you give each other.

BOY's Uranus opposition GIRL's Chiron:

Here, we have two rebels with two different causes. An example would be two people who both
rebelled against traditional health care and found their own, but different, alternative paths. Until
you can honor these differences, the tendency to look at each other's path as eccentric at best, and
as having little merit, will certainly be felt as challenging.

GIRL's Neptune trine BOY's North Node:

You can trust each other to provide spiritual guidance and insights as you have a natural empathy
for each other's soul needs.

GIRL's Neptune sextile BOY's Pluto:

Your interactions with each other invariably help you both rise above the petty, lower currents of
reality. If you attempt to meditate together, you will feel as if you are being lifted up on unseen
wings.

GIRL's Pluto opposition BOY's North Node:

Karmic patterns of control games worm their way into the relationship. It is as if GIRL can't help
but dominate BOY, who can't help but submit to the will of GIRL. This can bring out destructive
behavior patterns in the relationship until the power trips are put behind you. BOY is being tested
to claim the right to follow BOY's personal will, and GIRL is being tested with the right use of
power. The question is, can this undeniable influence be directed in a way that is in everyone's best
interest?

BOY's Ascendant conjunct GIRL's North Node:

This combination can lead to soul growth for both of you, although is doesn't always make for a
comfortable relationship because of the lack of familiarity with each other's orientation to life.
GIRL's natural way of approaching life merges with the path of soul growth for BOY creating a
fertile combination for continued spiritual growth for both of you.

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"

"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"

posted August 03, 2006 03:15 PM            

Astrology cannot necessarily tell you that this is definitely destiny between these two...or if your actions caused it.

I had a similar event occur in my life and it is very painful, I agree. The best you can do, if he is with someone else, is to begin to move on.

There may be karma involved, there may not. Either way, if it happened then that is the situation as it is. I do feel your pain though and I hope you begin to feel better soon.

Love

posted August 03, 2006 05:00 PM              

I am so sorry for the pain you had to go through. Its very hard to see the one we like love someone else. Nothing can tell if it destiny-nothing but time. I suggest that you do not research his chart further-because I don't see it doing you a lot of good honey. Please take this time to focus on yourself.

posted August 09, 2006 02:46 AM              

What are your Vertex and Vesta's at in each of your Natals. And, how do they look in a Synastry Chart?

You can get the answers to those very easily if you go to astro.com. It's free and there much to do. Not to send you somewhere else, but they have a very dynamic and comprehensive Web site which is very easy to use.

astro.com > FREE CHARTS > EXTENDED CHARTS > Under "Please select the type of chart you want" Choose SYNASTRY > In dropdown menu on left Choose VERTEX and VESTA. That's it!

That's the easiest one to start with, and matter later you might look at Eros & Psyche, which are considered Asteroids, and you'll find a great index with codes for those you can enter. If I'm not mistaken, every single one of those codes in that long long list when you click LIST OF OVER 10000 NAMED ASTEROIDS, is a universal coding system, if I'm not mistaken.

Feel free to ask for more help on this if you need it.

posted August 12, 2006 02:55 PM              

With this interactive Chart, you click on each part of the Wheel, and a little pop-up window shows you the interpretations. Don't forget to go back and not only click on the Aspect Lines, and their points, but also click on each individual PLANET SYMBOL, plus, go back and click on each SIGN SYMBOL on the very outside of the Wheel, for even more info. It's fun!

I recommend copying and pasting the text from the pop-ups into your harddrive so you only have to go through all the pop-ups once.

Also, this free interactive feature is NOT a Synastry. It is a Composite Chart. For the most part, free Composite Charts are easier to find online. Free Synastry reports and tools are more difficult to find.

posted August 20, 2006 03:44 PM              

the stuff i copy-pasted was from the astroclick partner chart on that site. iam not sure if it was composite chart.

i may post my synastry chart when i learn how to post it here.

posted August 20, 2006 09:22 PM              

Yeah, it is rare to find a free interpretation on any given Synastry Chart.

Did you say you wanted an interpretation of the stuff you "copy pasted" here?

Well, since we've been talking a lot about music here lately, I'll give ya my rock'n roll version.

Sun Opp Asc - not good if you care about your image as a couple

Pluto Opp Asc - same as above

Jup Sq Nep - not good for romance

Ven Sq Mars - not good for romance

Nep Trine Asc - not good for romance

Sat Sq Nep - not good for romance

Mars Trine Plu - yeah, right

Merc Conj Sat - this is one of those puzzles where I'm supposed to say this can't exist?

Sun Opp Asc - I give up ...

Anyone else wanna give it a shot?

posted August 22, 2006 03:24 AM              

... at least I gave it a shot ... didn't get any feedback except for a smile, so I guess I did good ...

(Smiles are needed here, just like singles at a cash bar... thank you)