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Topic: Attention Cappy Moons
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justu&me unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 04:13 AM
I have a question for Cappy Moon.....What was your relationship like with your Mother? Did you find that she had periods of depression? Was life and maybe mothernood tough for her? Was their a sadness about your Mama? IP: Logged |
Jan_A unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 04:35 AM
hi I have Cappy Moon in 4th house. My mother loves me, but we are different. IP: Logged |
Lauren unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 05:40 AM
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braveheart Knowflake Posts: 132 From: sydney, nsw, oz Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2006 01:46 AM
my partner has a cap moon in the first house. he doesn't see his mother anymore. he says because he doesn't want to. his mother was nearly always depressed (i've known her for 16 years)and she is an alcoholic.she tried to feed my son mashed potatoes once, he was a week old. she always believed someone was out to get her. she would call the police for silly reasons. my partner never felt loved or wanted. she is now living in a psychiatric hospital. IP: Logged |
A Perfect Circle unregistered
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posted August 31, 2006 04:15 AM
quote: What was your relationship like with your Mother?
Pretty good, not really a mother figure though. I don't think she ever really got the concept of settling down and being an adult until much later on. quote: Did you find that she had periods of depression?
Yep quote: Was life and maybe mothernood tough for her?
Life definitely was, motherhood was only hard because she made it hard for herself. quote: Was their a sadness about your Mama?
I think so. IP: Logged |
Touchstone unregistered
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posted August 31, 2006 01:32 PM
I am the mother of a little guy who has moon in Capricorn. I have a history of depression dating back to when I was 18. I suffered quite badly from post natal depression and had a complete breakdown when my son was three years old, for which I had counselling, time off work and meds. He's eight now and I am of a much stronger frame of mind. We are very close and I spend a lot of time with him. For a child, he has a very mature and kind-natured outlook. He has grown up sensitive to people who are hurt and is generous with hugs and kisses. edited to add that, yes, I did find motherhood hard to get to grips with. I felt useless like I had no idea what I was doing and I lacked confidence in my abilities. I felt terribly guilty and thought he deserved a much better mum. I was tired all the time, lacking in energy, couldn't keep up with the housework etc. I compared myself unfavourably to other mums who I saw as 'perfect' then beat myself up about it. It took a long time to conquer my demons but I made it in the end and now think I did a fantastic job considering my circumstances! IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted August 31, 2006 04:58 PM
Touchstone.... Bless you....these words moved me.... I too was sick after my son was born with post natal depression and I too lacked energy. He is 7 now and we have a very close relationship...he can be "himself with me" (his words) and I have a great understanding of him and huge love.... Now my own mother has passed over, I shall be even more aware for the need to be a good mum to him, Love to you... IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2006 01:21 PM
I have a Cappy Moon in the sixth house. My mom is a Capricorn.She didn't necessarily have periods of depression, she was a hard worker and often had three jobs at a time, and was a single mom for a lot of our youth.. every once and a while that would wear at her (naturally!) and she'd complain bitterly about things, but I always got the impression she loved us, even if we didn't see her. Not sadness, not depression, but yes, toughness, and like she deserved more. Who wouldn't agree. She was a good mom. I really relate to Touchstone,( and thank you for sharing) I have Saturn in the first house, so everyone does things better than I do, according to me. It's tough to have so many prideful signs in my chart, but have an inhibiting aspect to such a large degree. It's like i have to acknowledge the ways I am lacking before I can celebrate the ways I am good. IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 243 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 05, 2008 01:49 AM
I have a very good relationship with my mom, though she is extremely tough and expects nothing less than perfection. She made sure I grew up really quickly!IP: Logged |
Nyah Knowflake Posts: 43 From: Europe Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 06, 2008 01:22 PM
Hi, Cappy Moon in the 9th house here! I have a very sweet relationship with my mom and she has always made me felt very loved and safe. Sometimes she can be too protective of me, which might be her overcompensating for her own upbringing where she felt left alone quite often in her early years.. So, there is a sadness in her about that.------------------ Ascendant: Gemini Sun: Pisces Moon: Capricorn Mercury: Pisces Venus: Capricorn Mars: Aquarius IP: Logged |