posted October 17, 2006 11:32 PM              

Why is he so fascinating to you?

posted October 19, 2006 05:39 PM            

You are in a very difficult position. Keep looking for that other job because you can't stay where you are- whether or not you two date. If he is your boss or in a higher position than you, you are both creating a terrible environment for yourselves and for others.

Regardless of his sign, a man will let a woman go so far, but his hesitation to form any type of label concerning your "thing" is proof that it isn't much more than a "fun time" in his mind. Taurus is especially guilty of this in that if someone will offer them periodic pieces of cake, they will take it, savor it and wait for more. If someone wants to start charging or making a big deal that he likes cake.. well the baker and the confection will be out on the street within a few seconds. ESPECIALLY if eating cake in any way jeopardizes their position, home life or anything that they have already deemed "secure".

A Leo is in love with love- Taurus is in love with the security of love (I am generalizing).

It has been my experience that unless a Taurus has the desire to take you out, show you off and hold your hand in public, you are his secret and from reading your post, I believe you are in for a huge heartache.

Then again, I was just telling my Leo Husband (formerly married to a Taurus) that every fire sign should be exposed to an unevolved Taurus in order to learn what not to do in a relationship. The key word is unevolved, because a real evolved Taurus (and we have plenty here) would never treat someone that has a crush on them as nothing more than cake being delivered to eat in secret.

posted October 19, 2006 06:07 PM            

I am a male leo. I was married to a Taurus for 11 years. There are alot of times when it is just hell in that type of relationship while other times are tolerable.

I noticed you said he is your boss. Yes, I would definately find another job. If this relationship goes sour at all your life could be hell at the work place. Especially if you always go to his house and he never goes to yours.

posted October 25, 2006 04:56 PM            

He knows and I would be very careful you do not end being the butt of the locker room jokes.

One thing I would recommend is that you read your posts about this situation and pretend the two main people are not you and Boss-Taurus.

1) I see a woman that is making all of the effort to be with a man

2) The man is her boss and is in a position to fire her should she cross him in any way.

3) A potential manager knows about the situation and made a not so subtle crack about "oh he likes you". NOT GOOD.

4) Once you are labeled as one that will surprise her boss to have sex- you're done. Everyone male in that office that hears about it (and trust me, I worked in a corporate office and watched it occur with a co-worker of mine with the boss). The female is always branded as being in the wrong.

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I can't tell you what to do, nor will I keep pushing the point. I believe that you can only provide examples but if someone is intent on driving a car off a cliff, you can't stop them. You are in for a broken heart, that is what my gut tells me. If this man cared for you, he would take you out to another city for dinner. Do you two prepare dinner together? Does he call you and just talk? What time do you go over to his house and are you the one suggesting it?

I am afraid you are not seeing what you have become to him and yes, he is talking or else you are being obvious with your intentions.

There is quite a bit of difference when a woman that is 33 is dating a man that is in his 40's versus a 33 year old man and a 22 year old woman. I am not sure what field your in, but I don't think you two dating would cause him to lose everything. Even if you two had to keep it on the quiet side he would have taken you out by now.

In my experience with Taurus men, if they want you they pursue you. I have never had to make the move on them as they have always been pushy about going out on a date. They LOVE (for the most part and again, in my experience) to show off someone they find to be worthy of their attention. They also MUST work for it instead of valuing a person that just makes themselves too available.

I hope you get out of there and get a new job. It seems to be that will be the only way you will understand what his true intentions are towards you. If you leave and he pursues a dating relationship with you, then you know he was genuine - if it remains with you being available and going to him... well, that is all it will be.

Please don't let him take advantage of your youthful nature and your passionate Leo Sun.

posted October 30, 2006 06:06 PM            

When I look at his chart and your synastry aspects, I see a few things that concern me. First off, he has Sun, moon and Venus all conjuncting in Taurus. That is someone that is going to be very "me first". He can either be very evolved or unevolved in his sign. He does have a strong grand trine with Saturn, and Uranus- but his Uranus Venus opposition could indicate he changes partners often.

The synastry aspects you two have are not what I would call easy in any way.

You have a Sag rising and Jupiter in your chart is significant (Jupiter rules Sag) and it, along with your Moon and Neptune squares his Pluto in Libra.

Pluto is a strong planet and when someone has a personal planet (moon)squaring someone's Pluto it can be indicative of an obsessive relationship. There can even be a touch of "master and slave" within the relationship, one person having all the control.

His Sun, Venus and Moon opposes your Saturn (the planet of authority). He may feel that you do not understand his ideas or his way of doing things. Again, those are three personal planets opposing a planet in your chart that may cause problems. It is hard enough with one planet, but with three...and you combine that with the 3 planets squaring your Pluto and life ain't gonna be fun.

Your mercury squares his Neptune - meaning someone may not be actually being truthful with the other. You have to always be careful not to lie to each other, but deception can be noted with this aspect.

Your Sun in Leo also squares his Sun, Moon and Venus while opposing his Jupiter in Aquarius. Even though you identify with him, he brings out something in you that makes you feel better about "you" and you may be doing the same for him- I'd watch out for those squares between his personal planets.

The only real (geometrical) aspect you two have is your Mercury trines his Sun, moon and venus. His Mars forms a sextile to your Neptune and trines Uranus. That's it... that is according to Astro.com..

His Uranus also falls into your 11th house (organizations and friends) careful you do not lose any from either group because of your liaison. His Pluto that is causing so much strife with your Moon, Neptune and Jupiter, falls right into your 10th house of Career - he will affect your job and is affecting your job.

Individually - he has his Sun, Moon and Venus in his 10th house of career. He won't give that up and he is used to conflict (7th house Mars).

posted October 30, 2006 06:17 PM            

You said "Hi, I'm a Taurus and I just thought I would throw out my own insight. We are very slow and cautious about relationships. We want it to be for good or we don't want it at all. The person has to be loyal, we take committment to the extreme. The keyword whenever dealing with a bull is patience."

Although you are a Taurus, I do believe you are one of the more quiet ones- maybe because of your Pisces moon. I have yet to meet a reserved Bull that did not make his presence known. I have yet to NOT be pursued agressively by a Taurus when he decides he wants me. I have been pursued by too many of the Bullboys yet they just don't do it for me (that is why I married a Leo....he does it for me).

I seemed, at one point in my life, to be surrounded by Taurus people or people with tons of planets / ascendant in Taurus. My Ex-inlaws were both Taurus Sun and Taurus mooners. They loved to show off their possessions. As my ex-father in law said "I worked for, I deserve it so why not". At the same time I had a Taurus boss- talk about flashy with his yacht.

I was enaged and lived with a Taurus Sun / Taurus rising for almost 2 years. He treated me like a possession and would often tell me he "owned" me. As if anyone could own an Archer girl... LOL... Then when I broke things off with him, I met and dated another Taurus man that pursued me like crazy. Both liked to show me off (maybe it is just cause I am a hottie).

The ex-Fiance immediately introduced me to his friends and within a few months he had already proposed and took me to meet his family. He also called mine up to introduce himself (ICK).

A Leo shows off his woman because he knows she is beautiful and adores her. A Taurus shows off his woman because she is like a trophy, when he is done she goes back on the shelf until he is ready to shine her up and put her back on display. I am being somewhat general, as are your statements. I believe that we are a sum of all of our parts and our Sun is significant. I believe that female Bulls are very different from male bulls in the way they pursue people. Just like Archer ladies have many differences from our Archer brothers.

That is just my two cents.