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Topic: What are some non-nurturing aspects to look for?
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jenfullmoon
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: California
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 24, 2006 02:55 PM
  
If you don't want kids and am not a nurturing person, but still want someone who will commit, what aspects would be best to look for in a relationship? Yeah, I could chase after Aquarians or Sags who probably won't want me to be a traditional mom, but they won't settle down with anybody either. It seems like lately I keep looking at men's charts and they all have elements that want a traditional family, and it's depressing. With every single "nurturing" planet of mine being afflicted up the wazoo, I don't think I could be with someone who wants me to be Suzie Homemaker. But are there aspects out there that would indicate a man NOT wanting another mother in a romantic relationship?
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AcousticGod
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From: Pleasanton, CA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 24, 2006 03:03 PM
How about a Capricorn with lots of Sag or Aqua?Capricorn wants to be with someone, but is also very independent. Throw in some of the Sag and Aqua influences, and you've almost got a hands off relationship. What may work better for you, though, is looking at composites. Figure out which house you'd most like to see the Sun in, and then find someone who'll put your composite sun in that house. Sounds like maybe you're independent yourself, and maybe want to have career first. If you can find a partner that puts your composite Sun in the 10th, then you'll both encourage one another in career pursuits. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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From: the city so nice they named it twice!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 24, 2006 03:08 PM
Look for Venus in Sag/Mars in Aqua or even Gemini, and also look for 5th house issues along with 7th house. Just my thoughts.  IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted August 26, 2006 12:21 AM
jenfullmoon -I think your use of the word "non-nurturing" is not really what you mean. The word you are looking for doesn't exist yet, you know? But consider this. Assuming you're looking for only one man, and only men, and assuming that you find him, you may not know it and/or he may not know it. Check how much time you have left to find this sort of chap in a world where these questions are not yet asked outwardly. I say this cz there a dudes who will swear until monkey's fly that they are "non-nurturing", but because of personal issues unbeknownst to you, he's putting up a good fight against his own dammn self. The time you've invested in him will mean nothing once he breaks out of himself. Don't be upfront with this romantic requirement, is my opinion. Keep it as a requirement if you must, but date, have fun and keep it to yourself. If for one of the unimaginable reasons, the right guy arrives, it will have nothing to do with you. ------------------
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sthenri
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posted August 26, 2006 10:55 AM
What kind of man DO you see yourself with?
In your imagination? Imagination and dreams tend to be closer to the truth of what you want than what's around you.Besides there are different types of nurturing. There are women who take care of others and there are those who are merely supportive. There are ones that need to be taken care of themselves. Just by being human you are somewhat nurturing, there are all different types. Natasha
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