posted August 18, 2006 03:18 PM              

Quick question: what aspects or placements indicate the return of the exes.. ie: You are totally into someone and it seems mutual. They then vanish. I am heartbroken, but eventually get over it (give it a few months). Then, at the weirdest times, usually when I have been reminded of them in some way, they come BACK.

This keeps happening to me.. but only with men who've rejected ME.

One of them just said this the other day: "Hi my name's A$$hole. Whats your name?"

and then apologized for the $#%@ he put me through. We both have Moon in Gemini and the Moon HAS been in Gemini for a day or two now, so maybe it's that? Communication opening up?

I'm confused..

posted August 19, 2006 09:10 PM            

Not astrologically related, necessarialy, but I think it has to do with learning and the wounds that people who we become close to open up for us.

It has been said that the people who push out biggest buttons are our greatest teachers. So, therefore if an ex left your life, then returns, the lesson was not compleate-the wounds not healed.

I am currently experiencing this with my Cancer sun, Venus, Mars (all in the 8th) ex. Cancer male and Pisces female at a sunsign glance should be a match made in heaven! But with his very controlling, posessive traits and my high Aqua influence (Saturn, Mars, Jupiter and Merc in Aqua) it was a match made in hell (I am Pisces sun/Venus in the 4th.) But we keep re-entering eachother's lives at a friend level I think because we never learned what we were supposed to when we were together.

This Cancer man is most definately my biggest button pusher ever and I am experiencing the fury that only he can arise in me, just so that I can heal, cause I know darn well that if I do not play this one out, if I run (or swim in my case) away another will come into my life and push the same buttons and I will have to do this all over again to LEARN.

Just tonight he called and wanted to "hang out." I am more of a person to spend alot of time alone in quiet contemplation, reading, etc. and he threw his usual emotional hissy fits because I wanted to stay at home and be alone. I reminded myself not to be drawn into his emotional blackmail games, not to get intimidated and mostly not to let him **** me off!

I am so looking forward to getting past this one so I can move on!!

Hope this helped!

posted September 01, 2006 09:52 PM              

I have to say your thoughts make a lot of sense to me. I have this strange feeling about these two guys.. they won't leave! When they leave me be for a while and I finally stop thinking about them all the time, they mysteriously reappear.

Today they both talked to me again.. all the thoughts and feelings come rushing back. I'm starting to think this has nothing to do with transits, but more with unfinished karmic business.

Gah. I'm really distraught over this.