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Topic: !- 12th house- confusion !!!!!!!
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i heart
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posted September 19, 2006 07:53 AM
 
So confused Im not even sure how to write what I want to at the momment. I have,
Sun auq
juipter cap
mercury cap all in the 12th house, I find Im really confused of myself- what I stand for- and how to make sence of myself or, understand who i am- how to be a better person etc.
I find it hard to see answers for myself- but alot clearer when talking about others..
any help guys? answers, advuce, guidance, comments? thanks...  IP: Logged |
The Virgin
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posted September 19, 2006 08:54 AM
HI i heart, finding yourself is not an easy thing to do and it's a very personal journey. What works for one may not work for another but I'll throw somethings out there that maybe will help you.I read a lot of self help books and found in the beginning it doesn't click but after a dozen or so of the same thing it starts to sink in. Anthony Robbins book "Finding the Giant Within" was one of the turning points for me in that venue. I also did a lot of walking and thinking. Questioning myself and only accepting the true answers regardless how painful or in some cases boastful. Meditation is good for centering yourself and breaking through the negativities. Something I've never heard recommended which helped me is reading or listening to debates on a particular issue. What do you agree with on both sides? What do you disagree with? Why do you feel that way? This can give you a clearer idea of what you stand for. Search out different beliefs. Find your balance. You don't have to be fully one thing or another. The only mold you have to fit is the one that makes you who you really are. Hope this helps you. ------------------
Sun Virgo, moon Pisces, Libra rising,mercury venus 12th house all conjunct, Mars Leo. IP: Logged |
illusions_fool
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posted September 19, 2006 02:42 PM
I know exactly how you feel, I've gone through the same thing almost my whole life. I have my Sun, Moon and Mercury all in the 12th House and I feel very isolated from others. At the same time, I feel like an empty shell, a personalityless character just aimlessly walking the face of the earth. It's hard, it really is, being so lost all the time and having no place to go. It's caused me to really retreat into myself and shut the world out, because everytime I've let someone in, they didn't understand or they only created more hurt. It's even worse when you're as dependent on others as I am. When no one tells me what to do, I don't know what to do with myself! I haven't had friends for most of my life. In fact, I think I've only ever had one that I could call a really good friend, but she's changed so much since then, I don't know who she is anymore. So I've let her go, but again, I'm alone.~Rebekka IP: Logged | |
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