posted March 01, 2019 09:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I have a question: do all parties know of this love triangle?

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posted March 03, 2019 06:58 PM            

I'd say Person 1 tends to banter/harmless flirt with Person 3 but nothing out of order and Ive noticed he tends to gush about her alot as well when we've talked about work matters.

Person 2's admitted they have a bit of a crush on Person 3 when another colleague pointed out they'd make a good couple but quickly said he wouldn't go there as he wasn't convinced she saw him as anything more than a friend - alluding to the fact she seemed more keen on Person 1.

Person 3 is certainly attentive to Person 1 - she get's more bantery and jokey with him and preens a lot. I couldn't tell you if this rises above a bit of flirting to brighten her day or if she's pining for him at home to be honest. Like I said, Person 1's devoted to his wife, so I think they'll just keep it at "harmless crush" level.

posted May 16, 2019 04:47 PM            

Person 3 is undoubtedly crushing hard still on Guy 1. It's actually getting uncomfortable now - they sit virtually on top of each other during meetings and they follow each other about like puppies. This is all from the view within our team.

The weird thing is though, whilst they're all doing this, they don't actually share any details of their lives. Nothing. It's all work-related. He knows nothing really about her family, friends and interests and vice-versa and he doesn't seem particularly interested in asking.

In contrast, Guy 2 continues to view it as a lost cause, however whenever Guy 1 leaves the scene he and Person 3 chat on and on and on about their lives, families, interests. I think Guy 2 actually makes her laugh more - not in a "tell a joke to impress" way, just with their natural, shared observations.

Everyone outside our team in our open-plan office thinks it's incredibly sweet and that Guy 2 and Person 3 becoming an item is a foregone conclusion. I guess they don't see the interactions with Guy 1 or don't count it because he's married.

posted May 16, 2019 04:54 PM            

This means its not so compatible with Guy 1 (Moon in Gemini) although it is in the same sign as his Mars (possibly conjunct with wide orb).

It does make it more compatible with Guy 2 though: her Moon now sextiles his. It also opposes his Venus which is conjunct her Venus/Mars, though this now leaves *his* Mars out in the cold, unaspected.