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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted October 19, 2006 10:23 PM
  
I was wondering what exactly does that mean if two people have a composite sun in the 6th house. It doesnt seem to mean anything good  , but I was wondering if there is a chance for it to be anything serious and long term. Thank you everyone
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posted October 19, 2006 10:39 PM
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posted October 19, 2006 10:43 PM
Lol thats the interesting thing, we have very strong composites and then some really unfortunate negative ones involving Saturn and Neptune, which i certainly do see... we have a lot of feelings of dissillusionment...bah hamburg lol! Somedays i wanna just let everything go with the flow. And then my Scorpio moon kicks in and i wish to control everything. Wats and even better thing is my bf knows he was born at 11:50+ some minutes...11:55 would put is in a composite of 7th house which is way better, but 11:56 would put us in 6th (i think from my calculations)...im fascinated by wat a difference a minute makes. And then the question comes up of how accurate was the doctor's watch say 20 years ago in another country...------------------
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posted October 22, 2006 03:36 PM
BornUnderDioscuri -I'm thinking the Composite Sun in the 6th would feel duty-bound. If either person starts to feel like they have an obligation to stay, rather than staying out of love and free will, that Sun in the 6th won't make things any easier. Also, you are a Gemini, so I'm thinking, your Sun would feel comfortable with this, but the other person might or might not.
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posted October 23, 2006 08:46 PM
Thats what im worried about, both my bf and I are Geminis...i would never stay out of obligation, but i worry he might, that whole moon in Capricorn of his makes him take responsibility to the next level...i would never want to be strung along like that though. Sigh------------------
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posted October 24, 2006 08:36 AM
Remember, the composite house location indictaes the atmosphere or environment that the couple will be existing within, its neither good or bad in and of itself, its like living in an area where it rains all the time, you can't change the weather, you can only learn to adjust to it or move somewhere else. Its true, the 6th house can be one of the more difficult placements for a couple's composite Sun, because it indicates that there is not an equality of giving and taking in thier relationship. In other words, one of them will be short-changed in this relationship; giving everything, while the other just takes. There is danger here of resentment building over time, because no one likes to always be the one giving in a relationship. Questions about what each of you is actually getting from your relationship will arise and create discord. The only key to this relationship is one of you accepting the situation and becoming in essence the servant of the other. That’s very hard to handle on an ego level, unless you can come to understand that service is the highest form of faith. It’s a rough road to travel for anyone, but one that can cause tremendous growth in the person serving the other. If you consider life a one time shot, the payback for such behavior is not there, however if you believe that your spiritual growth over many lifecycles depends upon your faith and actions, you may be able to handle it. The point to remember is that what you do, you do for your own spiritual growth, not for the other person. They merely provide the means to the end. Lanny IP: Logged |
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posted October 24, 2006 07:32 PM
Thank you Lanny but thats the annoying part, hes a moon in Capricorn he craves power, and im a moon in Scorpio i crave power more...and while i tend to compromise a LOT more cuz of my asc Libra, i dont like it at all so i start resenting him...a lot...a lot a lot...and yet for some strange forsaken reason he is the one who thinks that he gives and I take...which im not 100% denying. It is true im more of the taker, but also when i give i feel unapreciated. I could never ever be the "servant" its just one of my worst nightmares, never gonna happen...same with him...which is precisly what i was worried about because I love him with all my heart and he loves me and from the beginning I have never met anyone who is so much like me and gets me so much...which is why i proceed to be rather depressed for a while...i feel im fighting a loosing battle. And considering tht i have always been fascinated with relationships ( i want to be a marriage counselor) I cannot get myself to give up because I will feel like a failure in life...ugh sucks doesnt it------------------
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posted October 24, 2006 08:17 PM
Your problem partly stems from the way you see your options, kind of like GWB's stay the course or cut and run view of the world.Relationships come into our lives so that we have the opportunity to grow our awareness and build our character. The composite is what it is, you can't change it's meaning. You just need to come to an understanding of if in the long run, its best for you and him. It sounds to me like neither of you is apt to change your views and needs, and at some point you both need to ask yourselves, whats the best move for you to take. You actually may have given each other all that you can in this relationship, and if it still isn't enough for either of you, you need to move on. Moving on isn't always quiting, sometimes its coming to grasp with reality; something GWB still hasn't been able to do. There may also be other options open to the way you structure your relationship, that offers an opportunity for growth and enrichment. Just remember, its not the environments fault, it is what it is, no more no less. good luck, Lanny IP: Logged |
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posted October 24, 2006 10:12 PM
Thank you so much, maybe there is hope to do something. I actually am up for changing my ways...i tried many things and it does work for the most part, take some time though...trust is the issue sometimes i wonder if its all worth it?IP: Logged | |
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