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Topic: Any knowledge about cappies ? Answer please.
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mahvesafar
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posted October 13, 2006 05:55 AM
 
Why are cappies said to be cold, unromantic and unemotional in so many astrology sites and books ?
Is it true and is it true for all ? Just trying to understand a friend who is a cappy girl. So, please help. How do they compare to water signs like cancer or scorpio? IP: Logged |
kindjali
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posted October 13, 2006 07:57 AM
Cappy here.
Cappys are NEVER cold, remember that.
It is mask presented to outer world, but every Cappy has a volcano inside. They control it maybe better then other signs, "braking point" is high. But when it explodes it doesnt leave nobody alive  .
If you want woman, devoted and direct, that doesnt play games, somehow "raw" and realistic, it is right choice for you. Also, she must be princess, and to feel like that, more then other women.
If you are persistent, tolerant, flexible, and want somebody to stand beside you, you have find right match. She can love with whole heart, but she will never show you that . Part of her heart she will never show.One trick:
"Let her have rulling, and her pride, she needs time to notice that she doesnt have to apply that anymore, when she feel secure." K.
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illusions_fool
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posted October 13, 2006 08:42 AM
My brother's a Capricorn with Aries Rising. He does come across as cold and everybody thinks he's a jerk but with his Aries Rising [and Moon in Aries as well] he's probably more short tempered than the average Capricorn.~Rebekka IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted October 13, 2006 11:09 AM
because they are so in control.
they don't feel that way, thats just what we see.IP: Logged |
mahvesafar
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posted October 13, 2006 11:12 AM
Hi Kindjali,""She can love with whole heart, but she will never show you that . Part of her heart she will never show."" Why so? Well, don't you think that's wrong? Specially, if the partner is expressive and he sees no reciprocation. IP: Logged |
cappy
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posted October 13, 2006 12:00 PM
How long have you known her? Does she go out with you? If she is not expressive while you are, it may be a sign that she doesn't trust you yet to reveal herself to you. Deep inside, we are very vulnerable and everything else Kindjali said. If she sees you as someone that she can trust, someone who is not going to flip on her later, then you'll see her open up. IP: Logged |
mahvesafar
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posted October 13, 2006 01:00 PM
Hi cappy,OK! For a moment, let's forget about me and her. I'll tell you that later. I am asking about cappies in general. I can understand intial cautions. That's wise.
But do they open up once they are totally into a trusting relationship or if they are married? Or do they still keep hiding their feelings even from their spouses?(like kindjali said,"part of her heart she never tells"). IP: Logged |
scorpluv
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posted October 13, 2006 01:41 PM
Just my two cents here... I've been dating a Cappy for almost 4years and their initial reserve is a defense mechanism... The way to win a Cappy's trust is to be upfront and honest. Show this with your deeds and not your words. Words don't mean much to this people. Very similar to Scorpio's, they don't trust anyone and will put you through several tests to assess your trustworthiness. They always have this inate fear that their partner will prove unfaithful. It's horrible but Cappy's tend to be rather sensitive, though it doesn't seem that way. Actually, once you have gained their trust, they will always be there for you.Some of the best friends and lover's in the zodiac, contrary to what some may realize. Their ruled by Saturn and believe that nothing good in life comes easily. If you can understand that and show them respect, love and admiration, you will have your biggest ally in the war we call life... It took me a couple of years to realize that, but it has been worth it.... Hope that helps...TTFN IP: Logged |
mahvesafar
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posted October 13, 2006 02:12 PM
Thanks scorpluv,That helped a lot.
So you are a scorpio? I wonder if that also matters in your case. I am a Cancer sun and Leo moon, with best qualities of both(atleast i think so). I am told that cancer and capricorn are total opposite to each other and are not good for long term relation. This girl is Capricorn sun and aquarius moon. We get along very well for now. But actually, I was wondering if it's a good match for long-term relation like marriage.
That's why I am taking such interest in cappies. Hope someone with similar situation can shed some light. IP: Logged |
CrankyCap
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posted October 13, 2006 02:39 PM
I figured I could jump in on this one...I don't know about other Caps, but as a rule I don't show emotion - period. I don't know if it's an actual fear or a control thing, but unless someone has known me for years, you will rarely ever see me lose my cool. I don't cry in front of others, I don't jump around with excitement for no reason at all, and I don't yell in anger unless I've really been pushed. When it comes to matters of the heart I am always extremely cautious, although I have been fooled a couple times. I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop, and always searching for the one tragic flaw...like believing something is "too good to be true." I tend to be more physical than verbal. I'll laugh a lot, give a lot of hugs and kisses, or give little gifts just because. But as far as flowery declarations of love go - that's not my strong suit. It's very difficult for me to put words together to describe how I feel for someone other than the traditional I love you's or I adore you's, and those don't come quickly or easily either - when I say it I mean it, but you wouldn't typically hear it every day. Just remember that earth signs are physical - it's easier for us to "show" you how we feel rather than using words. It doesn't mean that they don't feel it, you just have to search for other signs. IP: Logged |
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posted October 13, 2006 03:02 PM
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kindjali
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posted October 13, 2006 03:25 PM
I like a Cappy must say something.
I have a lot of fire inside, but ppl still see me charismatic, cool and distant. Thats mask. I have Piscies Moon (I dont have to say more what is inside me). But I am still Cappy.There are 2 types of Cappy: "High" type and "Low" type. Many of them are afraid (Cappy woman example). that they use their coolness and pride, and have tremendous power to control things in their life.
Many of this woman get hard lessons in life, after which they trust to look inside herselfs. I had bad and good experience with one of this types, unfortunatelly, but I also met Cappy girls, which started to UNDERSTAND things after life experience.
I just hope that you found the one that is not afraid. K. P.S. Words have their weight if they are sincere. Cappy like direct words and communication. They dont have time for games.
And about showing it is really subjective to talk about that.
Some of them never get tired of getting attention and that can be exausting. We are at the end only humans, and like all persons we want something in return, atleast something.
For me, be: direct, sincere, tolerant, give as much as you can (but dont change essentials that keep you what you are).
Cappy girls like to pretend "mommys" to their partners (low types atleast) and they to control the partner and make them like they want. Never give them that pleasure. Cancer man are here especially in danger. If you want my opinion, that are not woman, these are energy vampires. But they change in life, sooner or later.
Real Cappy woman want strong man, who can be side by side with them. That is real Cappy woman.
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Luvly
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posted October 13, 2006 03:35 PM
All this testing that Capricorns put their significant other - is there anyone out there who just had enough of that and decided to drop the Cappy instead of continuing this?I'm dating a Cappy guy and I find this testing a bit much - I'm a Scorpio - I am being put through this so-called testing by the Capricorn - and I find myself even a bit offended that I am still being tested. If what I have not given thus far is not proof enough, then I don't know what to say - I would not want to even continue to dwell on this either - either it goes through without the testing or it is completely done with. Bit venting? Perhaps - but just not sure how great it is when two people test each other so much - and one person is ready to close the testing period and the other is not. IP: Logged |
Natural111
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posted October 13, 2006 03:45 PM
Also,
My brother, who is my best friend is a Cappy. Born Jan 15th. and I must say, I should get his birth time. I know where he was born, and do a full report on him because he's so unlike how Cappies are described in this forum. My brother is so warm and romantic. I mean, I'm more of a cappy than he is with my cappy rising. One chick, who definitely didn't deserve it, on their first date he packed a picnic basket with cheese and wine and fruit and took her to the park for a picnic. He's also done the same for other women. Though, on the flipside, once the wooing is over, then the romance stops. Like one mother's day a few years back, I bought gifts for all the mother's in the family. This included his wife. And do you know he claimed my gift as his own!  That night his wife called me and thanked me for helping him pick out the gift, it was excactly what she liked. And I was like, "you're so welcome." I mean, he is my best friend. I have his back, always. But, regardless, he's very affectionate towards his wife, children and even us, his sisters. I don't know. He's had nothing but women around him his whole life basically, so I'm thinking that's why he's so equalized. Masculine but tender. IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
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posted October 13, 2006 03:46 PM
hey I am a Cappy/gemini moon/cancer risingi come across as cold and distant to people i dont knw...or dont want to know... i take a long time to trust people...and like someone here said, actions speak louder than words for me. so until u win over my trust, u r constantly under observation.  well i like a cancer guy with sagi moon (the scenario is somewht similar to your...both our suns and moons r opp)...and i feel he is the perfect match for me. dont go by wht the books say...just follow your heart. it is important for me tht the guy understands my non-verbal cues...like how my eyes light up when i see him...or how much i try to be with him, tho i may not directly say so....and i find tht cancerians r adept at reading these hints. their only problem is tht they r very shy and indecisive. and we too being shy, tht doesnt help too much  nothing has happened yet between me and my cancerian guy, but believe me, i am atleast the bolder of the two. and once in a relnship, i am not afraid to show my emotions at all. i feel tht all us cappies r just waiting for the person to whom we can open up completely without any inhibitions. dont be afraid....they r not cold...i mean we r not cold. all we need is someone sensitive enuf to understand tht its just a mask...someone who has the patience and gentleness...someone who can be trusted completely...before we can let go well hope tht helped....is this girl a good friend of yours?
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kindjali
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posted October 13, 2006 03:53 PM
Well, I am "impulsive" Cappy. I dont test woman too much. I am easy going.I read posts of Cappy girls here and that is diference between male and female Cappys. Only one said something what I mentioned above. Cappy woman want weak male, because it is only way that they can truly show theirselfs as a woman. On contrary most Cappy male want strong woman to be their pair.
Only true Cappy woman doesnt want to exaust partner with constant testing and look their match. These are woman that trust their emotions and human nature. These woman have "depth".
So I ask you, why are so many lonely Cappy girls and womans that have broken marriages or they are alone?
Youll have the answer....
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InLoveWithLife
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posted October 13, 2006 03:56 PM
Hey hey !!i feel i need to defend us cappies a little !! mahvesafar, u with your leo moon shud hv a strong personality. and with your girl's moon in aqua, i dont think she will be the type to mother u/manipulate u. And yes, its very true, a 'high' type of cappy will want a strong BUT sensitive man. Hmmm...abt the testing. well if the cappy is intelligent enuf, the testing period is quite short. we dont take long to make up our minds. after tht its just a matter of waiting for the right moment. So Luvly, if you feel your cappy is testing u a bit too much, i think tht he is the insecure type. ILWL IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
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posted October 13, 2006 04:02 PM
The testing part depends on how much experience the person has of life and people ('depth') and also on the intrinsic nature of the person.I am reserved, even shy....but i hv loads of friends...and guess wht they didnt hv to go thru any testing at all! bcoz whn it clicks it just clicks. but whn its a question of love...u need to be a little more careful u r with the right guy...hence the initial caution. also depends on how open the other person is. if the other person acts all ahy and reserved, it takes longer to find out how much 'depth' they actually have. we cappies r quite nice actually... IP: Logged |
kindjali
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posted October 13, 2006 04:06 PM
InLove I agree with you, but there is one thing I find really annoying. But maybe i look subjective too much in that matter, it really depends what kind of person we are talking about and where are her planets.
It is so hard for Cappy woman to say "I forgive" or "Forgive me". That are essentialls of good relationship.K. IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
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posted October 13, 2006 04:12 PM
mahvesafar try to find out the ascendant of the girl...wht's yours ? it wud depend on tht too. if its a fire/water sign i think she shud be quite expressive. in fact, if u cud post birth data for both of u, then we will hv a much clearer picture. thr's a thread going on in the 'Soul Unions' forum where AND is doing free synsatry. ask her, she will be able to help u.IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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posted October 13, 2006 04:13 PM
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I am a Cancer sun and Leo moon
So You say you're a cancer...being a cancer myself:if I were you I'd leave this one alone. In this case, opposites repel.(Atleast thats my experience with Capricorn men)
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InLoveWithLife
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posted October 13, 2006 04:16 PM
well kindjali, i think it really depends on the person's planets i guess. i hv a lot of air in my chart, and i hv no issues saying sorry. in fact, i overdo it sometimes
no problems forgiving either...i am quite patient and calm actually. No ego hassles at all, actually. IP: Logged |
kindjali
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posted October 13, 2006 04:26 PM
Nice to her that, you are then HIGH type I am Saggy ASC, Piscies Moon, Sagg Mars, Cappy Merc and Aquarius Venus...not typical Cappy. Much fire. I ve been with Cancer ASC, Sag Merc, Venus in Scorpio and moon in Aries. Nice?
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CrankyCap
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posted October 13, 2006 04:29 PM
Two corrections here: Caps are "cautious" - not testing, and they are "reserved" - not cold. I've never purposely tested anyone, but I have held back on showing my true feelings until I've deemed someone trustworthy. I also have difficulty putting on public emotional displays of any kind, but that's not to say that I never have private crying sessions when I'm alone. I've also got a pisces moon which helps me tremendously in being empathetic towards the emotions of others. I also wanted to add that I do not think all Cap women prefer weak men. I absolutely despise that trait in a man. The minute I see that I can boss him around or walk all over him, I lose all respect. I've always been drawn to strong men with an air of authority about them, and I've got both sun and mars in Cap. And as far as "warm earth sign Taureans" are concerned...I've had experience (since birth) with my double Taurus mom and in a 3 year relationship with a double Taurus male. Believe me, they can DEFINITELY be as callous, emotionally reserved, and cautious as their fellow earth signs. IP: Logged |
kindjali
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posted October 13, 2006 04:38 PM
Hmmm, we really got wraped in explaining Cappies
Well, at the end, no matter where planets stand, it is all about experience, looking at life and yourself that make you what you are, no matter if you are Cappy, Aries, Leo or something else.Just be good to yourself and others, and never do to somebody else what you dont want that somebody do to you. K. IP: Logged | |
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