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Topic: Leaving something stable for someone better?
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Scarlette355 unregistered
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posted August 03, 2006 05:40 PM
I just left my bf of 6 1/2 years for someone else...and I feel so bad. My old bf - Taurus Sun, Cancer Asc, Capricorn Moon Potential bf- Taurus Sun, Scorpio Asc, Sagg Moon Me: Capricorn Sun, Libra Asc, Sagg Moon Did I make the right choice? Based on Astrology?
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alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 40 From: Somewhere over the rainbow Registered: May 2009
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posted August 03, 2006 06:53 PM
Need more placements, however, they can only say so much. It's up to you to decide if he's better or notIP: Logged |
BlueEyes24 unregistered
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posted August 03, 2006 07:03 PM
Follow your heart.I was with my ex-boyfriend for awhile (not as long as you though). I met someone else (my current boyfriend) and I felt a connection with him right away. I began to develop strong feelings for him, and broke up with the ex. I felt bad at first, but I'm glad that I followed my heart - otherwise, I would have been stuck in a bad relationship (we were having problems)... now I found the love of my life. If you don't mind me asking - Were you and your ex having problems, or was your decision to break up with him just based on your feelings for this other guy? IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted August 09, 2006 03:00 AM
Welcome Scarlette355Does there seem to be less friction with the potential bf? What are the "old bf's" Aspects to your Capricorn Sun, and keeping exact Degrees and Orbs in mind because although you have your Moon & Sun in the Same Sign of Capricorn, they may be too separated by Degrees to create a full-on connect. I mean, I don't know. But there's a couple of things to think about too if you're still on to this. ------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75 unregistered
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posted August 09, 2006 05:20 PM
Well, to be honest I don't know if it can be thought about only in terms of astrology... there are other factors, like what's going on your life for you now and also for you emotionally. I was in your situation a year ago and I left a 'good' astrological match for one that on the surface would seem to be disastrous: me=Taurus sun, Sag ascendant, Scorpio moon; him=Gemini sun, Aries Ascendant, Aries moon. But there are other good things in our synastry (Jupiter/Moon aspects, some trines I can't remember now, 7th house), which to be honest right now I'm not even placing any importance on BECAUSE beyond synastry I know that he is providing what I need at this point in my life. I'm also dealing with a vague depression relating to leaving my ex (the guilt of it and being made to feel guilty by others) so I know what you're going through with that. Good luck!
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posted August 12, 2006 05:18 PM
*bumped to top of thread* IP: Logged |
PansPride unregistered
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posted August 13, 2006 07:11 AM
Maybe Its some consilation, but I have just recently left my Fiance of three years this week. Contrary to popular opinion however I didn't leave her for another, there is a slight amount of hope with this other one, but I think i'd rather have a friendship. My feeling has been one of freedom/Liberation, from things that have been holding me back. I'm not much in figuring things out astrologicially, the only thing I really know about it, is how it affects me. What are you other placements? I have Cap sun, Leo ASC, Libra moon, Venus in sag, Saturn/Jupiter in Libra, Mars in capricorn. I was figuring something was happening astrologically but I don't know yet. IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan unregistered
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posted August 13, 2006 07:29 AM
my theory: there is more than one person met for you on this earth. dozens. I am not sure if you folks were content with the relationship you were in or mad. But if I were content, I would stay in my current relationship. So much (more) effort, experiences, love and memories to sacrifice and give up for someone you barely know just because you have a similar connection. Sorry soul mate 2, you were just to late and I don't want to work something up again like I have for soul mate 1. Besides, do you leave soul mate 2 if 3 comes along? just stay with the one you know beter.IP: Logged |
BlueEyes24 unregistered
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posted August 13, 2006 08:38 AM
"just stay with the one you know beter."That's just like staying with someone you don't want to be with anymore. You shouldn't have to stay with someone you lose feelings for, just because it's "safe" and you've been with them for awhile. I think, for me, to even begin to develop feelings for someone else in the first place while I'm with someone else, I'd want to re-evaluate my relationship with that person. And I'm not talking about having a little crush or thinking someone is good looking, because that's normal. But I think that if I developed FEELINGS for someone else, then my feelings with the current person weren't that great in the first place. But that's just my opinion. IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan unregistered
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posted August 13, 2006 03:39 PM
"just stay with the one you know beter."---"That's just like staying with someone you don't want to be with anymore." No no, I was assuming things were going swimmingly. And I think that in certian examples, it is normal to build up sincere feelings for a second person. But you have been through more with the first person and if things are good, that should be reason to stay. Whats to say person 2 does not drop you for their new found S.O. 10 years down the road. comfort is an important aspect in relationships and if your current S.O. is soildly attached, why leave it for something new where things are not solid? soul mates have a way of crushing the heart, maybe because they are less evolved, so why risk it?
maybe I explained myself better. Afterall, Its not 6 in the morning anymore after 9 hours of work . And again, that is assuming things are going fine in the current relationship (with expected typical little problems that no one avoids). remember the beginning of anything (first few months) is usually perfect, so of course it appeals and looks better (sweet allusion) compared to routine you experience and little problems you experience over the years with the current person. But when that second relationship inevitably does the same in the years that follow, it will be on equal or very near equal levels with your first soul mate, AT THE BEST. So stay with experience and the person you put so much effort into.
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astro junkie unregistered
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posted August 16, 2006 12:25 AM
Did that help Scarlette355?IP: Logged |
Mannu Knowflake Posts: 45 From: always here and no where Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 16, 2006 02:07 AM
Astrology has nothing to do with this. Inquire who brings you more happiness at end of the day. Are you or your X boy friend trying to find a safe hiding place for the time being? Have you wondered what he must be thinking too? I thought most taurus people are very stable and against extra-marital affairs. Any way, your self knows better.
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