posted August 04, 2006 03:59 PM            

I'd rather not go into detail about what the fight was about as it's rather personal, but it really just started out as a discussion. I was a little irritated with him about something, and since he's always asked me to be honest with him, I brought it up on Tuesday. I tried to be as ginger with it as I possibly could but he was hurt and offended. We debated this for over an hour on Tuesday night, and when the conversation ended I was in tears. He had said he didn't have anything else to say and couldn't talk about it anymore. I'm the kind of person that likes to resolve conflicts as quickly as possible and talk them through (Pisces moon), but he can't handle his anger, and completely shuts down.

I called him on Wednesday in hopes of clearing this up more. Instead, the fight just escalated finally ending with him hanging up on me after an angry tirade which included, "I'M SO F-ING MAD RIGHT NOW I COULD TEAR A WHOLE OUT OF THE F-ING WALL! YOU WANTED TO KNOW HOW BAD MY TEMPER COULD GET...WELL THIS IS IT! I'M DONE! I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT THIS ANYMORE! NO MORE! MAYBE WE CAN TALK TOMORROW BUT I'M F-ING DONE! NO MORE!!! That's when he hung up.

I've never had anyone hang up on me before - ever. I was only TALKING to him. I wasn't raising my voice, I wasn't cursing - nothing. It just seemed like he was taking offense to EVERYTHING I said. I couldn't say anything right. It's not only that he's a Scorp, but he's triple fixed - Asc in Taurus, and moon in Leo. If I'm not getting the stinger I'm getting the horns or the claws! He didn't like what he was hearing and he completely shut me out. Now I haven't heard from him in two days.

posted August 04, 2006 04:35 PM              

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Gemini/Cancer Cusp, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars
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Things base and vile, holding no quantity,
Love can transpose to form and dignity.
Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind,
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.

posted August 04, 2006 04:42 PM            

Unless you betrayed him, he'll be back around... With hopefully some perspective and an apology of his own...

I hate that sick feeling too... its all consuming....

Even my son is A Scorp/ Leo moon... I back off when he's angry and wait until he comes to me to apologize... He is 6.. I've gotten him into counseling to try to help him deal with the anger... It's a helpless feeling, I know....

posted August 04, 2006 07:29 PM              

I'm more concerned about how you will deal with feelings & issues in the future. When he does come back will you be able to ask him if he would prefer that you keep your opinions to yourself, or would he prefer that you continue to tell him the truth? Will you always live in fear of his temper to the point of shutting down when you need to talk?

Just be prepaired for a (what seems like a forever) wait, and just try to keep yourself occupied. Don't let this consume you!

posted August 04, 2006 08:56 PM            

He wanted your honesty. You gave it to him, and now he is angry. What's a girl to do?

Let him be. Scorpio likes to seduce, but Scorpio cannot be seduced. If he wants to come back, he will come back. If he doesn't want to come back, he won't.

I love Scorpio men. I happen to think that in order to effectively deal with them, you can have weaknesses, but at your very core, you need to be strong. They do not respect core weakness.

posted August 05, 2006 01:59 AM              

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posted August 05, 2006 06:02 AM            

He handles anger exactly like I do. I honestly don't know..Where's his Mars?

I'm a Scorpio/Leo too. What's certain is a need to let him cool down. Do not try and force him to talk because that will just add to his anger..

I really wish I could give you more but I'm a mess with my temper. I don't listen to apologies, and I take everything to heart so quickly.... I need to work on that. What works for me is talking it through for a LONG time, however, I'm a Libra Asc and Mars in Aquarius.... So it works for me. Idk it will will work for him

Doesn't hurt to try, make sure you clearly define how much what you said wasnt mean to directly hurt him however, you were just being honest and just be dramatic with apology... that might work, but be ultra sincere and tread with caution

posted August 06, 2006 04:21 AM              

Like everyone says give him some space and time.
I myself am, scorpio sun/ leo moon and when im mad, im mad and thats all there is to it. However alone time gives me a chance to think things through and work out my own feelings and such. The harder someone pushes me when i'm mad, the worse it gets for that person. though any lack of an attempt from that person to make up makes me even more mad. If that makes any sense.