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Topic: Do Ya Love or "Hate" Your Dad
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astro junkie
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posted August 26, 2006 01:58 AM
 
... and if you are so bold as to post either/or, what astrological stuff do you think activates this? There's room for alternate care-takers, for sure ... so if that's your story, feel free ...------------------
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Gemini Nymph
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posted August 26, 2006 02:09 AM
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scorpiopride
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posted August 26, 2006 03:55 AM
I am very close to my leo dad. He isn't my biological father but he raised me like his own since I was 3 yrs old. He stayed in my life even after he and my mom split. I have been told that I have a lot of his mannerisms and I have no doubt that his hippie like ways have rubbed off on me. I think it has a lot to do with him being a leo sun and my being a leo moon.As for my biological father I've only ever met him once. We email off and on but I keep him at a distance. He abused my mom, which is why she left him and he was not a part of my life.
I feel bad in some ways for him because he did a lot of bad things to my mom and my half brothers, whom I've never met, and he is paying for it later in his life. My half brothers hate him and will have nothing to do with him. I don't blame them in anyway of course, for I do not know all they had to suffer at his hands.
For me it's different because he's only ever been charming to me, he's a libra, no I'm not fooled by this because I know what he is but he also can never hurt me because I have another father, a good one. That and I never let him get too close to me. He lives in California and I do not, so we don't see each other ever. I also have made email the only way for him to get ahold of me. He keeps asking me for my phone number but I tell him I do not have one. I don't wish to have some kind of "loving" close relationship with him due to his past and the fact that I'm afraid it would hurt my daddy. However I keep in touch because I do care some, Just not a lot. That sounds horrible but it is the truth. I think in some ways he has accepted the fact that he will never be that close to me. Those are my daddy issues, if you will. My relationship with my TRUE dad is very loving and great even if we do not share the same DNA. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted August 26, 2006 04:15 AM
I miss my Father, he passed when I was 15
but while he was here
I was daddy's girl
His Moon conjuncts my Jupiter
My Sun conjuncts his Ascendant (my Sun falling in his 12th)  IP: Logged |
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posted August 26, 2006 05:56 AM
I was very much daddy's girl when I was younger, he was my best friend. He is a leo and I am an Aquarian. We kinda used to gang up on my Sco mum  . Unfortunately I don't know what time he was born but from what I know, he has has a Leo stellium and a libran moon. I have a libran moon, I must have inherited it from him. Plus I'm solidly air and fire (only 3 planets in water-earth), so we should get along well. Most of his stuff should fall in my 4th and 5th house. My dad is a very quiet leo but a beautiful man both in personality and appearance. I'm not as close to him as much, he's very quiet and almost says nothing! IP: Logged |
fayte.m
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posted August 26, 2006 05:59 AM
Today is my Dad's 76th. birthday. I do not see him anymore. He and my family cannot stand it that most of my good friends are gay.
I think he may also have gone from mild autism into dementia.
The only really good memories I have of him is when I was little and very ill, my hair falling out from therapy, and when we laid in the yard when I was 13 and watched a rare aurora borealis display.
Well Dad, Happy Birthday anyhow.....
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cat71
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posted August 26, 2006 07:39 AM
my dad:
Sun - Virgo
Asc - Gem
Moon - Cap
Merc - Vir
Venus - Leo
Jup - Can
Sat - Gem
Uranus - Gem
Pluto - Leo
Me:
Sun - Libra
Asc - Taurus
Moon - Can
Merc - Libra
Venus - Libra
Mars - Aqua
Jup - Sag
Sat - Gem
Uranus - Lib
Nep - Sag
Pluto - LibI dont kno wot all this means, but I've always got along wth my daddy. We had a tricky time when I was 17 for about 6 mths, but other then that he has been brilliant and still is. Very openly loving and absolutely steadfast and reliable, never a complaint and always, always there for me - and my daughter - xxx  ------------------
...to have been loved so deeply, even though the person who loved us is gone, will give us some protection forever... IP: Logged |
BlueEyes24
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posted August 26, 2006 08:40 AM
"I miss my Father, he passed when I was 15
but while he was here
I was daddy's girl
His Moon conjuncts my Jupiter
My Sun conjuncts his Ascendant (my Sun falling in his 12th)"LaLaLinda- my dad also passed away when I was 11. I was definitely a daddy's girl, also. His sun in Sag is conjunct my ascendant in Sag. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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posted August 26, 2006 09:50 AM
My relationship with my dad has not been easy. Won't go into it because I think I've blabbed about it so many times in this thread. Odd enough, we have weird intervals of peace with eachother. He is very critical of me and I've always felt that no matter what I do, I can't please him.We both have a cancer sun and moon/venus gemini/mars in aries. Our birthdays are 3 days away from eachother,30 years apart. (I came around his saturn return).
We have a nasty Venus-saturn opposition (double whammy)
our suns are conjunct
His Jupiter squares my sun
his sun falls in my seventh house (an open enemy)
His mars squares my sun
my jupiter squares his pluto
His pluto squares my uranus
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aquaspryt69
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posted August 26, 2006 10:06 AM
Definitely not on good terms with my dad. Never have been. I did his chart once and all I remember is he's a Gemini Sun, Leo moon.
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The Virgin
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posted August 26, 2006 10:42 AM
When I was a kid I didn't care for my father because he was an alcoholic and a disgusting one at that. You know the slurring, smelly, I've peed my pants and don't even know it kind. My papa was more my dad and the opposite of my father. After my papa passed I went through a stage where I couldn't even look at my father because in my mind he had no reason to be there because my dad was gone.That was a long time ago. I can't honestly say I love my father because I'm not sure if I do but I have more respect for him since my son has been born because he is good to him and no longer an active alcoholic. And though I am not one to forget the past, looking back yeah, it was pretty bad in regards to the alcoholism but he himself was not a bad person. My father is a Capricorn with a bunch of Aquarius placements which is ironic since my papa was an Aquarius with moon in Taurus but what a difference. ------------------
Sun Virgo, moon Pisces, Libra rising,mercury venus 12th house all conjunct, Mars Leo. IP: Logged |
hot_ice
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posted August 26, 2006 11:34 AM
Love my dad obviously...sure we've had a few fights(he actually right most of the time,but I still fight anyway :P) and a few ideological differences too...but then at the end of the day...you gotta love him..IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted August 26, 2006 12:17 PM
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lalalinda
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posted August 26, 2006 12:20 PM
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teaselbaby
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posted August 26, 2006 12:31 PM
I love my Dad, and get along well with him most of the time.Astrological influences? My Mercury/Sun trine his ascendant.
My Mars sextile his Sun.
His Mercury/Mars in Aries, conjunct my Jupiter.
His North Node conjunct my Moon, Venus and South Node.
His Sun conjunct my Descendant. His Moon is also in my seventh house.
His Jupiter in my first house, my Jupiter in his third.
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Azalaksh
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posted August 26, 2006 01:15 PM
I was a Daddy's Girl too.....
Dad's been gone for 5 years -- watching my tower of strength and wisdom be reduced to an incoherent skeleton by cancer was one of the most painful things I've ever endured.Dad and I both have Saturn in Libra and Merc in Scorp -- we had wonderful conversations, although our ideologies conflicted..... His Sun and Moon were in my 4th house, we both have Moon quincunx Pluto and Sun sq Uranus..... IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted August 26, 2006 01:45 PM
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Aislinn
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posted August 26, 2006 02:14 PM
I've actually never met my father, so I can't say I hate him.I don't have an accurate chart for him since I don't know his birth time, but here's what I can tell: My father: Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Sag
Mercury: Sag
Venus: Sag
Mars: Scorpio Me: Sun: Cancer
Moon: Sag
Mercury: Cancer
Venus: Taurus
Mars: Taurus
Rising: Taurus That Scorpio Mars would clash with my Taurus placements, but having the conjunct Moons might help things out. I have Saturn in the fourth house as well. Would that tend to affect my relationship with my father or my mother? IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
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posted August 26, 2006 02:48 PM
Aislinn ~I would say "father," as it is Saturn in your 4th, rather than say, the Moon..... This from StarIQ: The Fourth House is the deepest point in the chart and represents home, roots, foundation and family. It is where you look to find issues of security and safety. In this house you'll find your places of belonging, both internal and external. It's also where you will find nurturing. The Fourth House also holds the earliest imprints of childhood and the unconscious impression formed during infancy. Some astrologers associate this house with mother, others with father. All agree, however, that it represents the nest in which we were raised. From astrologyweekly.com -- Saturn in the 4th: A Fourth House Saturn suggests that your career or area of responsibility in the world relates to home and family concerns. Much work is required to overcome emotional inhibitions, early conditioning and irrational fears. Life experience will force you to learn valuable lessons related to the above issues and many domestic, family and romantic confrontations will be afforded to help hasten the restructuring process. Emotional security and self-acceptance will eventually come from a true knowledge of self and an ability to focus inwardly, away from the emotional dependency of others. Domestic security is important and your profession may involve real estate, building projects, the manufacture of domestic products or working from the home. IP: Logged |
Jan_A
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posted August 26, 2006 03:39 PM
I don't hate this person, i just wanna go physically, mentally and in all other ways so far away from this person as possible. You know, i don't wanna speak with him, don't wanna see him and don't wanna think about him. No wonder- Sun square Moon, Jupiter square Uranus, Uranus square pluto, Neptune opposition Mars, Pluto square Saturn, Neptune square Mercury and that's not nearly all... The life with this person is unbearable. It is like a torture. IP: Logged |
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posted August 26, 2006 04:51 PM
I too have Saturn in the 4th house but my dad was always around! OK maybe its because he wasnt the disciplining parent or it might have to do with him being very quiet or me never meeting his family (as they live overseas). I interpret the saturn as my parents combined or my mum. My parents are older parents and my mum was the disciplinarian that I had at times a very difficult relationship with (and she is very watery and might have a cancerian moon but I don't know when she was born - I love her still despite all the crap). It could also be the lack of further family support I have (as both sides of my family live overseas). I see my dad as the libran moon in my chart (7th house) because it describes his personality and he has a Libran moon. Saturn in the 4th maybe might mean that I might not in the future have a great big family as well, which kind of looks like it at the moment! IP: Logged |
ScorpioRising
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posted August 26, 2006 07:59 PM
Taurus dad-I love him! We both have Taurus sun, and cancer moon. He is a sweetie. I love being Daddy'g girl. We pick on my Aries mum. poor her.IP: Logged |
Aislinn
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posted August 26, 2006 11:09 PM
Thanks for the reply and info, Azalaksh!IP: Logged |
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posted August 26, 2006 11:43 PM
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Jools
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posted August 27, 2006 01:25 AM
My parents don't know their times of birth so I can only go on their sun signs.
Father - Aquarius
Mother - ScorpioMe - Aries.
Mars in Aquarius in 8th House.
Uranus in Scorpio in 4th House To further complicate matters:
Mars oppose Moon in Leo (2nd house)
Uranus oppose Venus in Taurus (10th House) My parents split up when I was 3, father was an every 2nd/3rd weekend father who has always been emotionally distant, though he did start to thaw out when he hit 55. He's now 60.
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