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Topic: Tears: Right or Wrong?
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neptune5
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posted September 15, 2006 06:42 PM
 
 I know this thread may seem a bit unusual, but i have a particular question. I tend to cry a lot, mostly at home, in situations when I get someone upset, or I make someone mad or angry, because deep down I feel like i'm at fault for the other persons sadness. But I also cry when I see things about tragedies such as Titanic or 9/11 (very much so), and it takes me a while to stop crying, especially if i try to talk aftewards to explain myself and say the word "cry", i start tearing up again. I just know for sure that this is not my pain, because of the fact that I "Dont believe in Confrontaion", i don't argue or fight or anything harsh like that, its mostly me feeding off of these negative energies.
Here are my placements:  I have Moon in Pisces 8'22 degrees in the 6th house but conjunct my descendant. I have 7 squares to my Moon, here they are:
Sun (at 3'26 in IC) Square Moon
Moon Square Venus(at 9'29 in IC)
Moon Square Mars(6'03 conjunct MC)
Moon Square Part of Fortune(4'01 conjunct MC)
Moon Square Lilith(13'13 in IC)
Moon Square Juno(13'02 in IC)
Moon Square MC (at 2'41 in Gemini)
I also have Jupiter in Leo (in 12th house) Square Pluto in Scorpio(in 3rd house)
I also have Cupido in Pisces in the 6th house (also conjunct descendant) Is it wrong or right to be this way? Do any of you consider it a blessing or a curse? If you say blessing, to whom? And if you say curse, to whom?  ------------------
Virgo Rising, Sagittarius Sun, Pisces Moon IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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From: The Asylum, NC
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 15, 2006 06:46 PM
Although I should be taking my own advice, its never wrong to express your emotions. I have trouble expressing my self due to childhood issues. IP: Logged |
illusions_fool
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posted September 15, 2006 07:58 PM
For a long time I never let anyone see my emotions, I kept it all in and it became self-destructive [I have my three personal planets in the 12th House, so I tend to be self-destructive and this was one of the ways]. I've learned to show my emotions more, and found that I'm a very emotional person myself, which I had never thought I was. I don't know if it's a blessing or a curse, but it's just the way I am, so I try to accept it.~Rebekka IP: Logged |
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From: The Strand
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 15, 2006 08:25 PM
Nothing wrong with showing it. I tend to hold them in and then I explode at a later date.IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124
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From: Portland, OR, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 15, 2006 11:19 PM
Tears are never wrong. Ever. Just feel what you feel.I've always cried easily, emotions on the surface when I was younger, but now mostly either in private or with people I know well and trust. But if I have things I need to work through, I will hibernate a little until things right themselves. My Aquarius moon needing space. IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
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posted September 15, 2006 11:24 PM
I cry at least once a day..I feel..so therfore I express..there is so much pain in the world today..cry..consider it a cleansing..and offer your tears and pain..to GOD. ...and know..that if you want to know..the answers will come to you..most assuredly... . IP: Logged |
Hexxie
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posted September 15, 2006 11:30 PM
I've posted this before...and i'll probably post it again! From our own Linda Goodman:"tears stem from many emotions in the human heart
often from compassion
but always . . from a sensitive soul
and weeping is not always a sign that a soul is sleeping
tears can cleanse the soul
on its path to knowing whereas unshed tears may sometimes
form an inner mist, to blind the soul from truth
therefore, it is a good thing to shed tears
as long as a proper balance is kept" ------------------
`Who are you?' said the Caterpillar. This was not an encouraging opening for a conversation. Alice replied, rather shyly, `I--I hardly know, sir, just at present-- at least I know who I WAS when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.'
~Lewis Carroll
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lotusheartone
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posted September 15, 2006 11:45 PM
Awww..Hexxie..tears..tears..tears..for each and everyone of US..  IP: Logged |
Hexxie
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posted September 15, 2006 11:56 PM
"To effect a creative recovery, we must undergo a time of mourning. In dealing with the suicide of the "nice" self we have been making do with, we find a certain amount of grief to be essential. Our tears prepare the ground for our future growth. Without this creative moistening, we may remain barren. We must allow the bolt of pain to strike us. Remember, this is useful pain; lightning illuminates."By Julia Cameron ------------------
`Who are you?' said the Caterpillar. This was not an encouraging opening for a conversation. Alice replied, rather shyly, `I--I hardly know, sir, just at present-- at least I know who I WAS when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.'
~Lewis Carroll
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lotusheartone
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posted September 16, 2006 12:01 AM
Wonderful!..Ggodnight IP: Logged | |
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