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triplecancer
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posted September 06, 2006 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for triplecancer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was reading an old thread about after sex comments. Hilarious, by the way.
Anyways, from the comments I got the impression that libra men tend to be with many women at once, and that they say beautiful things, like I love you, without meaning it.
Can libra men be like that? Do they tend to be unfaithful?

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posted September 06, 2006 03:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never used to believe this whole many woman thing but i know what it all means ..
librans have a hard time "evaluating" different women ..shes got better body , she is more funny , she is taller , she is shorter , she is pretty ..you know where i am going with this right ?
so it not entirely impossible for a libra male to leave one date at 6pm , go for another date and dinner , and then come back to the first date at 3am .

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posted September 06, 2006 03:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and here is something i would like to know from other knowflakes ..
libran man , well me in particular , ( maybe women too ) get attracted to sexy bodies .. well defined ..healthy looking ..not too over weight , on the skinny side ..
is it shallowness or is it that we like AESTHATICly pleasing things .. ?

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posted September 06, 2006 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for triplecancer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks HandsomeLibra! I guess itīs the indeciseveness that makes you "evaluate" different women and see which one you "finally" decide for. But once you choose a woman, do you keep "evaluating" others thinking you might have made a mistake?

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posted September 06, 2006 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for triplecancer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yeah, about your question...... I think itīs a little bit of both, because you can find beautiful and aesthetic qualities on the "inside" too. I think a lot of people (including me) first "evaluate" a person on the outside until you get to know them inside, but itīs ok to appreciate good-looking people, itīs like looking at a piece of artwork, as well as appreciating kind and generous people.
Iīve heard that libras can find beautiful qualities in things most people consider ugly.

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posted September 06, 2006 06:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no once its decided ..libran will have restless nights if they cheat on thier partner ..the whole ethical /balance/fairness issue

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posted September 06, 2006 06:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HL - Interesting question, particularly for me, and I kind of agree with TC, I always used to say to friends I'm shallow I just couldn't go out with someone I don't find physically attractive no atter how nice a person they are, then, quite recently, I realised I'm not shallow or vain, it's just that every person in the world has a different idea of what is beautiful and as long as I love a person for more then my perceived view of their beauty then I'm still being genuine and loving - so I might be initially attracted cos I think they're physically beautiful but I wouldn't stay if their personal qualities didn't match the quality of their appearance

So this kind of goes someway towards answering TC's first question too - ok I'm female Libra, but I would spend time with one guy cos he makes me laugh, and another guy cos he inspires me and yet another cos he spoils me etc, doesn't mean I'm sleeping with all of them though or making promises I've no intention of keeping - they would all be mates, and I might flirt, but the guy who got my heart would have no reason to be jealous in my opinion cos I would never be disloyal

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posted September 09, 2006 01:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am Libra too and I would tend to say no.
The typical libra has a scale within and being out of kilter causes distress. Cheating will induce guilt, since it is wrong.

With the exception of Oscar Wilde (oct16), I think librans enjoy flirting but don't take it any further. (For their own sanity) unless they really live by a code of debauchery, where their internal scales have already told them it is okay to do so.

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posted September 09, 2006 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for and     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 09, 2006 11:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
triplecancer -


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itīs ok to appreciate good-looking people, itīs like looking at a piece of artwork, as well as appreciating kind and generous people


I appreciate that statement. For whatever reason, I'm one of those people who finds beauty like that. But it's not to say the beauty wasn't already there. Look at the super model Kate Moss. She was completely way off of the status quo which existed in the modeling world.


Atlenta -

I'm not sure that the internal dialogue would have to do with internal scales having "told them" it is OK to live by a code of debauchery. They may feel that way for a time, like maybe after a couple of glasses of wine. The dudes of the Sign tend to go to more extremes.

If the Libra has a lot of outgoing energies, like Leo or Sag, the flirting will appear all the more reprehensible! But Libra's Rule partnerships/marriage, so don't forget the "disappointment" angle.

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I think that's true. But it's also better for them to move on than feel in their gut they are with the wrong person, and still stay.

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posted September 09, 2006 11:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 10, 2006 12:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Taurus80     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 10, 2006 12:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Taurus80     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 10, 2006 02:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
astrojunkie,
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I'm not sure that the internal dialogue would have to do with internal scales having "told them" it is OK to live by a code of debauchery. They may feel that way for a time, like maybe after a couple of glasses of wine. The dudes of the Sign tend to go to more extremes.

Have you read Oscar Wilde? I sure as hope what he writes isn't really the code he lives by, because really, he makes adultery and debauchery seem not only enticing, but correct.

Some of it:

A little sincerity is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely fatal.

A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her

Only the shallow know themselves.

The one charm about marriage is that it makes a life of deception absolutely necessary for both parties.

The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it... I can resist everything but temptation.

Oscar Wilde


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posted September 10, 2006 03:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lauren,
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Mutable guys would be more likely candidates.

I agree with this. Pisces, Sagittarius seem to be more changeable (though I'm not sure about Virgo). Libra with strong sagittarian influence will probably be more scared of commitment than most.
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Even if they were very attracted to a good looking girl, they’d never *lose* it over her.
I tend to agree with this as well. They are more detached and may hide their emotions well. I am an air sign though, and I have 'lost it' before, but I seldom show it.

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posted September 10, 2006 05:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Atlenta -

No, I haven't explored Oscar Wilde's realms yet. Are those excerpts HIM, or characters in fiction?

It sounds like stuff the original Rat Pack, and comedians like Andrew Dice Clay, would read up on.

"... Some, they may go for Cocaine
I'm sure that if I took even one sniff
It would bore me terrifically too
But I get a kick out of you ..."

The first three quotes sound exhaggerated. The one about charm in marriage sounds spot on. Then the last one, again, sounds like it's part of a fictional piece, or something. But I don't know his stuff.

How would you sort of describe his writing?

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posted September 10, 2006 11:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
triplecancer,
If you are Cancer, you don't need Libras

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posted September 10, 2006 11:38 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
astro junkie,

I think they are HIM. Those are his quotes and seeming life philosophy. His books are also along those lines, of aesthetism and immorality (disguised as morality). Maybe it's just his style of writing, but it is very convincing, so I think it is his philosophy.

The first quote I think sincerity means honesty, and honesty can offend.

The second can also be true, but it is a bit cynical.. the one who loves more suffers the most.

The third I don't get..

The marriage one i don't know, but why does it sound spot on. I'm afraid to marry if that is the case.

The last one holds true for one without self-control and perhaps morals. (so for him to quote that as truth, it might speak a bit about his character).

Bah.. all this is making me dizzy.

What does your song quote mean though?

I think Jan_A got it right. If you're cancer, especially triple one, don't look for a Libran. They'd drive you nuts. AND...
air is very detached. They'll never satisfy you emotionally, not even if he really tries.

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posted September 12, 2006 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for triplecancer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, a libra man already drove me nuts! Because he is indecisive, but he didnīt seem emotionally detached, maybe itīs because he has moon in the 8th house.

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posted September 13, 2006 12:33 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
triplecancer -

Or a Watery Libra with Cancer Moon ...

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posted September 13, 2006 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for triplecancer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi astrojunkie,
Actually, heīs a fiery libra, has water singleton in uranus. Does moon and uranus in 8th house and mars in 4th house make him more watery?

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posted September 13, 2006 11:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a watery libra with a scorpio moon...even that didn't work out.

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My moon is in the 8th.. even though I have only 1 water planet in Jupiter (in scorpio), but 'my' guy has a pisces ascendant, he still seems flighty and airy. (Even though I know he isn't, but he cannot express it) And I'm air to boot.
I actually read a book that says fire and water are matched, while air and earth are. But I do not know how true that is though. Air/Earth for a fact is more detached even if they don't mean to be.. and emotional communication styles would be different, especially if for a deep relationship.

Indecisive yeah, 'tis strange considering Libra is also a cardinal sign, and cancer is as well. I do not understand the libran man in dating..

Fiery libra.. likes the challenge. Especially if Sagittarius dominates the chart, its likely to have some commitment phobia, and need for freedom and change
(as I have tried to analyse mine for ages..)

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posted September 14, 2006 04:13 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
triplecancer -


??? I don't know.


Dulce Luna -

You seem to lean more towards Fire, I think. So how's it at The Asylum these days?


Atlenta -

Fire and Earth can be contained. Did you understand the Cardinal Sign thing?

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