posted August 30, 2006 09:27 AM              

HOW COME HE DOESN'T EXPRESS MISSING PEOPLE?

I wonder if it's just a fishy, watery thing for him...he's Pisces Sun, Leo Moon and Gemini Asc...so there is a LOT of acting, I am sure.

His reactions to sentiment are just never right. I mean, we're friends, right? So, when a friend says "it's good to hear your voice", don't you react and say "thanks" or "it's good to hear from you, too"? But no, he's like non-reaction man. Gotta wonder..is he shallow, is he stupid? is he hiding? who knows? i would just like some kind of reassurance that this is a Pisces thing. Or maybe it's a lifestyle thing? maybe it's just easier to not let your heart get attached to anyone. friends, family or otherwise. It's all very confusing for a Leo like me. I'll spill my guts even when you don't want me to! lol! I like to make people feel warm and appreciated. What's wrong with that?

Furthermore, get him a little drunk, then he's spilling over with sentiment and deep thoughts. I worry about that, too. I have read things that say Pisces shouldnt drink.

posted August 30, 2006 12:05 PM            

It could be so many things does not neccessarily have to be anything to do with astrology at all. What I have noticed is ppl's upbringing has alot to do with how they express their feeling toward ppl. He could have grown up in a house where emotions were not expressed well or something could have happen to him in his childhood that makes him this way. Who knows, why don't you ask him?

And if he has been like this for 20 years and he is still your friend then let it be. No one stays friends with someone that long if they do not care about them. and after 20 years and you still have not figured it out I don't know..

posted August 30, 2006 01:35 PM              

Yeah, you know how it is...deep down, you fish know stuff that we other, younger souls aren't sure exists without being TOLD so. I envy that. I KNOW this, yet practicing it is harder.

And you know, we cats need constant reminding that someone cherishes us. even if it's on the friend level.

And see, I just remembered, he was the first person to call and wish me happy birthday at like, 8am, from a foreign country, nonetheless. See, that is very cool. Why can't that be enough?

posted August 30, 2006 01:47 PM            

And yes we do know things deep inside and some of Pisces ppl don't have to second guess it. Except where he is at with his emotions and the way of expressing them and things will be ok..

Hee,hee I think that you want him to express his undying love for you..LOL!!!

posted August 31, 2006 12:03 AM              

Many times I am slow to respond back at the moment when something occurred. I might have something else in my mind or I may not be spontaneous (even for normal reply) that afterwards I would think about what someone said and what I should had replied back.

Also many times I don’t say what I feel as there is an internal resistance – like though I may be attracted to someone, there are various other thoughts (due to whatever reason) which don’t want to go into the relation readily; & if I don’t resist myself, I feel that the relation might build up. That’s where I see the going with flow nature of Pisces. It might be sometimes like inner pull and push for me.

“maybe it's just easier to not let your heart get attached to anyone”
It might be other way round also, and for preventing this (getting attached to everyone) he might put more resistance.

Yeah, once someone is a good friend I might open up. Again opening up would be of passive form, i.e. if you prod me to get something out of me, then only I would come out with it (provided I am comfortable). However there are lots of other private things in our mind that may never come out unless it’s an intimate relation.

Pisces are shy, secretive of their feelings. I would never say that I care for someone unless its mutual love relationship, else its just internal. Coming out with that brings some kind of uneasy feeling.

Like MM said, I too felt that you want him to express his love (not care) (Piscean romantic nature, would make me think in such a way even if you have just a normal friendship or something deep like love).

posted August 31, 2006 01:12 AM              

Hi LeoLys,

I meant him.. You can check whether it's retrograde or direct on astro.com..

quote:

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what does that mean if you have Venus retrograde?

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It actually means much more than I thought, before meeting someone with Venus retro.. and realising I actually knew someone else as well.. It definitely feels 'different'.. very shut out in some ways..

quote:

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This person is likely to withdraw from close involvement in favour of establishing relationship between the various parts of himself. While he may doubt his capacity to enjoy personal contacts with others, he tends to turn within for emotional fulfilment (valuing his own company more in most cases... suggesting need for seclusion and solitude). Outwardly, he therefore may appear stand-offish and somewhat reclusive in temperament.

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posted August 31, 2006 09:57 AM              

MM--I guess I do want to hear a profession of love. Not lust, not "leave everything and run away with me"...but more like a 'i love your soul'. nothing committal, i just need to know its real. and wouldnt that fall in nicely for him? i mean, no committments, no emotional games, none of that, but just to know that somebody just loves his soul, too? Don't we all want to know that on some level. sometimes i'd rather hear that, than somebody loves me because they have to be with me every day forevermore.

He's not my twin soul, or even so compatible with what i would want in a mate, becasue i need a lot of mental intimacy, but there has always been that deeper understanding or deeper...thing when we see each other. you know, some people, i never look at thier eyes. this guy, i always do, and it's like a conversation is going on when there isnt.

I should just stop second guessing him and needing this re-affirmation. Give him a nice big pool to swim in and accept a love that doesnt desire to constrain, but a love that encourages the path of exploration in this lifetime. does that make sense?

posted August 31, 2006 09:59 AM            

Ll: We are just trying to help you seen things from our eyes. Outside looking in type thing. And being Pisces I can understand where he maybe coming from and what I see..