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Librarian
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posted October 19, 2006 07:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a libra ( 10/09/80 east meadow ny 4:36 am )
and she is a Leo ( 08/01/81 east meadow ny 4pm )

and she has the darndest time trusting me. It just so happens that we work together ( i know ouch) and sit right next to each other as partners (doh) and whenever female coworkers come by me being the friendly guy that I am just talk to them. I can feel this pulsating laser like heat on my neck and as soon as I turn around I can see that she is angry with me. Now I wont talk to any females at work (its hard because I like to kid around) and she feels as if I am doing it because of her and wants me to be normal. I haven't known her long only a few months, but
I really feel a connection to her and want her around all the time. She still continues to talk to her ex boyfiends (bothers me a bit but not to this extreme) but I cannot talk to another female, not even my best friend (whom she knows is engaged and also works there) What are some tips to dealing with this phenomenon, because after all this I am really falling in love with this lady. I haven't ever dated a leo fem before and honestly she is pretty much everything I ever wanted. She sings, and I play piano, we both have similar interests in things and agree on just about everything. She and i have alot in common...we both even like the smell of gasoline lol....our first date we went gas sniffing haha....anyway to the point. what should I do because I dont like her feeling this way but I don't want to feel like i am being castrated at the same time...can someone anyone please help me out. I want to be with this lady and I really feel like she is the one otherwise I wouldnt waste my time, I want to nip this in the bud now so we can get to the good parts....only good thing about those disagreements is the "make up time" which is so intense...OMG she is on "fire" if you catch my drift which really makes it fun to work around someone like that...but I am at a loss...please help!
Thank you all.

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Librarian
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posted October 19, 2006 09:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
also I was wondering do we have good synastry? what do the stars say about us?

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william
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posted October 19, 2006 10:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
checked out your composite chart.
sun is conjunct venus show the intense feelings of love .venus is semisquare to pluto which can increase the sexual intensity but can allow unconscious dynamic into the empotional mix.mercury/moon conjunctio is sextile to uranus,giving very good communication between you to,also adds general excitement and means you two are always interested ineach others opinions.jupiter/saturn conjunction tendss toward a longterm outlook.
the problems probably come from neptune square the moon/mer conjunction.this makes for suspicious thoughts.unfortunately it makes me think that her actions could be a reflection of her thoughts[thats a opinion].
also if she is this way ,it is going to get worse over the next month.she might chill out by december.
william

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Librarian
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posted October 20, 2006 12:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks what did you mean about her actions turn to thoughts....should I lay low and not spend as much time with her for the next month. We just had a heart to heart ( talking to her is really easy I am finding...really interesting) She just wants to see that I respect her and I do so I will cut short my interactions with the females in the office that seem to like me. Why is it that when you are single all the people that never paid you any attention come out of the woodwork...anyway thanks. This is the best connection that I have had with a woman and it feels "right" between us. I guess what you looked up confirms that so cool thanks!

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wilsontc
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posted October 20, 2006 02:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Librarian,

You said:

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She still continues to talk to her ex boyfiends (bothers me a bit but not to this extreme) but I cannot talk to another female...She just wants to see that I respect her and I do so I will cut short my interactions with the females in the office that seem to like me

Your friend has least aspected (strong energy) Libra (relationships) modifying Pluto (transformation, also control) focused in the 10th house (duty, also authority). This indicates she has a challenge in "connecting in" to her control energy and so she OVERcontrols situations in order to "feel" in control. The challenge for her is to SHARE control in relationships.

I know you have had a talk, but has she indicated she ALSO is going to give up talking to HER boyfriends/friends? If not, why not? Why should YOU have to give up your social time with people of the opposite sex if she is not willing to do the same? Setting up a relationship based on someone controlling your life will most likely end in disaster: either she will get bored and leave because you are so easy to push around, or you will get frustrated and leave because she robs you of your power of social choice.

Since she has Leo (self-expression, also dating) modifying North node (future goals) focused in the 8th house (transformation, also control, sex), it is not surprising that the "dating sex" is great. But are you willing to give up control of your social life for the benfit of "hot sex"?

Asking questions,

Tim

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Jan_A
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posted October 20, 2006 05:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The synastry is good- 8 Conjunctions Probably you have more in common with her than with anyone in your family.

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sue g
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posted October 20, 2006 05:26 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it possible for you NOT to work so closely together......

It feels too intense somehow....

I met my husband at work, but when the relationship was in full swing, I left and got a job elsewhere. I couldnt concentrate on my work...he kept grabbing me and trying to get me into the broom cupboard and stuff... It was bloody great, but tooooo distracting!!!

Maybe you could consider it, at least then you could still talk to all the women....

Good luck !!!!!

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Librarian
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posted October 25, 2006 07:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well we talked about it and she is going to stop talking to the other guys. She actually asked me to be her boyfriend today. That was a big surprise because she was so against being steady. I thought it was funny but didn't laugh because she is really sensitive. She is moving her seat next week, other people are starting to wonder and our boss asked her if she liked me because she smiles at me alot ( who doesn't haha) Anyway we discussed it and she felt as if I was doing her a disservice by entertaining the other women and not really entertaining her. It doesn't help that my best friend ( a female virgo 09/10/81 san diego california don't know the time) works with us and we joke around all the time. My potential girlfriend conveyed that she wanted the relationship that me and my friend have. It's weird becaus e my friend is getting married but she feels as if we like one another. I explained to her that we are just close friends. Though she is beautiful I do not look at her like that but more like a sibling. I always wanted a sister and she feels like that to me. Perhaps in another life but it is nice. I enjoy what I have with my "lady friend" but dont want to not be able to talk to my friend friend. So we talked about that and decided that there will be a limit. But she still has to learn how to control her jealousy. I was told if your father cheats on your mom and you are brought up in the household it could have an effect like this on you also and that was the case with her. So i guess we will just have to wait and see....

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26 male
Sun Libra
Moon Libra
Venus Virgo
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Libra
Ascendant Virgo

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