posted October 12, 2006 07:10 AM              

I would have a hard time advising you on that matter. You didn't give many details. How old(ish) are you two? have there been any serious conflicts? I know I'm blunt, and mean no disrespect, but it helps to have background info.

I am sorry that you are hurting, but I'm glad you're here.

posted October 12, 2006 10:57 AM              

Quite a few of our friends have got married over the last few months, and people keep asking when it will be us. I don't know if has cold feet about that level of committment.

posted October 12, 2006 03:52 PM              

Fellow Piscean here and I feel for you especially having lost a baby too, must have been hard on you both.

I think you must give him the space he asks for and you need to prove to yoursel that you can live without him in your life. Coming across too 'needy' and saying you cant live without him will probably scare him even more.

What I'm trying to say is that it is better to be with someone because you 'want' them and they want you not because you 'need'.

Hope it works out for you.

posted October 12, 2006 03:52 PM              

Fellow Piscean here and I feel for you especially having lost a baby too, must have been hard on you both.

I think you must give him the space he asks for and you need to prove to yoursel that you can live without him in your life. Coming across too 'needy' and saying you cant live without him will probably scare him even more.

What I'm trying to say is that it is better to be with someone because you 'want' them and they want you not because you 'need'.

Hope it works out for you.

posted October 13, 2006 03:37 PM              

My best guess would be to move on. I don't mean forget it & find another guy. I mean develope a LIFE. Do your own thing. Keep up with or make friends, family, hobbies...

If it's meant to be, you 2 will reunite. If not than you have a support in place, and a life that will bring gratification, comfort & a chance for future romance.

We all wish for the one we love, but if he is determined than you have to be ready for that.

I do care what happens. Keep me posted.

posted October 13, 2006 04:23 PM            

After I read that, I suspected that he has a Venus-Uranus in hard aspect(conjunction,opposition,square,semisquare,
sesquiquadrate,quincunx) which can indicate needing independence in relationships and unpredictable love nature. It can be hard to to be in a long term relationship...especially marriage.

Sure enough...he has Venus conjunct and parallel Uranus. The good thing is that it's not tight like Liz Taylor who had Venus conj Uranus with 1 degree orb and married 8 times. His Venus conjunct Uranus within 6 degree orb.

Not much else to tell without birthtime,birthdate.

Just respect his need for space. He really does need it. I wish you luck. I am sorry that all this happened to you.

posted October 14, 2006 04:40 AM              

Just a little birth data for the two of us:

Me: March 9th 1972 London England 10.30am
Him: November 21st 1972 Glasgow Scotland 19.05pm

I think that he is already trying to build bridges.

He is now asking to keep in touch and keep talking. That he wants to work things out but he needs space.

You have no idea how much all of your kind words mean to me.

xxx

posted October 16, 2006 04:47 AM              

I just thought that I would give you an update after the weekend.

We have done a lot of talking (and crying) and we think that we can work out our differences. He said that he is committed to trying to make the relationship work, and although he wouldn't make any false promises, he feels that once he has had a little time we will be fine.

I am still moving out to give him the time and space he needs, and to be honest I think I need some 'me' time too now.

I just wanted to know if anybody can give me any trends for the future of our relationship.

Again our birth details are as follows:

Me: 9th March 1972 London UK 10.30AM
Him: 21st November 1972 Glasgow Scotland 19.05PM

posted October 16, 2006 11:50 AM              

I always thought that Pisces/Scorpio made a good match. So why is the relationship struggling?

posted October 16, 2006 12:06 PM            

Princess Diana was a Cancer,and Prince Charles was a scorpio. they had a match from hell.

Even though they had compatible sunsigns.

Princess Diana had Moon in Aquarius which indicates an emotional need for independence,Venus in Taurus which is sensual love placement,and Uranus in Leo for a t-square which is a very challenging aspect pattern. hers indicate strong independence challenges involving love and her emotional needs.

Prince Charles has Moon in Taurus which indicates emotional need for security. Therefore,they had Moon that were square by sign. That's not good for emotional/domestic compatibility and living together. His Sun in Scorpio formed a grand cross with Princess Diana's t-square. That's the most challenging configuration that you can have. It indicates incredible stress and tension in relationship...the fixed nature of the grand cross indicates stability,and they were married for over 10 yrs and had 2 children.

their synastry wasn't that compatible. Of course, Prince Charles was in love with another Cancer, Camilla Parker Bowles who has compatible Moon with Charles. her Moon is in Cancer. They are married now.

People with incompatible sunsigns can be compatible...they could have compatible moons,ascendants,venuses,and or/mars....at least of 2 of the big 3 compatible(Sun,Moon,Ascendant).

My girlfriend is an Aries,and I am a Scorpio

Our Moons are compatible(her Moon is in Scorpio,my Moon is in Pisces)

our ascendants are compatible(her Ascendant is in Pisces which same sign as my descendant and Moon and my Ascendant is in Virgo)

our Venuses are compatible(her Venus is in Taurus and my Venus is in Scorpio)

our Marses are compatible(her Mars is in Aries and my Mars is in Aquarius)

There is so much to look in synastry besides the sunsigns...that's only a small fraction of Astrology comparison.

I looked briefly at your synastry
You have compatible sunsigns,but ...you have other placements that are not compatible

Your Moons are incompatible(your Moon is in Capricorn which is an earthsign and his Moon is in Gemini which is an earth sign...so emotional needs are very different)

Your Ascendants are incompatible(your Ascendant is in Gemini an air sign and his Ascendant is in Cancer a watersign...so personas,how you approach life are very different)

so you have 2 out of the big 3(Sun,Moon,Ascendant) that are incompatible
because your Moons and Ascendants are incompatible. I always felt that Moon was more important for compatibility because that's the emotional nature,unconscious,nurturing,and domestic stuff.

Your Venuses are incompatible(your Venus is in Taurus and earthsign and his Venus is in Libra and airsign)the good thing is that both planets are disposited by Venus...Venus rules Taurus and Libra...so you share dispositor in common..that can help with compatibility. Venus in Taurus is sensual,materialistic but Venus in Libra is aesthetic,intellectual.

I also noticed quite a few quindeciles(165 degree aspect)that indicate obsessions and compulsions which suggest that it can be hard for you to break up and leave each other alone even if the relationship is bad.

Your boyfriend has Uranus square Ascendant/Descendant axis with 2'47 orb. That right there is a big indicator of a person who is independent and needs his space. This seems like a highly unpredictable person too. Especially with his moods(Uranus square Cancer Ascendant)and his Moon in Gemini indicates quicksilver changing detached emotions which can be superficial. There can be feelings of restlessness,being high strung. The Uranus square Ascendant/Descendant is also restless,highstrung. He requires independence,space in relationships...He is just very unpredictable in relationships. The independence,unpredictability is in conflict and stress with his persona and relationships. His Uranus in 5th,and that suggests unpredictable in romance...also...5th house is the house of children...I usually joke around to people who have Uranus in 5th to wear protection. This placement suggests that they can have unexpected children. You also have Uranus in 5th which also suggests that you have unpredictable romances and can have children unexpectedly. Unplanned pregnancies can fit well with Uranus in 5th. I am not saying that you had unplanned pregnancy. I am just saying that Uranus in 5th can suggest that due to the unpredictable factor with Uranus in 5th....also..you said your child died...both of you have Uranus in Scorpio which is the sign associated with death,and so that could be an indication that there can be unexpected death involving children. Another thing too....Uranus in Scorpio in 5th can indicate unexpected procreation too...Scorpio is the sign associated with sex and with uranus in scorpio being in 5th house of children..unexpected procreation.

His Venus conj Uranus in Libra in 5th indicates that he can have a love nature that is unpredictable in romantic affairs.

Transits

Transiting Uranus has been squaring his Moon in Gemini. That indicates that independence,unpredictability is in conflict with his emotional needs and relationships with women. This indicates that he is more emotionally unpredictable,restless,and feels a strong need for independence at this time. Transiting Uranus is square his Mercury in Sagittarius right now,and that indicates that independence,unpredictability is in conflict with his communications,thought processes. This indicates that he is more mentally unpredictable,restless,and has strong thoughts of independence. He has Moon in Gemini oppose Mercury in Sagittarius natally,and that indicates that his feelings/emotional needs are in conflict with his thinking/communications. His emotions can overpower his thinking and vice versa. a teeter totter thing. Transiting Uranus is squaring his Moon-Mercury opposition for a t-square. T-square is a very challenging configuration. A t-square with Uranus is very stressful due to it being an outerplanet which is transpersonal and it being unpredictable. This indicates that independence,unpredictability is in conflict with his emotional nature and thinking. He is just extremely restless with a lot of nervous tension right now. Transiting Uranus is conjunct his Midheaven,and that indicates his ambitions,social status are unpredictable.....transiting Uranus is oppose his Imum Coeli,and that indicates that his domestic life,unconscious is unpredictable.....so that's changes and space in his domestic life.

As you see.....Uranus is a huge factor in what's going on right now. Uranus is the planet of change,unpredictability,unconventional. It's a very restless,high strung,nervous tension when in hard aspects which your boyfriend has with his Ascendant natally and his Moon,Mercury,and Midheaven/IC axis via transits. There is no wonder he unexpected told you that he needs space. He really does need it...he needs his independence right now....he seems to be incredibly restless with a lot of nervous tension.
Your Saturn opposes his Sun with 1'19 orb,and that doesn't help either. This indicates that your discipline,structure,seriousness are at odds with his self expression,ego,and vitality. He might get the sense of being limited,restricted by you and that you put too much responsibility. I feel that's the most challenging aspect in your synastry with him. That's not a good thing with somebody that is strongly influence by Uranus...especially with the stressful Uranus transits that he has going on right

In declinations,transiting Uranus is parallel his Venus. This indicates unpredictability,unconventional,independence merging with his love nature and relationships right now. This can indicate being a restless,unconventional,independent lover......mainly being erratic in relationships. He already has that begin with..after all he has Venus conj/parallel Uranus in his natal chart. Transiting Uranus parallel his Venus is just adding to those issues and bringing them up out more so they are noticeable.

With Uranus, you never know what to expect. Uranus is just unpredictable. There is no way of telling what a person influenced by Uranus will do.

Honestly...I really don't like seeing all this Uranus activity. With him, you don't know what to expect.....that's what Uranus is all about....it's about change....especially sudden change.....it's like being struck by lighting.....it comes unexpectedly,without a moments notice,and makes changes.

He has retrograde Mercury conjunct Neptune,and that indicate possible communication issues that he has...it could indicate being easily misunderstood,misunderstanding others. It could indicate possible academic issues that could lead to feelings of not being smart...possibly Dyslexic....his mind is very nonlinear,restless,imaginative,receptive,intuitive,
thinking mainly in pictures,strong 3-Dimensional visualization ability(that's how I am with my Dyslexia)and can be confused with communications of a verbal kind(that's how I am with my Dyslexia too). I have similar placement(Neptune in Sagittarius in 3rd,Mercury parallel Neptune).

There is a possibility that his communications could involve deception...he could deceive and/or others could deceive due to him being possibly gullible.
I don't like judging people,and so I am not going to say for sure if he is.....the main thing is that his mind and communications is hard to pin down and he strongly needs to avoid miscommunications and needs to communicate clearly.

That's all I can tell you. I really don't want to get your hopes up either. Uranus is just way too unpredictable. You never know what to expect from anybody strongly influenced by Uranus.

keyword for Uranus: Liberation

posted October 16, 2006 12:17 PM            

quote:

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Of course, Prince Charles was in love with another Cancer, Camilla Parker

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posted October 16, 2006 12:31 PM            

I don't even own a sunsign book,and I have over 60 Astrology books.

posted October 16, 2006 01:38 PM            

information on double numbers

15 It is loving, forgiving, and extremely tolerant. It is responsible, successful, dynamic, and strong. It represents travel, adventure, and experimentation. This number can bring self-indulgence.

13 Hard work and slow progress, this Karmic Debt number is difficult but rewarding when enough effort is applied. Grounded and down-to-earth. Reliable, trustworthy, but sometimes rigid and
lacking a sense of humor.

LIFE PATH

If ever there was a moment of total transformation, it was the moment of your birth. In
that instant, you stepped through a door in time into a new reality -- the reality of human
life. The most important number in your numerology chart is based on the date of your
birth, the moment when the curtain goes up in your life.
Even at that moment, you were a person with your own unique character, as unique
as your DNA. Everything that is you existed in potential, much like a play that is about to
begin. Your entire life exists as a potential that has been prepared for. Pisces, you have
ultimate freedom to do with your life as you like: To fulfill its potential completely, or to
make some smaller version of yourself. It all depends upon your effort and commitment.
You make the decisions to fulfill, to whatever extent, the potential life that exists within
you. That is your choice. In this sense, the possible you is implicit during the moment of
your birth.
The Life Path number gives us a broad outline of the opportunities, challenges, and
lessons we will encounter in this lifetime. Your Life path is the road you are traveling. It
reveals the opportunities and challenges you will face in life. Your Life Path number is the
single most important information available in your Personality Chart!

Pisces, your Life Path is 13/4

Pisces, you are practical, down to earth with strong ideas about right and wrong. You
are orderly and organized, systematic and controlled, you are decisive and methodical
employing a step by step rational approach to problems solving. Once committed you do
not give up easily!
You are not one for "get rich quick" schemes. Rather you use hard work and long
hours to build a business or career; you seek to establish a solid foundation. Precise,
tenacious and persevering, you have great potential for success, but only after putting out
effort and overcoming the limitations you so often encounter. Justice and honesty are
sacred to you. You are reliable and dependable, a cornerstone in the community.
Though not an idealist, you are willing to work for a better world in a realistic way.
However, you can be rigid in your ideas and sometimes too quick in judging your fellow
man. You are loyal to those you love and work well with others. It is important that while
being part of a team you have your own responsibility and well- defined task, you perform
better when your responsibilities are not overlapping with those of others. You have to be
careful not to be bossy and rude. You possess rare discipline and perseverance and not

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everyone can keep up with you.
Pisces, you can handle money carefully and like the security of a nest egg.
Your love of work often leads you into a career early in life. Because of your methodical
nature you can easily become rigid and stuck in convention. You can also be overly
cautious when changes are necessary, this can cause you to miss opportunities that
present themselves. You must cultivate flexibility in your character. You are well suited
for marriage and often become a responsible loving parent. However, anything that
violates your profound sense of order, such as separation or divorce can be a shattering
experience for you. You easily become obsessed and even vengeful, seeking your own
definition of justice.
You are courageous and a true survivor. You are a builder and the foundation of any
enterprise. Your hard work and practical, traditional values pay off to provide you with the
rewards you seek and deserve.

Pisces, your 13 Life Path is somewhat burdened by the presence of a Karmic Debt.
Those with the 13 Karmic Debt will work very hard to accomplish any task. Obstacles
stand in their way, and must be overcome time and again. One may often feel burdened
and frustrated by the seeming futility of one's efforts there may be a desire to surrender
to the difficulties and simply give up on the goal, believing it was impossible to attain in
the first place. Some with the 13 Karmic Debt fall to laziness and negativity. But efforts
are not futile, and success is well within reach. One simply must work hard, and
persevere in order to reach the goal. Many highly successful people in all walks of life,
including business, art, and athletics, have a 13 Karmic Debt.

The key to succeeding wit the 13 is focus. Very often, people with the 13 Karmic Debt
do not concentrate or direct their energies in one specific direction, or on a single task,
but scatter their energies over many projects and jobs, none of which amount to very
much. A temptation wit the 13 is to take shortcuts for quick success. Too often, that easy
success doesn't come, causing regret and the desire to give up. The result is a poor
self-image, and the belief that one is incapable of amounting to very much.

In order to focus, you must maintain order in your life. Order is essential to success.
You must maintain a schedule, keep appointments, and follow through. Keep your
environment neat and under control, and never procrastinate. If you sustain a steady and
consistent effort, you will realize much reward.

Scorpio, your Life Path is 15/6

Scorpio, you possess great compassion and seek to be of service to others. You have
concern for the weak and the downtrodden. You are a healer and a helper to others. You
are capable of giving comfort to those in need and will frequently offer a shoulder for
others to cry on.

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 Your task in life is to develop the tools necessary to be truly helpful to others, rather
than to simply be a sympathetic ear. You must find the balance between help and
interference. In the same way, you must learn the delicate art of the counselor who
knows when to leave the struggle to others and when to avoid taking away the necessary
experiences and lessons of life.
You are naturally balanced. Therefore, you are well equipped to support and ground
others in times of trial.
It is in your nature to take on responsibility -- you often fill the void left by others -- and
do not turn away from personal sacrifice. At times, you may feel overburdened by the
travails of others. However, the love others bestow upon you is your well deserved
reward.
Scorpio, you try to maintain harmony within the family or group, balancing and fusing
divergent forces. You seek marriage and are often a wonderful parent, offering warmth,
protection, and understanding to children.
You are generous, kind, and attractive. You are often admired even adored which
baffles you. You are humble and yet you carry a deep pride. You move well and
gracefully, but will have to work to stay in shape. Seek out physical exercise and limit the
sweets and dairy you crave to keep yourself from becoming plump and round.
When young, you must be careful not to choose partners for the wrong reasons. Do
not let sentimentality influence your decision, especially those involving the choice of a
spouse. You need to be needed, but must learn to discriminate between those you can
help and others who are made weaker by your care.
After all, it is in your nature to be attracted to the weaker brothers and sisters among
us.
The temptation, and the danger for you, is to think of yourself as the savior of the
world, carrying the burdens of others on your shoulders.
Scorpio, you are blessed with musical talent, as well as in the visual and performing
arts. However, your creativity may well be suppressed due to your willingness to
sacrifice, or your inability to fully appreciate your talents. This is not to say that you
cannot excel in these areas; on the contrary, you have the talent, and with effort you can
make a success in a number of artistic fields.
You also have enormous talent in business. You are blessed with a great deal of
charm and charisma, which you use effectively to attract the people and support you
need.

Your Life Path's compatibility is 4 and 6

Pisces and Scorpio, your Life Path numbers are the most important numbers in your
charts, and, as such, their compatibility is very important to the well-being of your
relationship.

It is not all that common for these two numbers to “fall in love.” Although these numbers

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carry some common traits - the two of them are practical, grounded, and highly
responsible - they are rarely interested in each other. The four and the six are both
family-oriented numbers, with a strong sense of community and loyalty to others, but
they tend to compete where you might expect them to support each other. This is only
one aspect of your charts, but, quite possibly, the hardest to overcome at the onset of the
relationship. However, if support prevails over competition and you do become involved
in a romantic relationship, it will usually be a strong, comfortable alliance right from the
very beginning, an alliance that will, more often than not, last for a long time. It will be the
kind of relationship others recognize and view as indestructible. It is understood that
“Pisces and Scorpio are always together”, you make the “perfect couple” - those are
statements people around you wouldn’t even consider questioning.
This contradiction is explained by the fact that you have a lot in common in some ways
but, at the same time, you have some major differences to overcome.
As we mentioned, Pisces and Scorpio, the two of you are responsible and family
oriented. Your priorities have to do with the home, children, friends, stability and security.
You are both very loyal and protective of each other and of those you care about. It is in
the underlying energy and in the way you express it that you are very different. While
Pisces relies on structure, discipline, and control to protect, love and care for others,
Scorpio relies on love, sacrifice and forgiveness. Pisces is much less flexible and may,
at times, feel that Scorpio is too soft and forgiving. You make up a relationship typically
characterized as the disciplinary father and the soft mother, or vice versa.
For those around you, the impression is that Pisces is harder and less loving, while
Scorpio is pure love and gentleness. This is not an accurate perception, though.
Pisces’s love is no less strong than Scorpio’s - it is just not as openly expressed. When
push comes to shove, Pisces will fight and sacrifice just about anything to protect
Scorpio, the children, or anyone else who is part of Pisces’s life.

A certain danger exists when some of these attributes become too strong. Pisces’s
need for discipline and structure may, at some point, become too much for Scorpio,
suffocating and limiting Scorpio’s ability to express love easily and without fear. Another
possibility would be Scorpio becoming a bit of a doormat everyone takes advantage of,
which might lead Pisces to lose respect for Scorpio.
Pisces and Scorpio, you can, together, balance these opposites and maintain a strong
and lifelong relationship if you just remember that, deep inside, you value the same
things.

posted October 17, 2006 09:20 AM              

for Rebecca (female)
born on 9 March 1972 local time 10:30 am
in Littleborough, ENG (UK) U.T. 10:30
2w05, 53n39 sid. time 21:30:31

PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree
Sun Pisces 18°57'39 end of house 10
Moon Capricorn 1°54'44 in house 7
Mercury Aries 6°00'47 in house 11
Venus Taurus 2°35'36 in house 11
Mars Taurus 18°21'53 in house 12
Jupiter Capricorn 5°06'45 in house 7
Saturn Gemini 0°54'03 in house 12
Uranus Libra 17°24'52 in house 5
Neptune Sagittarius 5°15'16 in house 6
Pluto Libra 1°01'49 in house 5
True Node Aquarius 4°15'59 in house 9
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Gemini 28°49'43
2nd House Cancer 14°26'06
3rd House Leo 0°21'29
Imum Coeli Leo 20°13'20
5th House Virgo 20°01'23
6th House Scorpio 8°35'24
Descendant Sagittarius 28°49'43
8th House Capricorn 14°26'06
9th House Aquarius 0°21'29
Medium Coeli Aquarius 20°13'20
11th House Pisces 20°01'23
12th House Taurus 8°35'24

and Thomas (male)
born on 21 Nov 1972 local time 7:05 pm
in Greenock, SCOT (UK) U.T. 19:05
4w45, 55n57 sid. time 22:49:30

PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree
Sun Scorpio 29°34'51 in house 5
Moon Gemini 11°28'46 in house 12
Mercury Sagittarius 9°29'34 in house 6
Venus Libra 26°36'16 in house 5
Mars Scorpio 3°53'08 in house 5
Jupiter Capricorn 8°54'29 in house 6
Saturn Gemini 18°29'05 in house 12
Uranus Libra 21°08'33 in house 5
Neptune Sagittarius 4°46'51 in house 5
Pluto Libra 3°50'36 in house 4
True Node Capricorn 17°45'09 end of house 6
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Cancer 18°04'07
2nd House Leo 1°36'04
3rd House Leo 17°58'43
Imum Coeli Virgo 10°54'00
5th House Libra 17°02'43
6th House Sagittarius 8°08'29
Descendant Capricorn 18°04'07
8th House Aquarius 1°36'04
9th House Aquarius 17°58'43
Medium Coeli Pisces 10°54'00
11th House Aries 17°02'43
12th House Gemini 8°08'29

Composite Horoscope midpoint method

PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree
Sun Capricorn 24°16'15 in house 8
Moon Pisces 21°41'45 in house 10
Mercury Aquarius 7°45'11 end of house 8
Venus Cancer 29°35'56 in house 2
Mars Leo 11°07'30 in house 3
Jupiter Capricorn 7°00'37 end of house 6
Saturn Gemini 9°41'34 in house 12
Uranus Libra 19°16'42 in house 5
Neptune Sagittarius 5°01'04 in house 6
Pluto Libra 2°26'13 end of house 4
True Node Capricorn 26°00'34 in house 8
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.