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Topic: same sign relationships
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seapisces unregistered
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posted October 10, 2006 05:01 AM
so i'm curious, has anyone gotten into a relationship with the same sign as yourself? how long did it last and was it worth it? i don't think i ever heard of such a relationship lasting for their lifetime. but it would be nice to know what you all think.IP: Logged |
OzMeg222 Newflake Posts: 0 From: victoria, australia Registered: Aug 2009
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posted October 10, 2006 05:17 AM
HA!Thats the question isn't it? I've been dancing around some strange sort of same-sign relationship for almost 9 months now. Pisces-pisces has taught me some things about myself I'd rather not know but its probably better I do. We also have matching moons (leo) so if we can make it work anyone can cos thats double whammy same signs. IP: Logged |
kindjali Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009
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posted October 10, 2006 05:18 AM
Hi,It was tense, but with lack of maturity from both sides so it could last...To big Egos. Cappy + Cappy. But if you ask me was that worth of everything, I will say: "There does not day pass in last 2 years, that I dont think of her". It was worth and I still believe it could. K. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 10, 2006 09:14 AM
CancerI'm better off with them as good friends.....in a love relationship we'd probably drown eachother because we have the same issues. Thats why I found me a scorpio. IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 1952 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 10, 2006 09:23 AM
I loooove other Saggies! Get along with them great too - we speak the same language They have broken my heart pretty badly too. My Venus is in Sag as well as my Sun.IP: Logged |
CapGirl unregistered
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posted October 10, 2006 10:27 AM
I also had a Cap-Cap relationship which took me to the edge and back. It's still affecting my life and it essentially ended a year ago. Like Kindijali, I think of him daily. I would not seek about another Cap. again and might even purposely avoid another such relationship opportunity with one. IP: Logged |
Kamilla unregistered
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posted October 10, 2006 10:36 AM
My parents are both Taurus with Moon in Leo, actually they were born 1 day apart so it's only the Moon they don't have in exact conjunction.I have been dating a Sag for about three months and I like it so far. Definitely on the same page with a lot of things. But then, we also have Mars and Venus in the same signs IP: Logged |
taurus/gemini cusp Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted October 10, 2006 11:23 AM
Been with my taurus fella for around 4 years now. I had reservations about that before I properly got together with him, but I am surprised and delighted that we are still going strong! We get on superbly! The understanding between us is brilliant and our communication is better than most. We have our rows, don't get me wrong and there can be a lack of motivation in both of us sometimes, (picture 2 taurean couch potatoes!), but we share a great deal of love and a strong mutual respect. He feels like my soulmate- and most days you'll find us laughing and joking, which is a pretty good thing, I think! It's truly the best (and the longest) relationship we've both ever had. I have high hopes for us! We also have 5 other friends born in May, so that month is PARTY TIME!!!To anyone contemplating a relationship with someone who has the same sign as them, I say GO FOR IT! Word of warning, though: You may find that the things about your partner that drive you nuts, are the things that you can't stand about yourself!!! IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 1335 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 10, 2006 11:45 AM
Aries Men? noIP: Logged |
BlueEyes24 unregistered
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posted October 10, 2006 11:56 AM
I don't think I've ever been attracted to a Virgo man....Virgo+Virgo= too boring. I've never really dated men with Earth signs, I love water signs.... although my first love was a Taurus. IP: Logged |
kindjali Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009
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posted October 10, 2006 01:58 PM
Capgirl, it is worst it could happen if you run away from other male Cappy only because you had bad expirence with another Cappy. It was good and bad for me also, but I know what mistakes 2 Cappies can do - use EGO in relationship more than other signs, both of us. If you ask me, I would welcome another Cappy woman in my life, but most of all I will welcome her. She runs away whole her life from past, it is time to stop. But thats her choice. I can only be here.K. IP: Logged |
CapGirl unregistered
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posted October 10, 2006 04:37 PM
Kindjali~ I agree about the ego problems which showed up as a power and control struggle between us. I do still feel strongly for him and kind of still here wondering why it is so difficult. We both have alot of Cap. in our charts ~ both have mercury in Cap. and I am venus in Cap., and he is mars in Cap. Then I am mars in Pisces and he is venus in Pisces, and these are like 3 degree conjunctions. The Cap. crap between us ruined any nice, watery bond of the pisces connection. LOL
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Natural111 unregistered
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posted October 10, 2006 07:45 PM
Yep. Virgo/Virgo. I thought he was opinionated. Had as suggestion for everything. Like if I liked tea latte then he'd say I should buy a machine, yadda, yadda, yadda, and do it myself. Basically, he got on my nerves. But, he was sensual in bed. However, that wasn't enough to make me want him. It took him a while to get over me, hopefully he did. IP: Logged |
and Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 10, 2006 08:03 PM
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Leopricorn unregistered
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posted October 10, 2006 08:12 PM
Omg, I don't think I could stand Leo guys. Too much egotism there. Never been with one yet, but their energies rub me the wrong way. IP: Logged |
cancerrg unregistered
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posted October 11, 2006 10:48 AM
oh , i would any day go for the crab women . i think , they are best . ofcourse they have or rather we have issues . but its a realtion thats so fullfilling , can't really imagine it with others except say , scorp or pisces ( to an extent ) IP: Logged |
MUSTANG unregistered
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posted October 11, 2006 11:43 AM
I've never had a close friendship or love interest with someone of my sign. I don't know if it's just because I don't meet any or because we don't hit it off.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 121 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted October 12, 2006 01:42 PM
I have already said how I felt about dating other Pisces ppl NOPE not for me..However I did meet a very handsome Pisces guy like about 5 years ago and man we were very,very attracted to each other he even had a identical twin brother. Nothing ever happened between us we were both involved with other ppl. I see him from time to time and he always looks at me with loving eyes. He has the cutest tatoo of the two fish going in opposite directions.. IP: Logged |
kindjali Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009
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posted October 12, 2006 03:21 PM
I know what you mean Capgirl. Yeah...Cap crap..I have: Sag ASC Piscies Moon Sag Mars Aquarius Venus Cap Mercury She: Cancer ASC Aries Moon Scorpio Venus Cap Mars Sag Mercury Too much egoism, jelaousy and too much passion, negative and positive. No maturity and wisdom to make mutual agrrement around same things we wished both. K. IP: Logged |
Lady Dee unregistered
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posted October 12, 2006 04:03 PM
Yes, two Scorpios...never again. It brought the worst in me out. Although we were VERY sexually attracted to each other. Too similiar in all the worst characteristics of Scorpio...he has put me off them for life. Although I did examine myself and my behaviour patterns after that short flirt with the devil.IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2006 08:04 PM
I'm Aries, but never tried another Aries.. ^_^; wouldn´t really go for one also, as they are too impulsive and not intellectualy appealing for me (I mean if they are pure Aries, not considering other aspects).. And guess that dating someone with similiar temperaments (thought I don't really feel much like Aries lol) can help us see ourselves like in front of a mirror, but we certainly learn much more with other people that are different. But maybe for friendship it would be nice, as we can share similiar ways of seeking for fun.. XDIP: Logged |
Cappadora Newflake Posts: 0 From: Sacramento, CA, USA Registered: Sep 2009
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posted October 12, 2006 08:12 PM
I'll admit there is something about the Capricorn male that I find intriguing... steel determination, admirable self control, levelheadedness, and a certain manly authoritative presence. Very sexy. But we'd be too similar for long term love. I have that Capricorn issue of needing approval and always being too afraid to break the rules. Not only am I a Cap sun but I've got saturn conjunct my Mc in Virgo. I need a partner to balance out my 'Capricorness', and encourage me to be more open and free. An Aries/Sag type is more my cup of tea (Aries on the 5th, and jupiter in the 7th). If he had a Capricorn Asc, though, that would be cool. My generation has uranus in Scorpio which would often be in the 10th for a Cap rising. He'd be strong and reasonable (Cap rising), and yet not afraid be a little outrageous once in a while (uranus in the 10th). Uranus in the 10th would also be a nice balance for my saturn Mc. So yes, a Capricorn rising wouldn't be bad... with another Cap sun, however, we'd be too alike. The sun is our core essential sense of identity and purpose. We'd probably get in eachothers way vying for the same role in the relationship...not that I don't still admire Cap sun men, I just prefer to admire them from a respectful distance.------------------ Cappadora IP: Logged |
seapisces unregistered
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posted October 12, 2006 09:32 PM
Well it seems that there are a couple signs that cringe at the thought of dating the same sign; virgos, caps, and aries... I was thinking that leos would feel the same way too, with the fight for the spotlight.Thanks Taurus/Gemini cusp for the nice insight into two bulls getting together..I also love that warning you gave: "You may find that the things about your partner that drive you nuts, are the things that you can't stand about yourself!!!" That's interesting Mama Mia that you wouldn't date another pisces, but you have an exception for one. So far I've been infatuated with two in my life. I just love how pisces can communicate with their minds especially when they are friends and together in the same room.
Ozmeg222, sorry that your relationship is in the air at the moment. But what does a double whammy mean? There is a pisces guy that I have my eye on is the same as me, sun pisces, moon in cancer.
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OzMeg222 Newflake Posts: 0 From: victoria, australia Registered: Aug 2009
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posted October 12, 2006 09:59 PM
Seapisces- You'll probably have an easier time of it cos you're moons are cancer which is harmonious with your suns. I'm a complete novice at this kind of thing but that seems logical to me. Just watch the magnification of those negative traits you both share. Magnification of positive is good, but negative could cause problems. Just keep that in mind. And its D-day for me and my pisces. Gotta sort something out cos its gone on too long now. IP: Logged |
Scorpio Chick unregistered
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posted October 12, 2006 10:15 PM
I dated a Scorpio for a few months. Never, ever again. I thought I was a weird, sex-obsessed, control freak, but he took it to the next level. He was downright crude and disgusting with the things he would say to me. When I told him that sort of talk turned me off, he'd get really mean and say awful things. Then, he'd try to explain it all away with "I've had a bad day.." blah blah blah.. It was a pattern with him and I quickly realized he was way too immature to handle me. Plus he was boring and way too into himself. IP: Logged |