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Topic: OMFG Does this mean what I think it does?
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azzure773
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posted August 10, 2006 10:22 PM
 
Okay- I recently had a dream that my boyfriend liked my cousin and left me for her- out the blue, I know it's crazy- so I decided to do their charts. I was very upset to see that their chart was even better than our OWN CHART! Not only that but their Venus and Sun is in the twelfth house of their composite chart- indicating a secret relationship. Also in my boyfriend's chart- his Venus is in his 12th house which can be interpreted to predict that he will have at least one affair that will have to be kept secret because of the identity of either him or the other person, or the fact that one or both of them is already committed according to his chart I did. (courtesy of thefutureminders.com) Combined, this information does not sit well with me at all!!!!!!!!Please give me some advice...am I being obsessive? Here's all of our info-
Me- 7/24/1986 4:03p Chicago, IL
Him- 3/26/1985 6:29a Chicago, IL
Her- 9/12/1988 4:30a Chicago, ILIP: Logged |
Venusian Love
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posted August 10, 2006 10:43 PM
Are you usually obsessive?
Have you noticed any of them showing interest in each other?
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Love can transpose to form and dignity.
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And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind. -William Shakespeare IP: Logged |
azzure773
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posted August 10, 2006 10:51 PM
Yea I can be kind of obsessive at times- and no, my cousin hasn't even met my boyfriend yet. I just find it strange that 1. I had a dream about my boyfriend leaving me for my cousin
2. Their composite chart indicates the potential for a secret relationship where the feelings are hidden- but very VERY strong
3. My boyfriend's own natal chart shows that he has the capacity to carry on a secret affair I'm just really bent out of shape over it- wouldn't you be? IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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From: the city so nice they named it twice!
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posted August 10, 2006 10:58 PM
Ok one quick question alittle off topic... Have any of your other dreams come true?IP: Logged |
Venusian Love
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posted August 10, 2006 11:00 PM
I can be very obsessive also.
I dated a guy when I was 15 til I was 21. I had dreams at night that he was cheating. I'd wake up crying.
It was all true I found out later on.
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Gemini/Cancer Cusp, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars
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Things base and vile, holding no quantity,
Love can transpose to form and dignity.
Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind,
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind. -William Shakespeare IP: Logged |
SilverFairy
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posted August 11, 2006 12:04 AM
I too have dream's that end up coming about later on, it's stressful at times because I never know which situations are going to come about and if they will be to the same extent as the dream. So I know personally about obsessing.. It's hard not to!IP: Logged |
triplecancer
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posted August 11, 2006 01:09 PM
Hi Azzure
What kind of relationship do you have with your cousin? Are you good friends? Sometimes dreams are premonitions and sometimes they just reveal our unconscious fears. Maybe you fear your boyfriend will cheat on you and in your dream that other person appeared as your cousin (but really it could have been someone else). I donīt think itīs any good to be afraid, because youīll suffer. You have to trust him and if you donīt you should talk about it with him. They havenīt even met yet, so maybe youīre worrying too much ahead of time. Good luck! IP: Logged |
sugar_buns
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posted August 11, 2006 01:55 PM
venus in 12th house doesnt mean a person will cheat on his/her partner...
it means a person is secretive about his/her affections...even the normal ones...IP: Logged |
azzure773
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posted August 12, 2006 01:14 AM
thanks everyone for the feedback! oh and me and my cousin used to be good friends but she stabbed me in the back a couple of times and I don't trust her anymore. I think maybe there are some insecurities involved though, because whenever I fall asleep mad at my boyfriend I have those types of dreams. I just find it weird that their chart compares so well and indicates a secret relationship. but i guess i have to let go and let god/fate determine the outcome of this whole thing!IP: Logged |
katipo
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posted August 12, 2006 01:47 AM
Yeah I'd let it go, could drive you nuts, the what ifs etc, plus it's hard to forget whatever it is your cousin has done. Maybe he's not THE one. I wish you luck in your endeavours, try not to focus so much on this.Blessings ~Maia~ IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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From: ON Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 12, 2006 03:05 AM
Thank you triplecancer, ( hello!) for asking that question.
My first instinct is that it has less to do with a potentially good synastry.... than with feelings of transient insecurity involved in your intimate relationships...
More about you and your relationship with others, than others' and their potential relationships.
I suspect you need to mend fences with your cousin, or let her stop representing this in your life.My hubby has great synastry with one of our best friends..... and for that matter, I have great synastry with MANY people.... that doesn't mean anything.. it's potentials, not life, not actuality... my hubs and I might not have exquisite synastry on paper, but who lives their life on paper... often you see that it works, contrary to anything you study...
Studying allows you to pinpoint with more accuracy the whys of the works... but not necessarily that magic chemisty that proves it. Welcome to LL! IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan
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posted August 12, 2006 03:24 AM
Don't think so much! Though maybe I should practice what I preach. sometimes thinking like that becomes a self fulfilling prophecy and you end up screwing yourself over.sometimes it is hard to shut your self up, but when you see others thinking to much like you are, it is easy to see what it looks like, as that person acts as a mirror. The thing is, your S.O. has not done anything wrong so it is only fair to simply trust them. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted August 13, 2006 06:57 PM
azzure773 -Ah! That dream ... Funny thing about dreams, YOU are ultimately the one who will understand what it means -- if you even get to remember the dream long enough, that is ... I'd like to call on any Leo's out there who, if you told them there was a chance (not a big chance, or small chance, but just any chance), their significant other could have an affair -- how many Leo's out there could effectively prepare themselves for it (?) I say this with explicit intentions of proving that if you add "with your cousin" it would be like yelling fire in a crowded theater. This messes with your head not only because you WANT to trust your intuition, but you refuse to accept even the possibility of it happening. Is the dream intended to show you what is inevitable so you can prepare, brace yourself, spy, etc.? Or is the dream intended for other reasons? If you got a warning such as this through a dream, is there really much you can do in terms of anticipation? And finally, are there people out there who would be able to live through this type of anticipation or indiscretion unscathed? In many cultures in the world, these issues have significant solutions. But they are no good after-the-fact. I think it's a valid curiousity to know if THEIR having a Composite Sun & Venus in the 12th, while his Natal Venus is in the 12th, would have any real momentum. That's why if I see these types of placements in my Synastry with anyone, I don't jump on it thinking "Oooooh .... I found someone who can keep a secret affair!" I'M thinking, it can happen to anyone at any time, and anywhere. And I too see where triplecancer was going with that, and I agree as well. ------------------
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