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Topic: Libra and Pisces
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kaira
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posted September 20, 2006 12:20 PM
 
hey I'm pretty new to the board, but I've been "lurking" here for quite a while, and I love reading your insights on anything astrology, I find them much more real and descriptive that textbook definitions. Anyways, I was wondering if you guys could give me a general view of Libra (me) and Pisces (boyfriend) in a relationship. Is this considered a good combination? Me -
Sun: Libra
Moon: Leo
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Libra
Mercury: Virgo
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Sun: Pisces
Moon: Libra
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Taurus
Mercury: Pisces We're pretty much in love, but I just need some clarification that this relationship would be the best for both of us, and will have lasting power. Thank you guys!  IP: Logged |
LeoLys
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posted September 20, 2006 02:42 PM
I wouldnt want to wait on y'all to make a decision! for sure...I can see where you would be compatible in the sense of being charming and easy going. Libra likes to debate and Pisces doenst like to committ to a position...so...i bet you guys have some pretty cool conversations....not too many rollercoaster rides, not too many unrealistic expectations. just some observations... IP: Logged |
Hexxie
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posted September 20, 2006 02:47 PM
hi kaira ~ i'll give it a shot but it will be more my intuition guiding me cuz you did not list the degrees, or your ascendants so we don't know what houses are involved. also just because signs appear to be opposite one another, you need to look at degrees because they may not be in aspect at all!his moon is in the same sign as your sun which is quite lovely. the moon 'adores' the sun so i'm sure he could be quite smitten with you! he undertands your self-expression on a very deep level and you understand his emotions very well. your sun (and mars), by sign only, is what is called quincunx his sun (and his mercury). this is a very different energy as far as how you both want to express yourselves. your sun, which is self expression & ego, and your mars, which is action & passion, needs to somehow be adjusted by the way he expresses himself and also by the way he thinks. this means that maybe you sort of need to tune in to his wave length from time to time because it is quite different than yours. (his moon in the same sign of your sun helps a lot!) perhaps you want to express yourself by doing something and he wants to express himself by speaking/teaching. your venus is opposite his mars. venus is a woman's sex drive and mars the mans. you know what they say...opposites attract! this could be a very nice and sexy balance. but, as with all oppositions, you could drive each other nuts after awhile. your moon is opposite his venus. this might mean your warm emotions might make him want to detach a little bit sometimes. or maybe on other times it could be a nice balance. depends on how you use the opposition energy which either balances or over excites one or the other causing friction. your moon square his mars. maybe you get emotional about his slow, but steady way of doing things?! your emotions are quicker than his actions/passions which might upset you on some level. your venus is square his venus. you may have very different types of friends and different way of being friendly towards people. you need to learn how to integrate the 2. your mercury opposite his mercury. you both learn things in very different ways. things he says may over excite you and make you defenseive & vise versa. but on the other hand he may say things that you had never thought of and it broadens your mind and vise versa!! i know i did not go through all the aspects, like the trines, so there you have it you said: "but I just need some clarification that this relationship would be the best for both of us, and will have lasting power" in relationships one really needs to stay in the 'now' and not worry how long they will last etc. one needs to enjoy the relationship they've drawn to them while it lasts, which will be as long as you both are learning from each other and growing together! ------------------
`Who are you?' said the Caterpillar. This was not an encouraging opening for a conversation. Alice replied, rather shyly, `I--I hardly know, sir, just at present-- at least I know who I WAS when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.'
~Lewis Carroll
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kaira
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posted September 21, 2006 11:45 AM
Hexxie, thank you so much! and yeh, i really should focus on the here and now. but the thing is (sorry, but i'm gonna have a emotional outburst, you don't have to read lol), we have a distance relatonship going on for most the time, and around two months ago, i found out that he'd been out on a few dates with a cancer girl. and knowing that both pisces and cancer are a very compatible match, it just kills me inside that maybe he prefers her more than me? however he keeps saying he loves me so much, and he feels comfortable around me than anyone he's ever met, and he only went out with her because she'd had broken up with her boyfriend, and her sister asked him to just date her for a while, but in a friendly way. just to cheer her up. and those cancers sure know how to turn on the water works, and being the pisces that he is, he must've gained a really huge soft spot for her. but believe me, it took ALOT of prodding (scorpio venus) to get him to confess, and he told me he didn't want to say anything, 'cause he knew i would hurt. but, then i read comments that pisces are flighty and are likely to cheat. and his aquarius venus doesn't help it too much either. so all these little "flaws" just make me so insecure that what if he's deluding himself into loving me. and most the time we have communication difficulties, mainly to the fact he's so hidden with his emotions. i thought pisces were supposed to expressive in their feelings? and does the opposition of our mecurys have anything significant to do with that? anyways, here's mine and his chart placings: Mine - PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree
Sun Libra 3°38'04 in house 6
Moon Leo 28°52'39 in house 6
Mercury Virgo 29°52'42 in house 6
Venus Scorpio 16°28'52 in house 7
Mars Libra 4°38'16 in house 6
Jupiter Cancer 9°13'09 in house 4
Saturn Capricorn 7°29'46 in house 10
Uranus Capricorn 1°27'21 in house 9
Neptune Capricorn 9°37'00 in house 10
Pluto Scorpio 13°31'42 in house 7
True Node Aquarius 25°25'36 in house 12 HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Aries 20°56'27
2nd House Gemini 0°19'15
3rd House Gemini 20°44'06
Imum Coeli Cancer 7°23'29
5th House Cancer 25°31'50
6th House Leo 22°22'54
Descendant Libra 20°56'27
8th House Sagittarius 0°19'15
9th House Sagittarius 20°44'06
Medium Coeli Capricorn 7°23'29
11th House Capricorn 25°31'50
12th House Aquarius 22°22'54
His -
PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree
Sun Pisces 25°47'12 in house 3
Moon Libra 12°19'46 in house 9
Mercury Pisces 0°44'14 in house 2
Venus Aquarius 16°00'30 in house 2
Mars Taurus 16°39'17 in house 4
Jupiter Aries 3°22'59 in house 3
Saturn Sagittarius 20°59'32 in house 12
Uranus Sagittarius 26°37'32 in house 12
Neptune Capricorn 7°50'29 end of house 12
Pluto Scorpio 9°39'43 in house 10
True Node Aries 11°29'16 in house 3
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Capricorn 9°17'58
2nd House Aquarius 13°52'13
3rd House Pisces 20°22'43
Imum Coeli Aries 23°30'52
5th House Taurus 21°14'01
6th House Gemini 15°25'36
Descendant Cancer 9°17'58
8th House Leo 13°52'13
9th House Virgo 20°22'43
Medium Coeli Libra 23°30'52
11th House Scorpio 21°14'01
12th House Sagittarius 15°25'36
we've been going on for a year now, and we've had amazing times, and some ones i'd rather forget. btw, can anyone tell me the aspects of having venus in scorpio please? i'm pretty sure my emotions are usually from that placing, in our relationship.
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kaira
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posted September 21, 2006 11:48 AM
LeoLys, i'm confused on what you meant by this - "I wouldnt want to wait on y'all to make a decision! for sure..." could you explain please.and you're right, we do have awesome debates time to time, which i do feel very refreshed by afterwards. but the rollercoaster rides i'm not so sure about.. thanks! IP: Logged |
BlueEyes24
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posted September 21, 2006 03:35 PM
kaira, my guy is a Pisces with his venus in Aqua also. 
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kaira
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posted September 21, 2006 04:33 PM
BlueEyes24, could you explain how he is? like is he flirty and do you have any complications with him, not that i hope there are. thank youIP: Logged |
kaira
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posted September 22, 2006 05:44 PM
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kaira
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posted September 26, 2006 04:39 PM
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Mama Mia
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posted September 26, 2006 04:41 PM
Hi KI am a female but I am Pisces with Venus in Aqua. What is it that you want to know. I have a boy cousin who is a Pisces with Venus in Aqua too. We are born 10 days apart same age, so I maybe able to help.. Whats up? IP: Logged |
kaira
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posted September 26, 2006 04:51 PM
hey, i was just wondering whether this aspect of having Venus in Aquarius, tends to make the person less faithful, and the problem (i guess) of having multiple relationships at once. also, are V in Aquarius people ALWAYS detached from their emotions in love relationships, and how can i (Scorpio in V) not seem too clingy and possessive to my bf. i know he loves me, but lately he's been needing his space, and part of me wonders if he's actually getting bored and frustrated with our relationship. do Pisces people in general like their partners being the dominate type in the relationship, or do they prefer that position? sorry, i ask too many questions lol IP: Logged |
Missa
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posted September 26, 2006 05:00 PM
Pisces is a mutable sign, while Libra is a cardinal sign, so it is possible that Libra will be at least somewhat more dominant in the relationship. From my experience there shouldn't be a problem with that as long as you remember to listen to the other person as well (which shouldn't be a problem for a Libra).I also know a person who had Venus in Aquarius, and as far as I know he was faithful. I don't like these generalization of people who have Venus in air sign. IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted September 26, 2006 05:06 PM
Wouldnt Venus in Aquarius be prone to coolness and detachment in love?Hope this helps! Venus in Aquarius - Aquarius Venus Venus in Aquarius indicates an independent, non-traditional approach to romantic and social affairs. A magnetic, original, sparkling, glamorous and effervescent nature makes you socially popular, with many friends. You are likely to have a number of love affairs before considering marriage. When you do take the plunge it is likely that you choose a partner who is able to satisfy your need for intellectual stimulation, companionship and variety of experience. Your strong love of emotional freedom may cause some problems in your domestic life.
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alanabelle86
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posted September 26, 2006 05:10 PM
Your guy has a lovely chart. Almost the exact same chart as a guy I can't keep my paws off of, even though he's sooo forbidden to me Sun: Pisces
Moon: Libra
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Taurus
Mercury: Pisces ^ that combo is to die for, honestly..perfectly swoon worthy  IP: Logged |
kaira
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posted September 26, 2006 05:34 PM
thank you so much missa and sue g! that really helped calm down my concerns a lil more better. another question, when Pisces or specifically my guy, looking at his aspects, talks about marriage and children and basically the future, does he really intend on going through with what he says truthfully, or does he say it because he "dreams" those things happening, but doesn't come around to fulfiling them at the end?alanabelle86, thank you. he's an amazing guy IP: Logged |
alanabelle86
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posted September 26, 2006 07:35 PM
Was he born March 16th, 1987?IP: Logged |
villy
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posted September 27, 2006 02:18 AM
I think if he talks of marriage/kids he really means that. Even if those are dreams, he wants to fulfill them and wants you for that support. (What more would a Pisces want, if he gets to fulfill his dreams. I guess he should love you more for doing so).
Let him know that you trust him and that you feel that he wouldn't let you down in any way.
(I feel Pisceans always think a lot and try living upto someone else's expectations. So letting him know your expectations from him is another point you should keep in mind)Hope this helps (though its not on the basis of particular chart aspects ... generic Pisces traits, if I am right). V IP: Logged |
villy
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posted September 27, 2006 02:41 AM
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aloneinkyoto
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posted September 27, 2006 11:38 AM
ha! interesting, i was born on the aries/pisces cusp (always have had more traits on the pisces side) with my mercury, venus and mars in the same signs as him. haha.and as far as i go, my venus is in aquarius and i've never considered being unfaithful to a partner, i am VERY detached, though, and its not something that i exactly like being either, it comes naturally.. i'd rather not be so detached. i do have a very nontrad way of dealing with relationships, and a nontrad choice in partners. and all of the pisces men i know have a lot of ideas in their head about marriage, and they'll most likely fufill it. i couldn't see them ever doing different. good luck IP: Logged |
kaira
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posted October 01, 2006 11:51 AM
alanabelle86 - nope, he was born a day later villy - thank you very much! as i'm a libra, it sometimes is so hard for me to figure him out. so i tend to get very suspicious about his motives, and i really blame that on my Venus placing lol. but he's amazing, and i cant imagine the rest of my life without him. and him fulfiling his dreams, is fulfiling my entire destiny, so of cour i'll support him. thank you again for your comment! aloneinkyoto - thank you! you as well have pretty much settled my worries a little more, so thank you! and yes, he's very detached, and i see myself as a little too pushy sometimes, in making him show his feelings. and even though he says what i want to hear, there's always a thought in the back of mind mind, contemplating that. but could you please explain what you mean by your partners being non-traditional? and the way you deal with relationships non-traditionally? then what is seen as traditional then? *confused* but that you again for your comment! IP: Logged |
kaira
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posted October 02, 2006 04:55 PM
bump!another question. do pisces guys mind their partners being all "i miss you baby" and that kinda stuff. because i don't want to seem overly possesive, but i just can't help it. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted October 02, 2006 05:16 PM
I dated a Pisces once upon a time, when we first met he was real funny(a real joker)at school. When I gave him my number it seemed like forever before he called me, and he had that "Don't really care" attitude going on. We went out for only four months, because in the end he said I was the one who was to clingy(if you count calling him only three times a week clingy)because after awhile he stopped calling me. But when we did brake up, one of his good friends claimed he missed me and was always talking about me, which I could never see that as being completely true since this guy never showed any feelings towards me(he was always afraid to show how he felt), which annoyed the heck out of me(please tell me how you feel about me, good or bad). Heres for anybody who wants to look at another synastry chart for Libra/PiscesHim
Feb 26, 1979
Madison, WI 10:15 am Me
Oct. 4, 1977
Galesburg, Ill 11:43pm IP: Logged |
villy
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posted October 02, 2006 11:29 PM
I may not mind. I guess Pisces are emotional, so someone being emotional about them, may not matter. (Again everyone is different)V IP: Logged |
kaira
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posted October 08, 2006 01:53 PM
libraschoice7 - hey, i was just wondering, whether there were days, or weeks ever, where you both didn't meet up, or talk to each other? because my pisces usually secludes himself for a couple of days, to a week, just doing his uni work or whatever. was your pisces detached from the relationship, more than you? it's pretty weird seeing that it should be the opposite way round. and also were there any times when he treated you more as a friend, than an actual partner? my pisces has venus in Aquarius, which i hate! because i can never get "too" close to him, and whenever we try to be intimate, there's always this void between us, that i can't explain..thank you for replying!
villy - are you a pisces? the majority of the time it's always me saying "i love you", when he replies "i love you too", but sometimes it would be comforting for him to say it first you know..
and as i said in one of my previous posts, he did briefly "go out" with a cancer, and now no matter how hard he tries to explain that he will never cheat on me (even though it wasn't considered cheating) or be flighty, womanizing, so on ever again, i always feel that eventually though, he will. also, because he has venus in aquarius, does that mean it will take ALOT of time and effort for him to settle down with me? because i know there's that saying about V in Aquarius, "friends to lovers, and lovers to friends", and i so do NOT want to be his friend only, because that would be so so difficult for me living without him. i just hope his pisces sun is strong enough for him to overcome his detachment in love, and will be with me forever. saying that, are pisces people loyal, marriage wise? comments would be AWESOME guys!! <3 IP: Logged |
kaira
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posted October 08, 2006 02:00 PM
also i tend to PMS alot haha, is this trait associated with Venus in Scorpio? like does it tenfold the effect?IP: Logged | |
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