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breakfast on pluto
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posted October 14, 2006 10:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi again...

i have an aqua male friend but just friend for 6 months..and we see and talk each other one a day or 2-3 a week..i have warm feelings to him..i think he is..but there are some problems..he was in depression.we work in some company and he is not happy for his job so he will leave in january 2007..let's come our relation..we had same friend but we did not know each other and when we met we are surprised..and for the last 6 months he has coming my office and talk our life,interests and future dreams..sometimes i call him and say'hello;how are you today' and i realized that when i ask for him he is very happy...and as an aqua he loves his freedom so much and for this reason he will leave his job and will find a better job...
2 months ago he was happy his life but i realized that he only leave spontane and i decided to say something meaningfull about life..he drunk so much and did not want more his life..and until last 2 months i was cold too much him..when again he was come to me and talk i said to him :' your life may be better;you are good;dont waste yourself' he was shocked...and i could not believe he affected from these words ..and then i have seen him su unhappy..in this duration we saw each other and talk to manyn things..i realized that he begun to change...he changes his life;nearly job;and interests...and last week i called him and said' you are unhappy;what is your problem;are yo in dperession'..he said to me' you are right;i have problems..'and then he made an origami ship and gave me he brought my office...i like that..and i give some songs...that is nice..

so some of you know;i have interwiev last week..it was good but result will be in 2 weeeks..and he know that and support about my interwiev...

i really want to sure his feelings..beacuse he start to effect me..he is ery sensitive but shy..i know a lot of things and read aqua men..i love them..especially his friendship..i have many libra air elements in my chart also..

but how can i go one more step..or should i wait and see the flow...he was really unhappy and may not be love..but i dont know..we are care each other above the friendship but can not go one more step..we are in same company so this is a problem.another problem is his life is changing and mine is changing..but he is really worth it..

i am sorry such a long mail..i really care about your advices and thoughts..thank you..here is mine and his birthday..

thank you..

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breakfast on pluto
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posted October 14, 2006 10:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
breakfast:

Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Scorpio 27°03'29 in house 12 direct
Moon Aries 14°19'41 in house 4 direct
Mercury Scorpio 7°36'23 in house 11 direct
Venus Libra 24°04'03 in house 10 direct
Mars Sagittarius 27°51'41 in house 1 direct
Jupiter Libra 4°10'41 end of house 9 direct
Saturn Libra 6°43'17 in house 10 direct
Uranus Scorpio 25°56'00 end of house 11 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 21°28'04 in house 1 direct
Pluto Libra 23°02'37 in house 10 direct
True Node Leo 14°25'54 in house 8 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Sagittarius 16°31'55
2nd House Capricorn 20°53'29
3rd House Aquarius 29°54'00
Imum Coeli Aries 5°36'13
5th House Taurus 3°52'01
6th House Taurus 26°28'28
Descendant Gemini 16°31'55
8th House Cancer 20°53'29
9th House Leo 29°54'00
Medium Coeli Libra 5°36'13
11th House Scorpio 3°52'01
12th House Scorpio 26°28'28

aqua:

Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Aquarius 17°29'46 in house 10 direct
Moon Pisces 6°14'28 in house 11 direct
Mercury Pisces 4°30'45 in house 11 direct
Venus Aquarius 2°39'11 in house 10 direct
Mars Aquarius 29°32'42 in house 11 direct
Jupiter Libra 10°08'15 in house 6 retrograde
Saturn Libra 9°28'29 in house 6 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 29°47'24 in house 7 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 24°12'35 in house 8 direct
Pluto Libra 24°18'40 in house 6 retrograde
True Node Leo 10°54'51 in house 4 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Taurus 14°46'58
2nd House Gemini 13°03'14
3rd House Cancer 5°06'16
Imum Coeli Cancer 26°48'28
5th House Leo 22°40'49
6th House Virgo 28°21'44
Descendant Scorpio 14°46'58
8th House Sagittarius 13°03'14
9th House Capricorn 5°06'16
Medium Coeli Capricorn 26°48'28
11th House Aquarius 22°40'49
12th House Pisces 28°21'44


note:i dont know his time so i take noon for him..asc can be diffrent for him..

thank you..

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breakfast on pluto
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posted October 14, 2006 04:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump!

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DayDreamer
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posted October 14, 2006 07:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Transit-wise...

transiting Saturn was opposite his Sun, and is close to being opposite his Mars.

transiting Neptune is exactly conjunct his Sun.

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breakfast on pluto
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posted October 15, 2006 03:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
any other idea?

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DayDreamer
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posted October 15, 2006 05:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Those transits were to help explain why you might feel depressed.

Relationships wise...your sun signs are square, so that can be a cause of friction.

But there is an attraction. From what I see some of the attracting factors are:

His Mars trine your Venus
His Sun sextile your Moon
His Pluto conjunct your Venus (everyone his age would have their Pluto conjunct your Venus)
His Moon/Mercury trine your Mercury
Your Mars sextile his Sun
Your Venus trine his Sun


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but how can i go one more step..or should i wait and see the flow...he was really unhappy and may not be love..but i dont know..we are care each other above the friendship but can not go one more step..we are in same company so this is a problem.another problem is his life is changing and mine is changing..but he is really worth it..

Im not good with dealing out relationship advice. You say he is really worth it...so you probably already know your answer...to go that one extra step.

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breakfast on pluto
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posted October 16, 2006 02:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DayDreamer;

thank you...these are great..today we talked and he said to me:'when you last day said to me;you are in depression i feel good in the night;you shocked to me;i need that!'that is interesting..

take care...

breakfast

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