posted August 19, 2006 04:40 PM              

I am being an harlot poster and posting this in a couple of places because I am really amazed by this and would love any feedback esp if you have experience with synastry!

My father will begin seeing my physician and friend commencing as early as this fall or early December. Dad is a diabetic and his current physician of 6 years is moving out of the city.

Given the striking tension (emotional/sexual) I have had to maneuver and balance for the past year with Doc, imagine my awe when I pulled up Dad and his charts. They are both Pisces sun but my father was born in 1934 and D. in 1960. Given the thick synastry contacts including the below what do you take as their former connection and pending future relationship?

Of special note to me is that the spring eclipse fell directly on Dad Sun and D's SUN/SN and ( my own South Node) Plus look at that Pluto Ascendant conjunct:

Saturn conjunct Venus Mars and Chiron/Eros [:0]
Venus conjunct Mars (tight, tight less than an orb!) [ ][ ][|)]
Sun conjunct Sun
Sun Conjunct South Node & Ascendant [:0]
Sun Conjunct Antivertex
Moon Conjunct Ascendant
Venus Conj. Mercury
North Node conjunct Mars [:0]
North Node conjunct Uranus [:0]
North Node Conjunct Descendant
Mars Conjunct Sun
Ascendant Conjunct Pluto [:0]
Jupiter conjunct Moon
Mercury Conjunct Mercury (wide)

posted August 21, 2006 12:03 AM              

For synastry, in addition to the synastry chart, I need to have both birth charts, as well as a synastry table with an indication of the orbs of each aspect. I can create all of these things if I have the birth information of both people.

Trying to help,

posted August 21, 2006 05:54 PM              

Thanks for posting the birth information. The way a person approaches any relationship (from the most casual to the most intimate) can be seen by looking at Libra, Venus, and 7th house in their chart.

Your dad has Libra modifying Jupiter focused in the 7th house, indicating he is very expansive about his relationships and may be very open to making new relationships. He has Aquarius (friends)modifying Venus focused in his 11th house (friends) so he may want to be "friends" in his relationships (close but not TOO close).

Doc has Libra modifying Moon (home, also emotions) focused in the 4th house (home, also emotions) conjunct (energy is combined with) Nadir (inner world), indicating he could be very emotional about his relationships and need to get very "comfortable" with someone in order to relate to them. This possibility is re-emphasized since Moon squares (energy needs to be combined with) Saturn (duty, also restriction). Doc also has Aquarius modifying Venus. Doc has Mars (being, also anger) focused in the 7th house, indicating he might get angry at others in his relationships.

Looking at the two together, since there is a connection between their Suns there is a "connection" between them. Looking at the personal planets (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars), there are few connections, indicating they may have few things "personally" in common or of interest to the other.

Looking at the rest of the planets, Doc's Pluto (transformation, also power) opposes (energy is over-excited by) your dad's Mercury (thinking, also talking/daily work), indicating Doc may "push his point" with your dad or try to overpower his thinking in some way. The challenge is for Doc to not overwhelm your dad's talking. Also Doc's Uranus (friends, also rebellion) opposes your dad's Saturn (duty, also structure), so Doc may rebel against your dad's strucutures in life and possibly want to "restructure" them in some way, and your dad may want to structure Doc's rebellion. The challenge is for both to accept the other for who they are. Your dad's Pluto opposes Doc's Saturn, indicating irresistible force (your dad) meets immovable object (Doc). The challenge is to "dial down" the power moves around each other. There are also some challenging aspects to Neptune (spirituality, also confusion), indicating there may be some confusion between them. And, you mentioned your dad's Pluto (transformation, also control) conjunct (energy is combined with) Doc's Ascendant (self) as indicating your dad could try to "transform" or overpower Doc in some way.

Both have the other's planetary energy conjunct their South node, which to some astrologers indicates a past life connection...in this life it is an indicator that the other person could "hold back" the other person in some way.

Your dad seems to be very open to new relationships, while Doc may be very protective of his relationships...which could cause misunderstandings between them about the "right way" to relate with the other. They each have power and control issues with each other, and may want to "improve" the other person in some way. This could cause a LOT of tension between them. The challenge is for them to learn and grow from each other without either trying to remake the other. This challenge may be made more challenging since each could hold the other back in their life evolution.

Relating,

Tim

posted August 21, 2006 06:17 PM              

My father is very gentle, sort of serene but he is also incredibly stubborn and immovable on certain issues. Doc will move along very pleasantly in conversation but he is also quite powerful and I have seen shades of classic Aqua elitism plus being fixed. Both have Aqua Venus and yes, Doc has Aqua Mars.

My father is extraordinarily private (typical Pisces everyone tells him their sorrows and woes--and he cherry picks who will hear his..LOL) He dees NOT willingly share his "busienss' with just any Joe or Jill Blow. Doc is odd that way. I suspect it's the libra moon tempered by that Aqua and contacts. He can seem very lovely, emotional and needing affirmation--surprisingly open onc ein a while--(libra moon and pisces sun) but then cold, irritated and detached (aqua venus/mars saturn junk with cancer rising).

My father is coming from a doctor whose style is quiite different. I think she is somewhat lax in his care. Doc will be more thorough and perhaps more demanding. Doc is a vegetarian and while he does not push that agenda on patient, I can see some areas where unlike me--now a vegetarian under his tutelage---Dad will not be going for that!!!

Thanks again. As Doc and patient they will probably do okay. Lovers? Hey that would be different.ROFL...