posted October 01, 2006 07:54 AM            

And ridiculous as it seems, I also get frightened off by someone openly declaring their interest in me.

If I like someone (even love them) its the little things I do for them that really show how I feel. I like to cook for them, really listen when they speak and remember the little things.

If your pisces can't look you in the eye a lot of the time, yet you catch her looking at you when she thinks you're not paying attention she's probably smitten. If she smiles at you for no reason, or simply smiles when you're around she's smitten.

Other than that I don't know what to tell you. Good luck and I hope you get the answer you're looking for.

posted October 01, 2006 09:32 AM              

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how do you certainly know the real motives of the pisces in love?

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posted October 01, 2006 11:46 AM              

I'm so shy around my guy it's ridiculous. I'm not comfortable (yet) saying how much I love him, but I do little things, like, yeah, making CDs, learning how to cook etc... All in good time.

posted October 01, 2006 02:44 PM              

I have caught her looking at me when she thinks i'm not looking. I'm a virgo sun.

posted October 01, 2006 05:00 PM            

K.

posted October 01, 2006 07:37 PM              

Hints to see if a Pisces girl likes you (dated pisces men and would say that they are the same)

In my case...

-I talk to them but don't hold the look that long (I do this as long as I want with any other people).

- I sometimes escape (like a fish) when I'm physically too close, meaning I'd pretend I'm off to the WC to catch some strength (did that two days ago, why?!?!) or pretend I have to leave somewhere (stupid, I know)

-Yes, you do little things for the other. Like next time you see them you ask them about something they mentioned to you and they are shocked you remember it. When they show deep care for you, they're smitten! But don't put pressure on then too soon...

-Even if the guy sees that I fancy him when we are dating/flirting, I don't like to tell him straight away, I would show it, but say nothing about it. All with pisces is subtle.

-Pisces girls love considerate, compassionable people. Friendly, gentle and passionate, with will. That attracts them.

Pisces can be very insecure in love, specially in the courtship stages, like you want to know the other, but you also want your privacy and your inner world for yourself...so that's why it seems that we don't know what we want. But we do know: we want to merge with the other, but we stil want our private world for ourselves.

posted October 01, 2006 08:50 PM              

In the early stages of courtship, if I am slightly interested in someone I would smile at them and laugh at their jokes, even if it's lame. When they enter the room I am always aware of them and keep them in my peripheral vision, usually taking glances at them from time to time... and if our eyes meet I usually look away rather quickly.. With conversations I like to ask questions about them, their likes, hobbies, tastes, what-not...

If I am smitten by them, then the usual pisces qualities come out, in which I become a lot more shy and sometimes get choked up in trying to start conversations. But if I see them in the distance my eyes get glued to them, even if we are walking towards each other, then the usual smile is flashed to them as we walk by each other (this is in the context of co-workers) At this stage I am not usually the one that would start conversations and hope that the other party would. It may seem that I am not interested in them at this point, but the fact of the matter is that I become so smitten that it becomes harder to start conversations without any point.

If your pisces is smitten with you then you do have to make the move, not too pushy but at a subtle way. Like ask questions of their hobbies or what they like to do, then whatever is said try to find some common ground, like if it's an outdoor activity or musical interest; say that you like those things and either then or at a later time say you saw this show coming up or we should go rollerblading or whatever it is...

Above all be nice to them, be considerate, but don't over do it, we do pick up on subtle things and love small considerate acts...

posted October 02, 2006 07:14 AM            

My Piscies colleague came in my office today to deliver something.
I noticed that she was looking "from a side", and while I "catch her look", she escaped out like a fish in a water

K.

posted October 02, 2006 07:46 AM            

How true! I think the biggest thing for me recently was the cancer-guy I'm into brought in my wheelie bins from the street when I was busy doing something else. He didn't say anything about it and I didn't notice for 2 days but when I realised I was blown away.

posted October 02, 2006 12:36 PM              

ugh! Pisces will make you mad if you are a more direct sign. They swim here and there, all the time. When you ask them questions that get to a point, they just swim off, unless it suits them to answer with something vague

vague, vague, vague...how does it feel to be so vague? I would like to know.

they don't need constant companions...they don't need reminders that you like them...i wonder what it is they DO need?

the best way to get them to talk is by using alcohol. only thing is that this makes them much more desirable, because they will EXPRESS themselves under the influence....

be careful. some fish will leave you cold.

posted October 02, 2006 12:54 PM            

I am not shy nor do I drink and I can express myself very well..

What I will agree with is that we need a peson to be gentle with us at first. Any agressiveness or harsh behavior will send us swimming in the other direction...

posted October 02, 2006 01:00 PM            

K.

posted October 02, 2006 01:07 PM            

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not a huge fan of the pisces love thing, but i am a recent survivor. What is the deal with 'oh I am so shy, I cannot express myself'. WHY? Shy is such a waste of valuable TIME! Besides- why make people wonder where they stand with you? What is that all about? Why the games?

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I have to laugh at this because this is the saaame complaint people make about Cancerians. I'm not a fan of piscean men myself but I guess you gotta be a waterperson to understand why we be like that....

posted October 02, 2006 02:49 PM            

For the life of me Leoly why can't you see that. I am not trying to offend you either. I just think that you are making this more then what it should be. From what I am seeing and reading it is all about you and how you feel.

I have heard that Pisces men are hard to understand, I don't see it well it maybe because I am Pisces. But its more to his moods and behavior then he is just this way. Ppl have to protect themselves and mayb that is what he chooses to do..

We love our friends I will tell you infact I am going through the almost same thing but I am in the same spot as your Pisces friend. Its me and a Cap guy that I use to date 15 years ago, We are still friends and I treasure his friendship much, but he is not happy in his marriage and blames me for being with her bc had I not flipped out over a situation we would be married and not just friends. Tells me that he is still loving me.

I have nothing for him but friendship 1 bc he is married and 2 I chose not to get caught up in that mess, it to comlicated. He prolly thinks I am cold and non caring I am not I feel for him, but I have to look out for me.

So that is prolly where your Pisces man is. Stop trying to make him tellyou how he feels about you and just be his friend. Leo's mostly all of them always wants things their way all the time. You can't have your cake and it eat it too.

Also let the bitterness go bc you really are only hurting yourself. I told you that if he is still your friend after all this time then he really does care for you. And we are very loyal to our friends will jump through hoops for them if need be.

Live and let live...

posted October 02, 2006 03:49 PM              

they don't need constant companionship and reassurance...they can get into your brain and they are experts at reading people. they are reticent...yes? theylike to leave themselves open to change thier minds?

dont be mad because i cannot understand shy! for the same reasons you may not understand why leos have to be so direct. it's not just bc of this situation that i made this comment...its just those shy types confound me. it seems like not saying what you mean doesnt get you any closer to your intentions or desires...again...not WANTING the fish man's return. he's a good guy, but he isnt MY guy...i get that. i was really just responding to the poster how i felt and i didnt mean to get y'all into a commotion!