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Topic: Strange turn on?
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CrankyCap Newflake Posts: 0 From: Ohio Registered: May 2009
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posted October 17, 2006 02:06 PM
I had a very strange revelation this past weekend...I've got a weird fetish. Violence!!!??? Over the weekend I decided to go see the new Scorsese movie The Departed. I'm a huge Scorsese fan, and I was definitely NOT disappointed. However, I left the theater feeling overwhelmingly anxious, hot, and bothered. I couldn't get parts of the movie out of my head for hours either. This isn't the first time a movie has put me in this frame of mind either. I've always gotten very turned on by violent, organized crime oriented films. The more powerful and aggressive the male characters - the hotter I get. Ray Liotta in Goodfellas (hot!), Al Pacino in Scarface (yummy!), Michael Madsen in Reservoir Dogs (delectable!), James Caan in The Godfather, now it's Leo D. in the Departed...the list goes on and on. I only just made the connection this weekend. What I'd like to know is if there is anything in my chart that would indicate such a strong attraction to these primal, aggressive, violent characters??? I'm guessing it might have something to do with my mars placement (Capricorn), but Cap doesn't seem to fit the bill so much. I would imagine it would be more fitting if my mars were in a fire sign. Are there any other indicators that anyone knows about? I'm very curious... IP: Logged |
scorpluv unregistered
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posted October 17, 2006 04:28 PM
Hey CrankyCap, I don't know about the violence as a turn on but I do know about man aggression that turns me on... lol Case in point, my Cappy was talking to me about an argument w/a co-worker he had last week. While he's explaining what happened, I could hear the tension and anger in his voice and I have to say that it turned me on like you wouldn't believe... lol So your guess is as good as mine... How have you been holding up? IP: Logged |
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posted October 17, 2006 04:46 PM
CrankyCap,I suspect that it isn't so much the "violence" that you find to be a turn-on as the raw mammalian energy of the characters. It's that "man's man" take care of business thing. I can't say I agree about Leonard DiCaprio, but with regard to Ray Liotta and Michael Madsen I totally understand. They are the grab you and kiss you sort. Plus, they're trouble which can be very attractive. I have moved on to quiet, more sensitive men, but there was a time..... Tinasparkle IP: Logged |
teaologist unregistered
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posted October 17, 2006 06:43 PM
Hmm ... one of my friends is always talking about her favorite fantasy: angry sex. As in, wrist grabbing, cussing, pushing up against walls ... meanwhile engaging in varying states of undress.I dunno how her chart relates though. She has Venus in Scorpio sextile Mars in Cap. Her Mercury and Uranus are conj. in Scorpio. Must be the Scorp influence? IP: Logged |
CrankyCap Newflake Posts: 0 From: Ohio Registered: May 2009
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posted October 17, 2006 07:28 PM
Thanks for the replies. I think tsparkle is onto something there - the pure male aggression thing. That's a big part of it. I love the vulgarity, the hostility, the agression, and though I hate to admit it - the mysoginistic way about them. Teologist - That was funny how you described your friend's fantasy. I can DEFINITELY relate to that! I've also got Venus in Scorp sextile mars in Cap. Maybe there's something to that...My moon is in the 8th house as well, so it's possible that it's the scorp influence, but I've always read that you can tell what a woman looks for in a man (what turns her on) by her mars placement, and Cap just doesn't make sense to me. Any other suggestions??? IP: Logged |
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posted October 17, 2006 08:10 PM
Angry sex? Lmao that's a pretty nifty term, lol.IP: Logged |
teaologist unregistered
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posted October 17, 2006 08:25 PM
Bwahaha! *winks*Well, honestly, I haven't got a clue what I'm talking about... BUT My friend's Eros is also in Scorp conj. her Asc. What I read on cafeastro is: When Eros is prominent in the chart (for example, if Eros is conjunct the Ascendant, or if it conjuncts the Sun, Moon, Venus, or Mars), Eros themes are strong in the individual's life. Often, the individual oozes sexuality in some way. The mind is often focused on sex and infatuation. Perhaps you should check your Eros placement? Awwwwwwwwesome movie, btw. Dignam: I'm the guy that does his job. You must be that other guy. IP: Logged |
and unregistered
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posted October 18, 2006 01:51 AM
I like my men strong, gentle, and aggressive. I also like it when they can put me in my place but also make me feel like a princess at the same time.Aries Moon/Virgo Sun/Leo Venus ------------------ "WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted October 18, 2006 04:15 AM
Quote...<<<Hmm ... one of my friends is always talking about her favorite fantasy: angry sex. As in, wrist grabbing, cussing, pushing up against walls ... meanwhile engaging in varying states of undress.<<< Me too....Venus, Neptune, Sun, Mercury and Jupiter in
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GeminiLover75 unregistered
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posted October 18, 2006 04:26 AM
Hmmmm... well. I'm just wondering what the most accurate indicators of sexual tastes would be? Personally I always liked a certain amount of aggression... but also a soft and gentle approach too. Or the evil/sexy combination. I seem to vary all over the place. Lately my Mars in Pisces seems to be more in the forefront - ie liking the emotional connection and gentleness more than anything else. Weird. So how would a natal chart indicate any of this? Obviously the Mars placement, but what else? I'm very interested in this topic! IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted October 18, 2006 04:39 AM
Gem loverI too relate to what you say...!!! I have a sun/neptune conjunction and love the gentle approach too, depending on my mood, I am also overly romantic...but then on another day I like the "roughness" too (I have Aries on the ascendant). I have heard it say that Jupiter in Scorpio can be very sexual? A good balance of female and male energies maybe? Interesting subject, for sure... IP: Logged |
Cappadora Newflake Posts: 0 From: Sacramento, CA, USA Registered: Sep 2009
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posted October 18, 2006 05:37 AM
Perhaps the cusps of the 5th (what you find romanitically exciting), and 8th (what you need for deep intimacy) houses could shed some light on this issue. For example, I've got Aries on the 5th ruled by mars in Leo, and I must say that an aggressive, passionate, raw animal magnetisim, 'angry hot guy' thing always reels me in at first. There's just something swoon worthy about a guy that's not afraid to get in there and get stuff done- with force if nessesary. Cancer on the 8th, however, also wants my man to be tender, protective, and sensitive to my needs...*sigh* ------------------ Cappadora IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75 unregistered
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posted October 18, 2006 06:03 AM
You must be a Sag ascendant, Cappadora? What you said makes sense to me, because I too have Aries on the cusp of the 5th and Cancer on the cusp of the 8th and what you said does describe me!Oh, I just read that Mars in Pisces is why I'm so changeable in my tastes... Back later...
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Cappadora Newflake Posts: 0 From: Sacramento, CA, USA Registered: Sep 2009
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posted October 18, 2006 06:25 AM
You guessed right GeminiLover. I'm a Sag rising for sure. It's interesting that your user name expresses your love for your Dsc sign...------------------ Cappadora IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75 unregistered
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posted October 18, 2006 06:34 AM
Yep... although my Gemini man might drive me insane sometimes he does possess all the qualities I look for in a partner, just like the cusp of my 7th (Dsc) indicates! I can't help it but be attracted to Gemini's! How about you? IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted October 18, 2006 06:52 AM
Cappadora, Geminilover, here's another one, I too am Cancer Moon/8th, Venus in Aries/5th, Sag ascendant conjunct Mars. Men for me like travel, friends, music.I believe the macho guy thing has to do with the visual, many wear less clothing on more defined bodies. It's strictly physical. Me, I'm more emotional. Natasha Taurus/Cancer IP: Logged |
alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 40 From: Somewhere over the rainbow Registered: May 2009
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posted October 18, 2006 07:38 AM
Definitely look at Mars transits...for attraction, maybe in aspect to venus..because i know that the Sun/Mars/Venus are a stellium at the moment, in Libra..maybe they're contacting something in your chart to set it off... What you've recentely become attuned to within the past weekend, Ive been like my whole life :-P...and I'm heavily influenced by Mars/Pluto. So yea. *saunters away*
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Maire31 Newflake Posts: 10 From: here there and everywhere Registered: May 2009
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posted October 18, 2006 08:03 AM
Holy smokes! I just read thru this thread and my, my it evoked lots of thoughts/images!!!!Without going into personal predelections...(that Virgo rising prude thing, lol) I will say that I have Aries Sun conj Merc/8th trine Leo Mars/11th; Pisces Venus/6th opp Virgo Uranus/12; Cap Eros/5th trine Virgo Juno/1st; Pluto sitting right on my Asc. I remember someone posting something about Virgo's having a secret side...maybe that madonna/***** thing??? ::wicked grin:: Man, who even needs coffee this morning after reading thru this, LOL! Enjoy the day!
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BlueEyes24 unregistered
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posted October 18, 2006 08:40 AM
"one of my friends is always talking about her favorite fantasy: angry sex. As in, wrist grabbing, cussing, pushing up against walls ... meanwhile engaging in varying states of undress."Me too! And I have Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Capricorn, also. IP: Logged |
Lialei unregistered
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posted October 18, 2006 09:05 AM
"one of my friends is always talking about her favorite fantasy: angry sex. As in, wrist grabbing, cussing, pushing up against walls ... meanwhile engaging in varying states of undress."I thought most everyone has this fantasy at times. They don't? I just assumed it was a common sexual fantasy. IP: Logged |
CrankyCap Newflake Posts: 0 From: Ohio Registered: May 2009
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posted October 18, 2006 09:15 AM
Okay, now I have a new theory. After reading more of these posts I'm beginning to think that maybe this turn on isn't so unusual after all. Society however, seems to have made us weary of embracing these types of characters.I think in the last 30 years or so, men have become virtual wimps. They're probably scared of letting their testosterone take over because they've been raised to believe that it's wrong or that a woman could sue them. I'm a big believer in women being women and men being men. Equal rights are wonderful, but unfortunately they've blurred that line. Most guys I meet want me to call them first. They basically need a fog horn blown in their ear to prompt them to kiss me. Where are the men that will just grab you by the back of your head with a fist full of hair and pull you in for a deep, strong kiss, then whisk you off behind a building, pull up your skirt and....well, you get the picture. Has anyone actually met a character like this? I've come close, but never quite like that. I think the bottom line is...WE WANT REAL MEN BACK!!! IP: Logged |
Maire31 Newflake Posts: 10 From: here there and everywhere Registered: May 2009
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posted October 18, 2006 09:26 AM
Hey Cranky -I think there are plenty of them out there. I've got one now. Been with him since December '05 and I STILL can't get enough of him physically but otherwise he's soooo unstable. I don't believe we can have it all...sigh. IP: Logged |
teaologist unregistered
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posted October 18, 2006 12:30 PM
YES YES dammit. Crankycap, I know whatcha mean.I shared a bed with one guy I really liked. We were fully clothed but huddled under one blanket. Our faces were like 5 inches away from each other. We cast long romantic glances into each other's eyes. He touched my hair. I was (and am still) completely infatuated with him. I wanted to pounce on him, but he turned to his other side, tryna look sexy n crap. His back looked seriously inviting, but it's not my job to make the first damn move. Nothing happened that night except for the stupid long romantic glances into each other eyes. I haven't seen the guy in over 3 months. That night will haunt me forever. I should've 'taken advantage' of him when I had the chance. Mars in Taurus 5th House ruled by Scorpio Jupiter/Uranus/Neptune in the 5th Eros in Aries IP: Logged | |