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Topic: Do you prefer to sleep alone or not?
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sue g unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 04:33 AM
I love to sleep with my partner, to feel him next to me and at times if he aint there, I find it hard to drift off...I am a very feely person anyway (Moon in Taurus)? What is your preference guys....maybe give some details of yer chart too.... I am wondering if heavily influenced water and earth charts are more prone to the need for bodily contact? Sun, Merc, Venus, Nept and Jupiter in Scorp, Moon and Mars in Taurus, Aries Asc. Thanks IP: Logged |
and Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 30, 2006 04:41 AM
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katipo unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 05:21 AM
Not, though my circumstances dictate that I must :-(( for now....I like it when they go to bed first and warm it up....errrr the bed that is. IP: Logged |
Cassy Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 05:35 AM
I can sleep alone, I love it at times (venus, merc & neptune in Sag)but when my partner is next to me I love cuddling up to him, always touching, rubbing. When I get up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom I end up rubbing his body (while he's sleeping) when I get back into bed and then just doze off myself. Cap Sun Taurus Moon & Ascendant Scorpio Mars & Jupiter
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steelrose Knowflake Posts: 114 From: Spain Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 06:29 AM
Well, yes and no…I must say that I cannot sleep if I’m not hugging something… I have always liked hugging my pillow when going to sleep, since I was a little child… When I was 21, I had a terrible heartbreak and since then I can’t sleep if I’m not hugging something. I confess I even have a teddy to sleep with , it’s actually more like a body or an arm… I noticed that when I sleep with a man, I don’t need to hug anything to fall sleep. Of course I love touching his skin or holding him, but just knowing that he is there, sensing his warmth or his aroma is enough… After a traumatic experience, not even objects to hug are enough, I have to hug myself. I need warmth, skin touch, human contact even when it’s my own. Funny because I usually don’t like most people to touch me. I’m not a touchy-touchy person… And, a man in my bed often disturbs me… And I cannot sleep in one go so I can’t rest properly… Too hot, sometimes snoring, lack of space (my ex used to invade it constantly and push me to the bed edge)… Who understands me???? I suppose a lot of air makes you detached… And I’m a fair blend of Earth, Water and Fire. I’m highly emotional (Moon-Neptune-Asc conjunction from the 12th house), passionate and firey ( that triple conjunction is in Sag and I have a Leo Venus in the house of sex ) but at the same time I have a hard time expressing it (Saturn conjuncts Venus and Virgo Sun) and extremely sensitive (Neptune within that mentioned conjunction is very powerful in its own house). Virgo Sun, Sag Moon, Virgo Mercury, Cancer Mars, Leo Venus, Cancer Jupiter and Sag Asc.
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hot_ice unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 06:40 AM
Depends...on my mood....IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 250 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 07:11 AM
Well I have a partner and sleep with him every night so when I sleep alone it does feel nice. I like it both ways, just depends. (Sun Aqu 10th/Venus Sag 9th v Moon Lib 7th)IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 07:44 AM
I'll second HotIce and say, Its depends on my mood. I can do both but I really like being with my boyfriend. I'm not usually a touchy feely person either....its hard for me to be affectionate sometimes.Cancer Sun/Virgo Moon-8th/Cap Ascendent/Gem venus IP: Logged |
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posted August 30, 2006 07:52 AM
Hey, I would say 30 % I like to sleep with somone, the rest I do prefer to sleep by myself. I like to sleep diagonal,,, upside down,, and all over my bed Haha! thanks.
Aquarius sun, moon, rising,with both Pisces mars venus in the 2nd house.
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posted August 30, 2006 09:17 AM
i like sleeping alone..and my moon aries;mars saggy..but my libra venus try to make me partner sleeping..but my emotions not IP: Logged |
Lei_Kuei Knowflake Posts: 233 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 09:25 AM
I have 5 Water placements, I love cuddling up to my partner it feels so warm and secure... Then when we wake we discuss our nightly adventures which is a good laugh...Alone ain't so bad either, I sometimes feel very vulnerable for some reason but I need to be alone now and then so when I reach that point I usually go back to my house and my single bed IP: Logged |
LeoLys unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 09:31 AM
I don't like to cuddle, but I don't like to sleep alone. I'm little but I get big and stretched out when I sleep, kind of like a cat can do.------------------ Leo Sun Cappy Moon Cancer Asc. IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 09:35 AM
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alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 46 From: Somewhere over the Rainbow... Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 09:38 AM
When I'm home, without my boyfriend...I'm very selfish about sleeping. Over friends houses, etc. My whole life actually.I've been like the cat in that picture ^. I love to sprawl out and just sleep and i HATE people sleeping with me However, my lovely bf changed that. When we're together we sleep so close and entwined it looks like we're one person. If hes a round, I can't sleep alone. I need him by me (and hes soooo warm too, mm ). Often when we seperate (Different colleges), I feel kinda empty/odd sleeping alone.. He's the only person I allow to sleep next to me, other than that I like sleeping alone. I dont like people even sleeping in my bed, it creeps me out.
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CrabbyKitty unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 09:43 AM
I like both. Sleeping alone is great because I have the whole bed to myself, and I sleep all over it! It's a very telling thing to me about how I feel towards my partner, whether or not I'm able to sleep comfortably (if at all) with them. I think I've found the perfect sleeping partner - we curl up like puppies and sleep happy. IP: Logged |
shirty unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 09:44 AM
I much prefer to sleep alone, because when someone else is in my bed I simply don't sleep. I love the comfort, warmth, and energy, but I just lie awake all night while the other person falls asleep in two minutes.It's a huge pain in the behind, but I just love to sleep in any position and I actually have to switch ends of the bed a few times a week or I can't fall asleep. I also sleep better NOT in my own bed. Very odd. I think it's my Sag sun that loves the change and new surroundings. Routine can kiss my butt :P IP: Logged |
bleakbeauty unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 10:04 AM
You always have funny pics Petron.IP: Logged |
BlueEyes24 unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 10:11 AM
Those pictures are adorable. I LOVE sleeping with my boyfriend.. I just love cuddling in general. We start out sleeping with his arms around me, but then eventually through the night we sleep on our own sides. I like to have my space to move around when I'm sleeping. I have a Sag asc., Virgo sun (9th house), Moon & Venus in Scorpio (11th house), Mars in Capricorn (2nd house). IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 10:15 AM
quote: You always have funny pics Petron
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hippichick Knowflake Posts: 607 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 10:42 AM
alone, alone, alone!!Pisces sun/Venus Taurus Moon Saturn, Jupiter, Mars, Merc Aquarius but i do not mind sharing my bed with one of my favirote furry felines!
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Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 12:06 PM
Both....like BlueEyes, I start out in cuddle mode but am like a furnace, so I tend to scootch over at some point.... I have a big California King...So, there is plenty of room.... I don't mind sleeping alone, or being alone for that matter...In fact when my kids are with their Dad...is when I actually feel like I've gotten some rest.Virgo Sun 7th -Aries Moon 3rd Cappy ASC
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libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 12:48 PM
It really depends on the mood I am in, most of the time it feels good to have a nice warm cuddly man next to me! Only when I feel agitated do I want to sleep by myself.Sun Libra Moon Cancer Mars Cancer Jupiter Cancer Ascendant Cancer IP: Logged |
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posted August 30, 2006 01:49 PM
I sleep with my husband in a king sized bed. However, I like and need my space in bed and get a bit claustrophobic if he invades my half. I don't like feeling body contact when I'm trying to drift off to sleep. I feel smothered by it. I'm very nervy. I'm hands on affectionate at other times but when I'm trying to sleep I want to be left alone quietly.sun, moon, mercury, saturn in gemini venus, mars in cancer ascendent in capricorn IP: Logged |
Wednesday unregistered
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posted August 30, 2006 02:06 PM
No, I really don't like to sleep alone if I can help it. Of course my boyfriend would be the best choice, but even if I'm single, at least I want to have someone around. They can be a friend, I just don't like to feel alone.Scorpio Sun, Aries Moon, Pisces Rising, Libra Venus 7th House (maybe that's why) IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 5076 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2006 02:29 PM
I can't snuggle to sleep generally. I need a bit of space. As for preference, all I know is that I'm perfectly happy to sleep alone.IP: Logged |