posted August 27, 2006 05:07 PM              

The Cancer Mars guy I dated was a psycho. he was terrible in bed, emotionally manipulative, horribly jealous, and after we broke up he stalked me and threaten to kill me. I'm sure there's far, far better examples of Cancer Mars walking the planet.

posted August 27, 2006 05:29 PM              

With his stalking, I literally fled out of fear for my life, found a runned down little apartment in a section of town I didn't think he'd look for me. He ended up sending vicious letters to my work instead, saying things like "I see you driving in your car all over town and I'll find where you live soon" etc, etc. At the time i had a little Geo Metro with distinct decals on the sides. When I got those letters, I spent an afternoon with a bottle of lighter fluid rubbing those decals off!!!

posted August 27, 2006 08:11 PM              

I have Mars in Cancer (in 6th house conjunct descendant and south node). Trying to think how best to sum this placement up. I take Mars to mean physical vitality, strength, fighting spirit, physical activities etc.

In my case I am a couch potato who hates exercise with a passion and has no stomach for violence. I am very good at avoidance tactics to get out of things! I don't openly get angry (even when I should and it'd clear the air) but I do fume inwardly about stuff and have problems letting go of bad feelings. I have a history of panic attacks, anxiety and depression and still take chill pills because my nerves are so fragile. I'm shy and hate to be the centre of attention. I hate work also because I never feel like I fit in. I am very much a loner. I put most of my energy into my homelife and family. I am happily and contentedly married (12 years). I love my home and am always redecorating and rearranging it. I am a great listener to friends with problems and love providing TLC to my tightly knit circle of friends and family but I admit I am cold and frosty towards outsiders. I have a well-developed self-preservation streak which is alive and well. I can see how this would be off-putting to others but it's how I am and I see danger in the most unlikely places. I metaphorically always have my running shoes on ready to make a quick escape! This actually quite amuses me and I can see the funny side of it. I always laugh at my own idiosyncrasies. I'm a crack-pot but lovable!

posted August 27, 2006 11:45 PM              

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I think there's a serious ***** fest about Cancer Mars for a while back, either in the Astrology or the Soul Unions forum. You may wish to avoid that, heh heh. I probably shouldn't even bringit up. It was mainly some of us scorned or fed-up women griping about the Cancer Mars guys we're dated or known.
The Cancer Mars guy I dated was a psycho. he was terrible in bed, emotionally manipulative, horribly jealous, and after we broke up he stalked me and threaten to kill me. I'm sure there's far, far better examples of Cancer Mars walking the planet.

BTW, I just met a guy I'm very attracted to, and has a Cacner Mars (plus Sun, Moon, Jupiter in Cancer). He's a musician, very intelligent, funny and warm. So far so good. He could be another psycho though....

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I remember that!!!!

mars in cancer guys arent too bad...I know this guy...he's and amazing person...he is too funny,an amzing guitarist,a really good buddy,I heard from a few girls he's amazing in bed too....and he's very humble too..

posted August 28, 2006 05:23 AM              

I don't know any other mars in cancers, but I'm surrounded by mars in Libras and Mars in Taurus people. What about you?

I have a huge problem with holding onto bad memories. I think its just because the people that the memories involve have never said they were sorry, they don't even talk about it like I'm supposed to forget or something.. I need that kind of emotion and sorrow from them in order to forgive them.

I have terrible anxiety, like touchstone, my nerves are very fragile too. I'm shy and quiet with people I don't know(or ppl I just don't like), and almost the complete opposite with ppl I do know and like.
I'm really into family, but only immediate family.
Touchstone, I still live with my parents but my bedroom gets rearranged all the time. It's also the nicest room in the house, everyone says so, its not just me bragging.

posted August 28, 2006 06:51 AM              

But I dont cry....I kinda get a little violent when I get angry...I slam doors,and break stuff when I get really angry....and about the sarcasm thing...oh yeah,I can be really mean and sarcastic when I'm angry too...

posted August 28, 2006 03:03 PM              

Hot_ice, lol at the door-slamming - I do that too