posted August 30, 2006 03:27 PM              

somedays I find it funny and I laugh at the endearing comicalness of it all.
Some days I feel suicide is the best option.

I don't understand why he can't be nice and sweet and romantic like his sign says he is (Libra).

I could hate him so much and we would ignore each other, but he's the only one I think about before bed and when I wake up.

We had a wonderful moment, but it all went downhill from there.

we both have saturn/venus/sun/pluto stellium in Libra.

I have tried to forget him but I cannot succeed. Is that a karmic link or soulmate link?

posted August 30, 2006 06:42 PM              

Actually I should give him leeway because I'm Libra as well.. and I understand indecisiveness. But I just get so mad because I like him to take action. I never knew it would take so long!

But I think he has already made up his mind (Librans always do, but they shuffle forth and back to test other options to see if their decision is good, and that always causes mental agony - but they didn't think others would be hurt by their indecision, which makes them wrong - I never knew this till I had one thrown back at me!)..

I've been the one to call, and he just waits. He used to call me, and then I started calling and he started to wait for my initiation always. So I refuse to do that anymore. And I miss him as well. We just have staredowns on the net.

Sigh, silly Libran men. I hope yours makes up his mind soon. And I think you're doing the right thing by giving him space. Pressure will probably make him turn the other way.

I wish I could help you as well, but you see I'm stuck in a similar situation

posted August 30, 2006 07:42 PM              

"...he's the only one I think about before bed and when I wake up." - wow I hear that!

I just wanted to add that I have just gone through this with a very close friend who is a Scorp, all the signs were right but when it came down to it he was unable to return my feelings of love (well that's what he said anyway) - the thing is we have agreed to stay friends and after backing off from him for four weeks (which was agony for me) we are now talking again and it's such a relief, still just friends but I am so glad not to have lost him forever - I still do feel very deeply for him, but I also feel relieved now... I guess that's hard to understand, but I think the cooling off period gave me space to breathe and the fact is, I'm grateful he's in my life, who says soulmates have to be sexual/love relationships? He's a great friend and he knows how I feel and now I don't have to feel awkward anymore too...

I guess this is me rambling and not really advice (I am Libra too) there are usually two sides to the story right?! I hope you get something from my ramblings though - like you said yourself sometimes pressure makes it harder to reach that decision - what's that saying...

If u love someone set them free, if they return they're yours forever, if they don't, then they were never yours...

It's REALLY hard to back off - I know - but try for your own sanity, it might be just what you need

I hope it works out for you

posted August 31, 2006 04:30 PM              

I was reading a post 'bout Twin souls in another Linda Land forum, SoulUnion. I think he might be my twin soul. It's all too painful. And to think ever since I was little I thought love was all roses and candy.

Here's the link http://www.merovigli.com/British.htm

But even if I move on I know he's always part of me.. he changed my life and woke me up - made me learn to love myself and see reality. I've had dark nights from being seperated from him.
But I guess it's how it is. We all have to work on ourselves - that's our main purpose on earth.. and to learn to let go of co-dependency because love is found within.